Edith Wharton once said, “There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.” I find this quote to be unwaveringly true in that when you are at your “best self”, it also empowers others to be the same way. Being a volunteer, a member of the soccer team, and the oldest sibling, I have watched the way that people feed off of each other’s energy whether it be positive or negative. I deemed it my mission to be the light in other’s lives so it could possibly ignite the flame inside of them.
At the hospital, I strive to make it my goal to change the patient’s lives one smile at a time. I attempt to greet them in a jovial mood by answering any questions or requests they may have during their stay. I know
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In all of these activities, I have acquired many leadership roles. However, my favorite position is being the team captain on my varsity soccer team. I enjoy helping each one of my teammates to thrive as a player as well as a person. I have basically grown up with these girls so it is an honor to be able to be there for them in whatever aspect they may need.
At home, I am the oldest child which means that all of my younger siblings look up to me. I feel like I need to set a good example for them to follow when they reach my age. It is inevitable that sometimes I will make mistakes, but the way you bounce back from your blunders is what makes all the difference. By setting this model for them, I am ensuring that I am becoming a better version of myself. I believe I am at my best self when I am hoping others to find their best self too. When I am spreading smiles and cheer, I think I am right where I need to be in my life. All of these activities have contributed to helping me become a better person; I can only hope that I will continue to grow as an individual. In the future, I plan on continuing the practice of “spreading the light” to others who may have strayed off of the path of
This year during wrestling I was captain of the team, and this was a big responsibility since being captain is a big deal. Being captain isn’t about giving commands to people as you please or hazing people who aren’t as good as you. It’s a whole lot more than that. To be a captain or leader, you must show good examples, give advice when teammates are struggling, inspire teammates, and the list goes on. Many different qualities are required to be a successful leader like having good focus, being strong, having confidence, patience, and many more qualities. In the end it all comes down to a leader leading his team to victory. Its sound easy, but it depends on the leader, and the teammates trust into that leader.
Leadership is very important to me. I am the captain of my school's cross-country team, and was the recipient of the leadership award. My coach gave me this position based on my leadership qualities. When my team is going through a rough practice, it is my job to push them forward and help them find their motivation. I have earned my teams respect, leading by example, which is crucial to being a good leader.
I’m the tuba section leader in the Pride of Broken Arrow (my high school marching band) for my junior and senior year and i’m also a leading and active member at my church, especially in the youth group. Doing those things are very important to me because they gave me some leading experience early on in my adulthood that many people don't get until college or after they start working.
The President of the Student Council. The drum major of the marching band. The founder of the biggest club at school. All of these positions involve organizing, interacting with, and motivating a large amount of people and just scream “LEADERSHIP!” However, this wasn’t the right kind of leadership for me; I’m not the type to get up and speak in front of a big group of people or give grandiose motivational speeches, but I still wanted to be helpful to others nonetheless.
Although I have been on the tennis team for two years, there is more of myself that you may not know. Besides tennis, I participate in gymnastics and Track. For track, I am a pole vaulter and hurdler. I lettered last year for Varsity. As for other leadership roles, I was a WEB leader which helped incoming sixth graders while I was in eighth grade. During that time, I learned how to organize events and become more social. For this reason, I love to include others and make sure no one feels as though they aren part
The light from other people bring the good out in others. The Goodness of Matt Kaiser by Avi. Matt stumbles upon his inner good, when he goes to visit Mr. Battacky. Through the symbols of light, Matt’s clothing, and the candles. The author conveys, the story’s theme: everybody is born with goodness sometimes it takes others to discover it.
Whenever someone else makes an accomplishment, small or large, they deserve all respect and recognition for their hard work. I constantly work to build others up and ensure that their efforts do not go unnoticed. John C. Maxwell, author of The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, notes that “If you are a leader, you should never forget that everyone needs encouragement. And everyone who receives it - young or old, successful or less-than-successful, unknown or famous - is changed by it.” As humans we are driven by the recognition of others, and I recognize the value of encouragement. By building others up, I have the power to assist others in their development as
Experiencing my younger siblings has taught me to care for others and not only myself. I hope they look up to me and don’t see me as an egocentric person. Gawaine only cares about himself, but I try to keep others in mind and not just focus on
Interacting with patients at St. Rose Sienna Hospital fulfills my sense of purpose; helping others. Coming across patients ranging from labor contractions to gunshots trains me to stay calm when they are frightened and apprehensive. I am often tasked with the training of new volunteers. Over time, I have been able to build friendships with peers and staff. My main responsibility is discharging inpatients. I do my best to communicate effectively by engaging them in conversation. I spend 15 minutes learning about life stories, current complications, and future plans. I am the last impression a
“Empowering individuals not only to see a brighter future but, to also see a light in themselves”.
To start off, in high school, I was the captain of Football, Basketball, and Track. As captain I am held to a higher standard because the other athletes are looking up to me. That being said, if some one was messing around or not doing something right, it was my position to help coach them to do the right thing, work extra hard on the next play, or whatever it may be.
Ever since I was a little boy, I always wanted to be the person in charge. I put this to the test at a young age by being the captain of my travel baseball team. As the catcher of the team I was in charge of where everyone in the field is positioned. Catchers can see everything and everyone, so they have to communicate with their teammates about where they need to go. This role came naturally to me because I always want to be in control of what is going on. Taking this role lead my team to very well against competition that should have blown us out of the water. After that year I knew that I wanted to put into a position of authority later in life.
Before taking this course my writing styles and habits were very different. I was the typical procrastinator because I would wait until the night before a paper was due to start it. This did not allow me enough time to properly proofread everything, which resulted in getting points deducted for simple grammatical errors that could have been avoided if I would have had the time to proofread. My writing styles have many strengths and weaknesses and I have been able to improve my writing because of them. I have learned from my strengths and weaknesses how to become a better writer.
I am a philosophical person by nature who tends to think a lot into life and am impatient with myself for not achieving more. At the same time, I have a love-affair with nature. Possibly the two are combined. I believe that these character traits have influenced the subject of the essays that I have chosen to include in my portfolio.
“The youngest child gets everything.” I could not agree any less with this phrase when I was the youngest in my family. Every child would know the kind of ‘power’ their younger sibling has over them. Therefore, I am guilty of taking advantage of this privilege against my older brother and sister. To begin with, I purposely placed both of them in trouble whenever they made me cry or whenever they don’t obey what I want them to do. In short, I was very spoiled and stubborn child, but nevertheless, I treasured those moments where I was always their center of attention. That was before my parents told me that I was going to have a younger sister.