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Essay On Canadian Identity

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I am a married heterosexual 39 year-old Korean-Canadian middle class woman with two children, who immigrated to Canada at the age of 12. The identities that have been the most salient and influential in determining my life trajectories and my values have been my gender, age, race, religion, and class identities. Immigrating to Canada had a significant impact on my identity development. I felt like an outsider who was ‘fresh off the boat’ at school and felt a sense of inferiority compared to the kids who were born in Canada. Although I became a Canadian citizen within three years, it took me awhile to embrace the Canadian identity and felt like I belonged in Canada. Therefore, I tried very hard to learn the English language and to adapt to the …show more content…

I was very aware of the expectation of the submissive roles I was supposed to play, both as a daughter and a female with my culture and my church and I strived to be the person I was expected to be. However, I realized that I was playing the role that other wanted. I found that the pressure of conforming to the cultural and religious norms unappealing as I grew older and I needed to be free from their restrictions (symbolic). Eventually I distanced myself from the Korean community, which was difficult since I came from a culture which valued harmony and ties to the community. As a woman with two kids, I am fully aware of my fantasy of being the ‘super mom’, who could work full-time and take care of the kids without breaking a sweat. This ideal notion of motherhood was influenced by my religious, cultural, and gender identities. Specifically, I value kindness, self-sacrifice, hard-work, and responsibility. All things that enabled me to provide be a good mother, sister, daughter, and a wife. However, the flip side is that the ideal version of myself informed by these values does not leave much wiggle room for

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