Couples Therapy

To begin with, forgiving people who wronged you comes in handy since it helps you live a longer and healthier life. According to the informational text “Understanding Forgiveness” written by PBS, it states that people who forgive have “ [f]ewer stress-related health issues” and their

Family therapy is a form of psychotherapy employed to assist members of a family in improving communication systems, conflict resolution, and to help the family to deal with certain problems that manifest in the behavior of members. In most cases, deviance in a family member is an indication of underlying family dysfunctions. This paper looks the counselling procedure that can be applied to help the Kline family solve their problems. It answers certain questions including those of the expected challenges during therapy and ways of dealing with the challenges.

Data published in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology suggests some 25% of men and 15% of women will be unfaithful to their partner at some point in their relationship. This data reveals that affairs can and do occur even in what many would consider a happy relationship. The statistical data fails to do justice to the emotional trauma that is caused by infidelity. Thankfully, there is hope for affair recovery Little Rock, AR through focused therapy.

Even though many people think that forgiving won’t get anyone anywhere, or help anyone, they are wrong. Forgiveness is key to life, without forgiveness people would never be able to have any relations with anyone, mistakes are a part of life and mistakes happen. The way people take the mistake show people what kind of person they will become, and forgiving someone can change a person’s life.

Couple therapy often refers to the common negative process, of pursuer and withdrawer, in order to understand the relational dance. This is the process where one partner purses the other through emotional demands, criticism, and complaints, while the other retreats through withdrawal, defensiveness, and passive interaction (Christensen, & Heavey,1990). Many theorists have identified a gender linkage with this pattern, suggesting women present as the demanding, pursuer, while men assume the role of the distant, withdrawer (Christensen, & Heavey,1990; Mornells, 1979). There is a belief among some theorists that this pattern results from different personality characteristics of men and women, and therefore impacted

The cornerstone of the Christian faith is that of forgiveness. Forgiveness is an area in our lives that many of us can struggle with simply because we have to overcome our own pain and suffering that another person has inflicted on us. It also may be believes by many that forgiveness is to forget or condone the person for what they did but, according to the article, “To forgive is to offer mercy to someone who has acted unjustly and then be able to look at the person who violated us and give them mercy.”(Enright & Magnusin, 2008, p. 114)

Many couples experiencing relationship distress choose not to seek therapeutic help. “Recent estimates founded that only 19% of intact couples seek any type of counseling or therapy for their relationship and that only 37% of divorced couples sought any couple therapy prior to divorcing” (Cicila, Georgia, & Doss, 2014). Reasons why couples decide not to seek treatment are because of the perceived stigma associated with therapy, financial burden, and logistical concerns, such as difficulty scheduling appointments or finding transportation to appointments (Cicila et al., 2014). These findings show couples would rather keep issues between themselves than talk to a therapist who has the skills and expertise in marital discord.

In marriage and family therapy, we will have many conversations about uncomfortable topics with our clients, including sex. Today's society considers it to be taboo, but these conversations are to be expected in dealing with couples. We as therapists must find comfort in communicating with our clients about sex/gender issues. Although these conversations might be fairly uncomfortable, the therapist can be proactive by conducting research on common sexual/gender related issues and build comfort and confidence in discussing the topics. Hypothetically speaking, if a couple is seeing the therapist about sexual issues, the therapist might allow the couple to lead the conversation based on the comfort of the client. The therapist might also validate

According to research, many people have their own different understanding on forgiveness (Olmstread, Blick & Mills, 2009). Some aspects are believing that the term of “forgiveness” means “weakness” and giving permission to the spouse who had the affair to repeat the same pattern while others believe that forgiveness is to reconcile or to bond together once again (Olmstread, Blick &

It takes a strong person to say sorry, but it takes a stronger person to forgive. Throughout our life there will be many people who will hurt us, whether or not to forgive is our choice. When someone hurts us, we get upset and/or angry with that person because of their wrong doing. By forgiving such person you are letting go of grudges, and by letting go of grudges you become free. In some cases, granting forgiveness is the best way to handle a situation where someone hurt us.

Forgiveness starts and ends with you because it has nothing to do with the other person nor being right or wrong. It's about having the chance to be happy and letting the thing that hold you back go and being more free from the problem that you were facing with. An example of this would be the book Tell me three things because it talks about how jessie learns to forgive her dad for moving to another state away for her best friend. And remarrying another woman when it's only been a year after her mom's death. She could of have hold in the anger and not forgive her dad because forgiveness is a decision that you personally have to making in rather to move on with life and find happiness.

Specifically, when forgiveness is granted the victim comes to understand the offender in a new way and is open to other possible reasons for the offender’s behavior, thus experiencing emotional release that enables the victim to let-it-go and move on. When forgiveness is received, the victim comes to realize that, even though the offender may not deserve it, at one time they too were offenders and because we are all made in the image of God, we must be able to forgive (as God forgave us) and to receive forgiveness (p. 116,

The study helped us accredit positive regard toward couple therapy despite the stigma that suggests infidelity is the denouement of marriage. We hope that couples who are impacted by infidelity will consider treatments and look into their various options before they decide to pursue divorce. Treatments like couple therapy can be a the beginning of a new chapter in a couple's’ marriage. For future research, we hope researchers will sample a bigger population of infidelity couple from a variety of backgrounds in order to provide conclusive results. In addition, perhaps it would be holistic to include children as a factor to which couples initiate divorce or

Relationship issues are common; no one has a perfect marriage. Marriage requires constant work, dedication and effort. If you feel like you and your partner are no longer connected or living separate lives in the greater New York City area, UMA therapists and counselors can help. Most couples avoid marriage counseling because they don’t feel comfortable enough with their therapist. Another reason couples contemplate therapy is because they feel ashamed. In a recent study, couples wait over six years from the start of their problems until they start looking into therapy. At this point, it may be to late to save the relationship. Not every one is comfortable sharing their mistakes such as infidelity or addiction. Knowing that you could be in

The word forgiveness has several meanings and has the potential to ultimately cleanse someone’s life of past remorse. According to John O. Reid, “forgiveness is one of the chief characteristics we must have if we are to become literal children of God in His Kingdom” (Reid, 2015). This understanding of forgiveness is seen through God’s Divine teaching and authority in John 14:2; therefore, this interpretation is that forgiveness comes from merciful will and pardon of mistakes. Furthermore, a prominent Gospel analyst from Forerunner Commentary, construes the power of forgiveness through “one of the keys that Jesus taught for healing” (Forerunner Commentary, 2015). This articulates forgiveness of sin as an ultimate custom of healing such as in Matthew 6:12, “forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors,” and “forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who have sinned against us” (Luke 11:4).The essence of forgiveness in Christianity is a diversified matter, however; it is the ongoing implementation of forgiveness into the midst of our lives is what makes a faithful follower. “Jesus taught that forgiveness is central to the relationship between God and humans, and between humans” (Rsrevision, 2015). This instils that to receive forgiveness from God you must be a living embodiment of a remissive follower. Hence, a slighter significance is imparted on a divine pardon, the true meaning of