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Communication Competence With Family

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According to the textbook, family is defined as a self-defined group of intimates who create and maintain themselves through their own interactions and their interactions with others. (West & Turner, Cengage Learning) To me family members don’t always have to be who you’re related to by blood. I have some friends I consider family because they have been through everything with me. I have some friends who don’t get along with their parents, and consider their friends and their friends families a family to them. The textbook definition doesn’t say that family is defined by blood, just that you must have an intimate relationship with them. If you are adopted you might resent your birth parents and not consider them family, and you might consider …show more content…

(Rubin, Martin, Powers& Bruning, 2009 Google Scholar) ICC makes communicating rewarding and more satisfying, according to this article. I believe that communication competence is necessary because it helps you evaluate the situation you’re given and how you should communicate with other parties through the situation. There are several ways everyone can improve their communication competence with family, and everyone’s can be different. For me personally I can improve by trying to communicate more effectively. Whenever I get angry with my family I just expect them to understand why. It usually consists of me storming off to my room leaving my family confused. I shouldn’t just throw a tantrum like a child, I should talk it out. I tend to treat my family and friends like the protective communication pattern because is have high expectations of them understanding my anger, but I don’t communicate with them the way I should to make them understand my frustration. Since communication competence is the ability to choose a communication behavior that fits the situation, I need to improve on choosing which communication pattern is appropriate for a situation. Effective communication relies on this, and people can encounter problems if they do not follow this closely. In conclusion picking the right conversation communication patters is vital for successful family communication. Each person and their family is different and things are always changing, but effective communication always needs to stay the

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