Death Of A Bad Breakup

Almost everyone will go through a breakup. Those who have been through a rough breakup may agree that heartache hurts. Individuals handle breakups in many different ways; some might become depressed, stop eating, or even overeat. In Aaliyah’s “I Don’t Wanna” and FeFe Dobson’s “Can’t Breath”, each artist expresses their emotional response to handling a breakup. Each are fighting to hold on to the relationship and not wanting to believe that the relationship is actually over.

Upon seeing him, she is still upset about the past, but refuses to show her true feelings to the man and is going to be nice and polite. In speaking with the man, she at first becomes more furious from deep inside, however she realizes that he is not an enemy now; she should not be dwelling in the past. The woman realizes that he cannot hurt her anymore; she finally receives the closure that eluded her for years. As noted in studies performed, “More practically, the current results suggest that people who have recently experienced a breakup might benefit from working through their emotional distress, particularly via ruminative reflection and considering relationships with new partners.” (Marshall et al. 10).

Having a break up seems to be a greater loss for males than females, because females experience intimacy with same-sex friends, and males usually do not. The article states that young men may be more vulnerable to the ups and downs of romance because in many cases it’s their

Discuss the reason for the breakup and acknowledge anything wrong you might have done as well. However, stay positive during the interaction, even if he is wrong, and get to the core issues so he knows what needs to get done differently next time.

We conceive of ourselves as single again, and we reorganize our lives to break the synchrony that we had with our ex-partner.

A Death of One’s Own sheds light onto the controversial issue regarding end of life decisions, providing a few examples of people struggling with these choices. The film tells the stories of three particular individuals, Jim, Kitty, and Ricky, each with a unique end of life situation. Jim suffers from ALS and has specific care requests, 56-year-old Kitty struggles with her uterine cancer and constant pain, and Ricky is a patient dying from severe liver failure who can no longer speak and make decisions on his own. All of these individuals present different, yet similar issues regarding end of their life care. This film describes the importance of advance directives, the arguments surrounding physician assisted suicide, and this prompted me to form my own opinion on preparing my own directives and thoughts on these tough decisions.

If someone was to spend their time around people who have just experienced a breakup, they are unlikely to have the same experience with each person. They could find that although one person is in a bad way, another could come across though they haven't been affected.

Loving someone is a wonderful thing, it's just that there are some factors that we cannot control which could lead to the failure of our relationships. But this does not mean that we fail in our life as well. There are so many more reasons why you need to move on after being dumped... so go on, live your life to the fullest despite of that painful experience.

Undoubtedly, the experiences serve as lessons learned. Dealing with a broken heart is never an easy task—sometimes people fall

Whatever the reason for the break, the pain has been proven to be real. People suffer emotional pain. This is often in the form of depression or significant amounts of stress. “Research shows that those who have very rigid attitudes about the importance of romantic love are the most likely to develop depression” (Heartline.com). People that feel this way believe that the breakup will change their lives and/or that it was their fault. This happens more than society thinks. Unfortunately, depression is common in young love. “Young women tend to experience more emotional distress following a breakup, they have more intrusive thoughts about the former relationship and they experience greater rates of sadness, anxiety and negative emotions than do others” (Healthline.com). This same source states that research shows close to 50 percent of college age students sleep less-months after a breakup. People in this age group are at risk for depression especially if they are betrayed or unprepared for the breakup. When breakups happen, the end of the relationship can be full of anger and even fear. Fear can make people act

However, a breakup is capable of defeating such depression, to make a happier future. Firstly, being involved in an unhappy marriage is capable of ruining their health. The family doctor says, “Poor emotional health can weaken your body’s immune system, making you more likely to get colds and other infections during emotionally difficult times.” By getting a divorce, depression will slowly fall away. Depression doesn’t last forever, most humans find ways to overcome their depression, or often finds help. If you were to stay in a miserable marriage, depression would grow every day, due to putting up with the strain every day. Researchers at London’s Kingston University found that women feel much happier for up to five years following the end of their marriages. And no, it wasn’t just because they had finally broken free of their unhappy marriages. They felt more content than they had in their entire lifetimes. Secondly, being able to be happy from a divorce provides many benefits. Benefits such as lengthen our life’s, something most human beings want. In a 2011 study, almost 4,000 English adults ages 52-79 reported how happy, excited, and content they were multiple times in a single day. Here, happier people were 35 percent less likely to die over the course of about five years than their unhappier counterparts. Also being able to live longer will allow parents to

- Whether we are broken up with or someone we care about quits showing interest in us, we immediately become insecure, often blaming ourselves for not being the reason things worked out. There are even times the other person points things out that will stick with us and also make us insecure.

Relationships with a significant other can turn into something that is life-long, or can turn into something brief and can lead to a lot of hurt feelings. Breakups are already hard to go through and sometimes people do not know how to deal with it. There are certain factors that can go into a relationship that are indicators of the failure of the relationship. Past relationships can also be an indicator on whether or not the post relationship dissolution will be positive or negative. Stress is another factor that can make getting over relationships much harder, this is seen especially in young adults. Coping mechanisms to learn can lead to a faster recovery of a person’s mental state and allow someone to become more positive and make new romantic relationships. Relationship dissolution can happen to any couple, early recognition of problems can show if the relationship will be successful or fail. Stress from breakups is also common and knowing ways to deal with it can make it easier to go through. Ways to cope can positively increase a person’s well-being and instead of letting the relationship get to your head, it can make it easier to overcome.

Try not to be cruel, be honest, don’t say things that might confuse or hurt like bringing back the past or the reasons why you want to end it. Be prepared for any reaction, the dumped can react since he or she didn’t see it coming. You should try to be comforting but not too attach but also don’t just storm out of there. For both of you to have a chance to move on, you should avoid each other and if you have each other’s thing try to sort it out so you both won’t have an argument. The best lesson of a failed relationship is to learn from it and don’t let it repeat it. Also know when to walk away, why be bickering about a lost cause.

The aim of this paper is to shed light on the reality of how painful a break up can be due to the studies that verify the impact of a breakup on a person for the society to understand and sympathies with the victim of the breakup and for the victim of the breakup, to understand why breakups hurt so much and create that much pain making the victim go through a traumatizing event and not understand what’s happening . Breakups are often discussed in a way that suggests that they have little to no effect on personal well-being and it’s just something a person needs to get over when in reality the breakup is one of hardest events a person can go through especially if the relationship was a serious romantic one that lasted for a long time