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Battle Hymn Of The Tiger Mother Essay

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Tigers Kill The Innocent Eastern and Western culture proves to be different in many ways. There are many controversial ideas that accompany this cultural divide. In Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua, she discusses the differences between Eastern and Western parenting styles. Eastern parents are known to be strict, stringent and disciplinarian when it comes to their children. They are popularly known as tiger parents. Western parents are seen as liberal, easy going, and known to encourage creativity. At the start of her book Chua writes about her tiger mother method and effectively bashes Western parenting for being unsuccessful, however by the end of the book she begins questioning herself and realizes she must adhere to an …show more content…

Her children could not attend a sleepover, have a playdate, be in a school play, choose extracurricular activities, or play an instrument besides piano or violin. If everyone plays only the piano or violin, there would be no Jimmy Hendrix or Kurt Cobain. We cannot evolve musically if everyone plays the same instruments. Forcing a child into a specific extracurricular and not letting them find their own passions, robs their individuality and may possibly hold them back from greatness. Also not letting a child attend playdates or sleepovers deprives them of much needed social skills. Being social is a very crucial part of life, and success for that matter. If you have a brilliant child who goes to an ivy league school and graduates at the top of the class, that definitely opens doors. However, it wont matter when they go to their first job interview and completely mess it up because they have a lack of social skills and cannot work with people. Locking your child up and banning them from having a social life will set them apart from their piers. They will feel singled out and uncomfortable because they do not know how to be around people. It is the social experience you gain from a sleepover or a playdate that can stay with you until adulthood. Letting children have a taste of real unsheltered life will prepare them for the world of adulthood and give them

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