Cause and Effect About a Difficult Decision

When I was a child, most of the stories or situations I have been through was, mostly, my dad hitting me and my parents fighting constantly; so pretty much I did not really grew up watching Barney, traveling to places, and going to Disneyland often. I thought I would have to live like this for the rest of my academic life, but one day around the age of eight, my dream came true. My parents had enough of each other, so they went their own ways; even though, I was glad that I do not have to life miserably anymore, I was not. I thought that everything would settle down and live a calm life with my mom, but as a result, I ended up raising my two siblings. My dad left the house, my mom was in her own world, and I had to watch my siblings. I thought my parents divorce would benefit me, but all it did was for me to not live as an eight-year-old would. I thought that my dream of going to a great university and becoming a Physician Assistant came crashing down. A couple weeks later, my dad came back and long-story short, my siblings and I had to go hang out with my dad for

Unlike most people, I did not get to be a carefree child for long. Even though I always said that I could not wait to grow up, now I wish that it all did not happen so fast and early in my life. From eleven to twelve years old—that would be the period I describe as the time I had to put my big-girl pants on and face the real, cruel and unwelcoming adult world. In that time period, I can specifically pinpoint two major events that ended my childhood: my move from Russia to the United States and the birth of my baby sister Toma. To some those might not seem significant enough to change someone’s life to the extent that they changed mine; however those events molded me into the person I am today.

The decision-making process occurs at all levels of management. However, the top executive managers, middle level managers, and front line managers are responsible for guiding the decision making process within their healthcare organizations (Liebler & McConnell, 2008,p.148). CEO’s are responsible for guiding the actions and behaviors of their employees to collectively achieve the organization’s goals. The mission and vision statement are the foundation of what direction the healthcare agency is heading. The CEO and top level executives are responsible for developing code of ethics and code of conduct to align with accreditation, licensing, and federal and state laws.

If you think of life and existence in general as a canvas, meaning all of time included simultaneously, the past, present and future. Within that canvas lie certain sets of options(choices) which are available to us at any given moment. The path that we found ourselves are predetermined by factors we had no control over. Your genetic make up, for instance, you had nothing to do with. You can’t take credit for not having the brain of a psychopath, the brain of the mentally disabled person, genetic predisposition to cancer and you name it. The actions of others impact the options (choices) available to you-the actions of those around affects your will because it can change the choices that are available to you at any given moment. If certain

are forbidden by either family to be together. In the agony of being forced to live apart

My mother became depressed, my father became disabled, and my brother was skipping school. I continued going to school from eight until four, which was a big relief in my life because it made me forget the hard times. My grades slowly began to decline, as well as my motivation. I gave up many opportunities such as attending New York’s number one specialized high school. I recognized my mistakes and was able to identify my failure. School was not the only place where I lacked interest in because I also slowly started to push my friends away. As a young teenager, I did not think I would ever make it to college. I became frustrated at my parents because my life was ruined and it was all their fault.

This passage somewhat resembles what I have gone through in my life. My parents also put an end to their marriage. My grandparents live with us and have raised me well.

When this happened to a love one it doesn 't just happen to that person but it in way happens to the whole family itself.

Soon, both parents came. When the boy's father saw his child, he rushed over to his boy and saying something bad to me. As same as my teacher, she also began to criticize me. She repeated what she had just said to me in front of the boy’s father. She might want to show the father that she was worthy of his “red packet”. My mother also became angry, and she began to complain why I had caused her trouble again. At that time, I felt dizzy and wanted to suicide. I cried out of fear, but no one comforted me. Everyone was looking at the boy, whether he was good. "Why are you crying?” When I was crying, the boy's father said to me, "You might let my son into a concussion! If my son has some problem, I won not let you go!” I only knew that concussion

For my essay I decided to interview my mother. I know most of her story starting from my brothers birth. But i had never know much about her childhood. My mom was surprised when I started asking questions and I happy to learn more about my mother. I will focus this essay manly about when she was a child until teenager. While doing the interview I learned many thing and am now grateful for having the opportunity of writing this essay. I started by asking her when she was born and everything else sparked from their.

One day, my sister told me that I would have a better future if I come to the U.S.as permanent resident with my mom and stay there all my life. Of course United States offers you many opportunities to work and study. This made me feel grateful, but nevertheless, pained, because my sister gave me another opportunity to improve my skills and obviously, my life. I was going to have another life in another country and this made me stressful I didn’t know what I had to did. I was going to leave my country where I grew up, my father, my family, friends, my study, and other things that I always had and then learn how to grow up and be more independent in the United States.

My family has a huge changes in the time of my junior high cause of some reasons, my dad have to leave me alone to stay in the place even that place was so knowingly. But I'm not enough age to live alone by myself and the important part is I don't want live there without them. He don't want go to other place go for work but he have to because he wants give me a good life in the future. But that time I don't understand why my dad do this and try to ignore him when he talked to me and we don't have a lot time to stay together for a year (the longer days was one month for a year because I'm busy to study and my dad is busy to work). When I lived there for three years my dad told me the truth that why he leave me alone. He wants me grew up quickly

One year ago, I was living alone in Saudi Arabia when my family came to United State. I recognized that year was very difficult because I thought my parents showed favoritism to me. They wanted to took all my sisters and my brother to study in United State, but they did not want me to come with them since I had faced a problem, which if I was studied in United State, I would be in ninth grade and that would make me late two years of graduation. However, in Saudi Arabia I was in my last year of high school. As a result, my parents decided to complete my education back home. When my parents told me their decision, my morale was bottoms out due to living without my family means to me would be disturbing and tedious. We all agree that family is important element in our life.

The following case study, is a female, Kelly, suffering from several problems with her family. She lives in a low income family and is the important role of family’s pillar. Since she is the oldest daughter and is a student at the same time, her parents fully expected her to take care of younger siblings. As a result, she did not perform well in DSE examination while her parents does not support her to continue study and urge her to gain a livelihood for family. Therefore, she has no idea on her decision making.

Everything you do is a choice. You choose the way you are living today. As we walk on the path of life, we are presented with cross roads and forks. Some are pretty obvious which turn we should take. However, not everything is easy in life. And in the fast pace life we are currently living in right now, we move so fast that we meet many more challenges than before and often, we hastily decide on the choices we make.