Bul·ly, Noun, A person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker. This is the basic definition of a bully. Bullying is something that affects a large number of people, especially teens, in every country not just the United States. Bullying is something that can change a person’s attitude towards life. Bullying is something that can permanently change almost anyone’s life. And yet, even though bullying has so many problems and affects so many people, it still is a huge problem in almost (if not every) school in America. I see it in every school I’ve ever been in. An estimated 1 in 5 are bullied, and that is a horrible thought. And that is why bullying should be eradicated.
None of my classmates know this, but
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My lunch was taken from me, so I went home hungry most days. That really sucked and I tried to say no, but whenever I tried to tell my tormentor no, my lunch was forcefully taken from me. I was called many names, and even though many of the names I were called are not school appropriate, let me tell you a few semi-school appropriate names I was called. I had rumors spread about me that I was gay, and I was called gay (I’m not gay), all because I had a slightly higher voice than some of the other guys in my grade. It really hurt and changed everyone’s opinion of me. I was also teased for being a ginger, for having “Freakles”, and for being bad at things that I spent a lot of my free time doing. I would be told that I’m not good at any video games I played, or for being bad at soccer. I got into fights with people and came home with big, nasty, bruises. I was scarred both mentally and physically, and no other person should have to endure such a curse. Like I said earlier, bullying changed me. After bullying, most people are changed in ways that may last for a very long time, in ways that can hurt, in ways that can rip apart their life. Bullied individuals often have higher risk of many mental illnesses. They are four times as likely to develop an anxiety disorder in adulthood compared with kids who were uninvolved in bullying. And the victims had a five-times greater risk of depression than uninvolved kids, as well as 10 times the likelihood of suicidal thoughts or actions and 15 times the likelihood of developing a panic disorder. All this was found in one 20 year study published in 2013.
Study researcher William Copeland, a clinical psychologist at Duke University Medical Center said
It is important to define the term bullying accurately because that term alone can be adversarial. With that being said it can mean intimidation, aggression, hostile behaviors, and pestering the weak. Bullying takes place in schools, work, and in your own home. It can pretty much happen anywhere. Bullying in my terms is anything that can make a person feel weak minded, and has to submit.
This article explores the prevalence rates of bullying victimization among special needs students in the United States. The researchers describe bullying victimization as the misuse and abuse of power to harm or humiliate an individual over time. Investigators have reported a higher rate of bullying and victimization among students with disabilities when compared with mainstream peers. Special needs students are prey for bullies because of characteristics related to their disabilities. Many students diagnosed with developmental delay lack social and communication skills. Disabilities such as autism, specific learning disorders, emotional disorders or attention deficit disorders may cause an individual to behave in a variety of ways. These students behaviors may be perceived as withdrawn,
Bullying is harmful and may cause physical or psychological damage for life. The Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) defines bullying as any unwanted aggressive behavior(s) by another person or group of people, who are not siblings or current dating partners. Uncontrollable bullying throughout the world among people has caused health related issues and, for some people, even death. The National Youth Violence Prevention Resources Center stated that bullying is one type of violence that threatens young people's well-being and can result in physical injuries, social and emotional difficulties, as well as academic problems (Cite). Others including friends and families frequently feel the harmful effects of bullying. It is noted that bullying can hurt the overall health and safety of schools, neighborhoods, and one’s socioeconomic environment.
playgrounds to the hallway, public restaurants and even online. The Internet has made it easy for
A general problem that happens throughout the United States in schools, neighborhoods, and even in homes is bullying. Furthermore, a plausible cause for most school shootings is intimidation and is an intense public awareness. A bully-involved shooting at a high school in Littleton, CO, and other victims across America have in some cases resulted in suicide. All in all, bullying affects how the social setting in a school causes fear and thought provoking anti-civil attitude.
Bullying has become a major issue throughout not only the Unite States but also the world. Many children are being bullied in school, at home, and even online. This has created a crisis that leaves kids damaged emotionally, some cases leading towards suicide. With this serious issue, it is critical to find bullying solutions everyone can use as a way to stop behavior and save children that are bullied everyday.
Victims can respond with low self-esteem, difficulty trusting others, aggression, and isolation. These effects can last ten to fifteen times longer than the period in which the bullying occurred. ("The Effects of Bullying on a Child's Development - TeenSafe", 2014) Both victims and bullies had an increased risk for depression later in life. Victims of frequent bullying also had higher rates of anxiety disorders and suicide. The American Journal of Psychiatry also linked childhood bullying to lack of social relationships and low socioeconomic status later in life. (Takizawa, Maughan, & Arseneault,
There are countless issues that have risen from people being anonymous. Some of these issues like have led people to end their life. We bring up the issues and leave them floating in the air like pollen in the summer. We have to stop anonymity so our citizens can feel safe when they use the internet. Anonymity leads to issues like cyber bullying of teenagers, our women being attacked online, and even Catfishing.
Bullying is a huge problem here in America, one that is not going away anytime soon. Thousands of people report being bullied everyday. Many only think the bullying can only happen to kids. Sadly, many adults are also victims of bullying too. With bullying being so prevalent in todays society it has had a huge effect on students at school, it can also affect adults in the work place. With social media people can bully from behind a computer screen. Many celebrities and companies are using their platform to help spread the word about bullying.
Everyone has encountered a bully at one point in their lifetime and if you say you have not then it was probably you. They are like the plague everyone avoids them at all cost even if it means taking the longest way to class. Bullies are not just born bullies they have something that fuels the fire and rage inside. School is supposed to be a safe place for children, but some kids fear school because they get bullied or picked on. Bullies often seem superior to others when really, they feel inferior inside because they are insecure or are having something go on in their home life. There are three common reasons a bully lashes out, the bully comes from a dysfunctional family, the bully feels the need to be in control, Bullying behavior gets rewarded.
Americans might not see commercials or posters of bullying and harassment but that does not mean it is not an issue in the United States. Bullying and harassment is a major issue in American schools even if Americans do not realize it. Schools might be able regulate what students can say and do to others, but schools cannot regulate what happens outside especially on social media. According to an online article, National Bullying prevention Center, the author explains, “90% of teens who report being cyberbullied have also been bullied offline.” This shows that cyberbullying has become one of the most prevalent ways of hurting another person. The majority of students have experienced bullying and or harassment sometime throughout their school
Past research studies have found that half of the students being studied have been bullied while the other half of students have been bullies (Farrington, 1993). It appears that bullying was not a major concern before the 1970s which means little was done to help students who were on the receiving end of threatening behavior by other students. Bullying was once considered a normal part of a student’s life at school (Jacobsen & Bauman, 2007). Research done in the 1970s by Dan Olweus has proved that bullying is a cause for concern (Carrera et al., 2011). Students who are the victims of bullying can suffer from long lasting mental health affects (Jacobsen & Bauman, 2007). Bullying should not be considered a normal customary occurrence that students have to go through.
Although not a new phenomenon, bullying has become an increasingly alarming problem facing young children all across the country. The American Justice Department bullying statistics show that one out of every four kids will be bullied sometime throughout their adolescence. While most of us agree that something needs to be done about the bullying problem in America, a solution has not been found to eliminate this problem. The problem is, school districts source their anti-bullying programs on a trial on error basis. While many may argue that these programs do work, this literature looks into the alternative way to promote anti-bullying which is through positive reinforcement by implementing a kindness program. This paper reviews one approach
Bullying is a growing problem in American schools; an increase in bullying over a period of time can lead to suicide or negative impacts on health. Although some believe that students should not be formally charged for bullying, they should be because that is a cruel act and could lead to negative things. Opponents suggest that students should not be formally charged with bullying. They argue that students do not have the capacity to understand the consequences of their actions. For example, if a student bullies another student, they have no way of knowing that their actions could lead to that student harming themselves.
Many people do not realize how serious bullying has become. If you look at statistics suicides due to bullying have increased over just a few short years. This has become a very big problem for not only the victim but the bully as well as it affect both of them. School bullying is mentally destructive to not only the victims, but bullies because of the harmful words, harassment, and physical violence involved as well as the consequences for the bully.