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Communication Portfolio Project The success of any relationship relies on one's ability to communicate well. Communication is important in relationships as it allows us to share our interest, concerns, and support one other; organize our lives and make decisions. Communication allows us to work together. Effective communication is based on the way we talk and listen, and how we respond with our body language. We can all learn how to improve the way we communicate but it takes more than words to create a safe, exciting and secure relationship. Too often the signals we send are not those we intend, when this happens, often both connection and trust are lost in our relationships. When we communicate, we can say a lot without …show more content…

136). This involves the commitment of both individuals to be willing to share and open up about feelings and expectations of the relationship. In addition, successful relationships are built on the ability to show and receive compassion, which includes moving beyond indirect sharing to direct and personal disclosure. In my personal relationship with my spouse of twenty one years, we both work very hard not to fall into the predictability pattern, although, I believe there can be a difference between daily routine and relationship patterns. We enjoy being around one another. We will often switch up activities, and make it a point to let the other choose a date night. As the text states, “it’s important to remember that over time, relationships change, competent communicators must be willing to and able to negotiate new relational understandings as time goes on” (Trenholm, p. 137). I have also seen relationships tarnish due to lack of communication which will typically fall into predictability patterns. I can also see how this could affect workplace relationships if un-healthy predictable patterns go on to long without consequences or recourse. However, when a potential relationship presents itself, I believe first expressions are very important. I will often be able to read people through their communication, both

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