From a very young age I have felt a desire to help children who are suffering. I remember watching a video or commercial, while in the first grade, of children starving overseas and trying to figure out how I could help them. As I grew older, I became more and more aware of the troubles faced by kids and teens in their own home.There were all sorts of abuse from physical, sexual and verbal.It was about this time that I made up in my mind that I would be a Child Psychologist with a main focus on abused children.
I was accepted to Adams State University after graduating high school with my goal in sight.
That was in the year of 1997.In December of 1998, I had a son.My whole focused shifted to this child who was born three months premature and
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However, that’s another topic for another paper. In time, I found myself managing life with a husband and two children. My husband was in the Navy, which meant there were several moves and new schools for the kids, as well as new jobs for me.During all the transitions of life I’d forgotten my dream.
In 2014, my husband was retired from the Navy, and we returned to Colorado. We joined a very small church and I noticed the church did not have a children’s ministry. I brought the concern to God during my prayer time saying, “Lord, they have all these children and no children’s ministry. They need a children’s church.” God brought it right back to my attention and gently responded, “They need a children’s church.” Next thing I knew; I was heading the Children’s Ministry. It has been a wonderful time exploring the word of God with the children and seeing their little eyes light up with every revelation, until the unthinkable happened. In March of 2016 there was a terrible car accident resulting in the death of a 17-year-old. That 17-year-old happened to be the brother of one my brightest students. She was absolutely devastated. She looked at me and said “Miss Tonya, I’ve never had a
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The moment when I remembered my dream of helping children who are suffering. The moment when I came back to myself and what I was here to do. I hugged that little girl and said every encouraging word I could think of, knowing it was inadequate.
attending classes for a short time to have a baby boy in September 2004, then returned to finish college.
Daniel says that she has seen many who are involved in teaching and providing care through the church go on to be teachers, counselors, and administrators for various youth programs. Mrs. Daniel says, “the church opens doors for people to get involved with kids and shows them the impact that one person can make in a child’s life.” She became interested in working with children in this very way. Mrs. Daniel began to volunteer at her church, which later led to a part-time job. While working part-time, she continued her education and gained more experience that eventually led her to become the Director of Children’s Ministry. In order to prepare for entering this field, Mrs. Daniel suggest that, while it is not required, a person should have a college degree that prepares them for working with families and children and that they stay up to date on trends and issues in the church as well as in the community. She also says that if one plans to work in a church environment, they should have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Mrs. Daniel describes working in this kind of environment as a “calling.” She does not think that this is a field for everyone, “it takes a special kind of person to put the needs of children and the community in front of their own” says Mrs.
For many years, I have worked in ministry as a support ministry member. In 1993-1997, I served as Administrator at Beacon Light Full Gospel Baptist Church under the leadership of Bishop Darryl S. Bister. I was responsible for all of his appointments, drafting of documents, and overseer of additional staff members and responsible for the day to day operations. In 1997, I was called to Greater St. Stephen Full Gospel Baptist Church with my husband under Bishop Paul S. Morton, Sr. I served in many capacities in this ministry from worship leader to Administrator to the Registrar for Greater St. Stephens School of Ministry. My husband along with our 3 children was then called to Denver, Colorado to serve at Heritage Christian Center under Bishop Dennis Leonard. We serve in that ministry
I have always known that I wanted to work with kids, even before I knew for sure which career I wanted to pursue. Being one of the oldest children in my extended family, I have had the pleasure of looking after all of my younger cousins. I really love being a positive role model in their lives and being someone they can count on. I babysit whenever I can and even watch my teacher’s children on a pretty regular basis. Knowing this, it was no surprise that I jumped at the chance to volunteer once a month in my church’s nursery. Every second Sunday of the month, I watch all the “new walkers” to two year olds during the busiest service. I really love this age range because even though the kids are just learning to walk and talk, they all have their own unique personalities. I love to watch them interact with one another. I once saw a little boy put his face right into another little girl’s face. He slowly stuck out his tongue and licked her cheek, she pulled back, bewildered, and then handed him the book she was holding. Then the little boy simply walked away as if receiving books in exchange for licks was completely acceptable, which I suppose it is when you are that age! Helping out in the nursery is very important to me because I want the children’s parents to feel free to worship in the main service without having to worry about the safety of their kids. I am very blessed to have this
CHILDREN’S CHURCH: Children who want to help in Children’s Church get a copy of the lesson ahead of time and we meet with them to discuss and pray about the lesson. We decide which part of the lesson/service they will be in charge of. Whether it’s the object lesson, the Bible lesson, running the technology or games. A few days before, we meet or call again to make sure they are
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On the first evening of service, I was prepared, yet scared that I would say something wrong or the children there would
Start by donating clothes, or canned food to a food bank or holding a neighborhood canned food drive. Teach younger kids in your community sports or help at a vacation Bible school. Personally, I love helping at VBS, by the end of the week the kids aren’t just kids who were dragged to the church by their parents and don’t want to be there, but are happy to come. They looked up to me and the other counselors for an example for when they get older, and in their faith. A majority of the kids in a town that I went to with youth group to lead and VBS felt as if they needed to be mischievous and do the opposite of what the leaders told them to do. I hope by the time we left they had changed their perspective and want to learn more about the
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We had just moved across town from League City, Texas to Cypress, Texas, and my husband Mark and just moved his business from Downtown, Texas to Cypress, Texas. And this is the part where God was working, as we were seeking the place where He wanted us to be. I had been talking with my sister, who was helping me settle into our new house, and telling her that we were interested in finding a non-denominational church, and wouldn’t it be wonderful if it could be close by. While my sister was reading the “subdivision newsletter”, and this was all taking place while we were talking about where to attend church, she jumped out of the chair she was sitting in, ran over to me and said, “Bunnie, here is the church you are looking for, it is right in the neighborhood”. Of course, I was so excited, and promptly told my husband we have to go and check this church out. So, that Sunday we went to what started out as Fairfield Christian Fellowship, and today is known as Fountain of Life Church of God, pastored by John and Kerry LaLonde. The church met at that time in the pastor’s home, so it was a smaller church body, with about 30 people in attendance that particular Sunday. Everyone was welcoming and friendly, the praise and worship was wonderful, the uncompromised word of God preached, that is when we knew this is where God wanted
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