Tigers Kill The Innocent Eastern and Western culture proves to be different in many ways. There are many controversial ideas that accompany this cultural divide. In Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua, she discusses the differences between Eastern and Western parenting styles. Eastern parents are known to be strict, stringent and disciplinarian when it comes to their children. They are popularly known as tiger parents. Western parents are seen as liberal, easy going, and known to encourage creativity. At the start of her book Chua writes about her tiger mother method and effectively bashes Western parenting for being unsuccessful, however by the end of the book she begins questioning herself and realizes she must adhere to an …show more content…
Her children could not attend a sleepover, have a playdate, be in a school play, choose extracurricular activities, or play an instrument besides piano or violin. If everyone plays only the piano or violin, there would be no Jimmy Hendrix or Kurt Cobain. We cannot evolve musically if everyone plays the same instruments. Forcing a child into a specific extracurricular and not letting them find their own passions, robs their individuality and may possibly hold them back from greatness. Also not letting a child attend playdates or sleepovers deprives them of much needed social skills. Being social is a very crucial part of life, and success for that matter. If you have a brilliant child who goes to an ivy league school and graduates at the top of the class, that definitely opens doors. However, it wont matter when they go to their first job interview and completely mess it up because they have a lack of social skills and cannot work with people. Locking your child up and banning them from having a social life will set them apart from their piers. They will feel singled out and uncomfortable because they do not know how to be around people. It is the social experience you gain from a sleepover or a playdate that can stay with you until adulthood. Letting children have a taste of real unsheltered life will prepare them for the world of adulthood and give them
In “Adapted from Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” author Amy Chua argues that, instead of constantly praising a child for the slightest success, parents should only expect perfection from their children and nothing less. She explains that Western parents are not as strict on their children as Chinese parents are. That Western parents don’t believe in stressing educational success and that education should be something fun. In contrast, Chinese parents believe that academic success is very important and to get good at something it takes practice and hard work which may not seem fun at first but in the long run the activity becomes fun once mastered. Chua also believes that Chinese parents can get away with things that Western parents cannot such as calling their child garbage after being misbehaved. Chua states three main differences between Western parents and Chinese parents.
“In one study of 50 Western American mothers and 48 Chinese immigrant mothers, almost 70% of the Western mothers said either that ‘stressing academic success is not good for children’ or that ‘parents need to foster the idea that learning is fun.’ By contrast, roughly 0% of the Chinese mothers felt the same way. Instead, the vast majority of the Chinese mothers said that they believe their children can be ‘the best’ students, that ‘academic achievement reflects successful parenting,’ and that if children did not excel at school then there was ‘a problem’ and parents ‘were not doing their job.’ … Chinese parents spend approximately ten times as long every day drilling academic activities with their children. By contrast, Western kids are
Couple go through a discussion on how they should raise their children. Parenting style in countries such as China, Japan, and Korea have different views than Western’s parenting style in the United States. In recent years, a term Tiger Mother has brought an idea that these mothers have a strict parenting philosophy that incorporates firm parental control and high standards for excellence (Chua, 2011). Parents everywhere agree that raising a child is a complex and daunting task, in which, parents have encompassed both their beliefs and practiced into their own parenting style. Both stories, Mother Inferior was written by Hanna Rosin and Why Chinese Mothers are Superior was written by Amy Chua, explore the different parenting styles and methods. Mother Inferior focuses on allowing children to freely express themselves, while Why Chinese Mothers are Superior
The woman who was to become Catherine the Great was born Sophie Augusta Fredericka. During her teen years Sophie blossomed into a beautiful young woman and had excellent health. She later went on to marry Peter III the future emperor and grandson of Peter the Great. During her reign as empress Catherine encountered many conflicts, which she surpassed so successfully that even now so many years after her death she is still remembered. Even though she was known to have many lovers during her lifetime and had three illegitimate children two of who survived, her strong spirit, willingness to make Russia a better place, and her political victories made her one of the greatest empress ever.
A tiger mom can be described as strict, stern, and rigorous with high expectations. In the article “Whatever Happened to the Original Tiger Mum's Children?” by Tanith Carey, they discuss how Amy Chua raised her two daughters, Sophia and Lulu Chua-Rubenfeld. They were brought up in a very strict manner of focusing on school and playing violin/piano. They didn’t have much of an outside life, for they were always doing school work. Some may say that Amy Chua raised her daughters in a bad way, but the family speaks out on how it was tough but more happy childhood. Honestly, tiger parenting can get your kids far, but I wouldn’t raise my own kids like this exactly.
Which parenting style will lead to a child becoming successful and stable in life? Many argue about the answer to this question. There are four main types of parenting styles. There’s authoritarian parenting which follows a set of strict rules and doesn’t necessarily nurture the child; apathetic towards their emotions, demanding a sort of blind obedience from the child. Authoritative parenting which takes a more moderate approach; setting high standards, nurtures, and responds to the child’s emotions. Permissive parenting which is reluctant to impose rules and standards, preferring to allow kids to regulate themselves. Finally, there’s the hands-off parenting in which the parent doesn’t involve themselves
According to her study she states “our findings is that tiger mothering is more likely to diminish as children grow older” (Kim). According to Chua her parenting style as a mother shaped her daughters into who they have become. In a piece from Chua’s book she explains why she has called her daughter garbage, “it worked really well. I felt terrible and deeply ashamed of what I had done. But it didn’t damage my self-esteem or anything like that”
Commanding heights: The New Rules is the third film in the series and is about the 21st century economy. PBS sponsored the film under the direction of Michael Sullivan to inform the public about the economic situation. They speak about how the economy adapted to what is today. How the world nationalized third world countries allowing exchange and investment. Episode 3 addresses the current and future problems of a globalized world. That's the structure of the film. The film clearly, thoroughly, and excitingly explains this through historic facts and stories told by citizens who lived during the changes. This is not an economics lesson but rather a high dramatic event that impacts peoples lives. Commanding
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In order to push through these struggles during drilling or practicing, harsh punishments may need to be put in place. The need for these punishments allows Chinese parents to get away with “...things that would seem unimaginable - even legally actionable - to Westerners” (Chua). Amy Chua then uses her own experiences to show how harsh the punishments may seem, but in the end the child grows from them. The western parent's strategy toward reprimanding is to do so nicely, in the best attempt not to damage their child's self esteem.
On January 27, an article was published, “Why Chinese Mothers are Superior” by the Wall Street Journal. It brought attention and promotes extreme controversy. Chua sparked debates over the differences in parenting styles of American and Chinese heritages. “Chinese Mothers” used in a broad statement and “Western Mothers” used for every other party. Americans began to raise questions. Chua’s article referring to herself as a Tiger mother stands to have both negative comments and some positive.
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Since education has been a hot topic nowadays, parents are looking for the best way of educating their children. After Amy Chua, a mother who successfully sent her two daughters to Harvard University and Yale University, published a book named Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, a kind of authoritarian education term called Tiger Mother raises heated debate around the world. Tiger Mother is a strict parenting term for parents, especially Asian parents, to push their children to succeed academically through some extreme methods like force their children to sacrifice most of their free time in repeating doing practice. Although some western countries even try to value Tiger Mother in these years, Tiger Mother is not a suitable way for every child