FNU Dad Mohammad
Prof. Suzan Chenard
ESL 178
06/06 2016
Family and Memory
Family is a single word that has many different meanings and definitions. In a short definition we can say family is a group of people that are consist of parents, children, grandparents that are living together in a household. In other word we can say family can be defined in several ways depending on each person what he or she are experiencing in her or his life from their family. If we look at the poem written by Linda Hogan and the poem written by Robert Hayden, we will see different definitions for family depending on their background and where they grew up. People have different understanding about what the family means. Its mean ’ we must accept our parents and we must feel a shamed and understand what love and sacrifices they gave us when we were children and be aware the family could be not just bound by blood.
Linda Hogan has struggled with her mixed blood, so her family life is complicated.
Hogan remembers of the brown stain on a white shirt is a strong image that conveys combining two threads of color that ultimately make up her genetics. According to Linda Hogan’s poem she states, “it was the brown stain that covered my white shirt.” The earth colored stain on her shirt is a symbol of her homeland Oklahoma and a symbol of the brown threads that weave her into the Chickasaw family tapestry. However, from the title of her book that this poem appears in is called “calling myself home”, I
Family means a group consisting of parents and children living together in a household who can be blood related. Sometimes the word family does not consist of the same diction definition. One may say that family don’t always have to be living in the same house hold. Others may argue that in order to be a family they have to love each other, and support one another. In the “Adventures of Huckleberry Finn” by Mark Twain, discus family as a different convocational meaning.
Family. A word that has about as many meanings as there are stars in the sky. Can family truly be defined, or is it merely interpretive? According to Seccombe, family is a relationship by blood, marriage, or affection, in which members may cooperate economically, may care for children, and may consider their identity to be intimately connected to the larger group (Seccombe 4). Although I do agree with the above explanation of family, I believe that it is inadequate in that it only supplies a framework of family rather than the duties and purpose. To me, family is a unit of individuals, related or not, that symbolize and exude comfort, solace, and support through all the trials and triumphs life throws our way.
For such a small word, “Family,” can mean so much. In a dictionary one may read family as people with common ancestors, but a true family is people who stick together and support one another at any cost. Both books, Night by Elie Wiesel, and, Unbroken, by Laura Hillenbrand display the theme of family relationships throughout the story.
The article Family and Social Memory: Why History Matters mentioned the concept of the nuclear family. The ideal white-picket fenced family, with a mother, father and children who happily live together in privacy. It was during the postwar era when technological discoveries were rapid and mind-blowing, an era where hope was renewed and the ideal family was remodeled. It involved a father being the head of the house, and the mother being the primary caretaker. It was this notion that reigned as the ideal family for a long period of time. However, I find this stereotype to be rather poisonous because, as the article also mentioned, soon the media uncovered the dark realities behind the nuclear family. During the post-war era, abuse and sexism
What’s the meaning of family? According to Merriam-Webster dictionary family is defined as “all the descendants of common ancestor”, but is that how do you define family? Have you ever had someone in your life outside of your family that you were able to confide in? Share your happiness and saddest moments with? Be your biggest advocate? If the answer is yes, then these people are considered family as well. Channeling personal experiences I’m able to relate to Cecile Gilmer’s believe that “Families are not only blood relatives but sometimes just people who show up and love you when no one else will.”
According to the dictionary family is a group consisting of parents and children living together in a household. Or family is from the descendants of a common ancestor. According to society family is a group, it can be related are not. My definition of family is anyone who is there for you through good and bad, someone who always have your back no matter what. Family is not just blood. However some of the best families are the ones you are not related to.
A family is seen as a group of people who are biologically or psychologically related. They connect on historical, emotional
Family is a noun that means a group consisting parents and children living together in a household, or descendants from common ancestors.All families are unique,but have some things in common with others.My family has a lot in common with the family in Alice Walker’s “Everyday Use”.We also have a few differences.The short story is about a mother and her two loving daughter dee and maggie;Dee goes off to college and completely changes to a new person. Speaking of that my family also has a few differences from them regarding mother,siblings,and heritage.
What is family? Family will always be there, no matter the situation you're in. There love will be unconditionally. You can’t just pick any family you just get blessed. Every family has their own weirdness, craziness or traditions. Unlike my family there’s something special about them that’s unexplainable. I’m thankful for both sides of my families; I love each and everyone of them. The amounts of love and support that I received from them has help me become the person that I am today.
A definition of the family is; people who are related through marriage or blood such as mother, father, sister or brother. Also linking in the legal bond of adoption can have as much of an impact on the family as blood ties. It’s important to remember that the family is a universal concept.
I must have been about 4 years old when my family and I came across a cat, he was black and white in color and dirty from being outside. He was standing in the middle of a dirt road and froze in fear when our car pulled up to him. My mother, seeing as she is rather courageous, decided she wanted to save him. My grandmother was very much against this idea, what if he's sick, what if he has rabies? This is one of my earliest memories so my recollection of this is like a dream, just bits and pieces crocheted into one mishmash of a story. I say this because after that point the next thing I remember is being at home with this cat and they had put him in the sink to wash him. He looked rather young and was thin, I couldn't tell you if that was because he was outside or if that was because he was wet, maybe both. I also couldn't tell you if they took him to the vet and got him checked out, and as sure as I am that they are responsible enough to do that, I couldn't tell you for sure. They later named him Gus. Yes, like an old man, I wonder how my younger self felt about it, I kind of like it now.
Family is a group of people who live together to support each other in good and bad times. The main role of family in the lives of human is to develop in them a sense of security
We began this semester talking about what the definition of a family was. We delved into the definitions of each type of family, focusing mainly on a nuclear family, a family of affinity, and an extended family. I recently began watching this TV show called The Fosters. This show is the definition of a family of affinity, it follows two monogamous lesbian women who aren’t married but have been together for years. One of the women has a son by her ex-husband and the two women together have adopted two children and are fostering two more. It is interesting following the story of this family, how each of them view themselves as brother and sister, even though two of them are new to the family.
A family can be defined in many ways, but the common denominator in all is the love and fulfillment one gets by being surrounded by family members. Families can sometimes be at odds with each other, but the strain of this type of relationship usually creates an upsetting feeling to the people involved. People want others to rely on, talk to, do things with, share, love, embrace, and be part of. No matter what the family dynamic is the qualities the word family has will remain the same, as time goes by, and life evolves once again for every person living their
According to Swartz and Scott (2009), family is defined as a group of people related to each other by blood, marriage, adoption or being sexually open in a relationship. The