Culture is a product of the human mind and it is defined through language. The language and culture related because language shows an expression of the culture. Therefore, when we learn language, we also need to learn about the culture of it. This paper aims to discuss a cultural point like family life and relationship in the story “Powder” by Tobias Wolff and compare it with the one similar to that of our culture.
We know that not all of the children can have a good family, live with their parents, smile and laugh together. Every family has their own problems and sometimes the children have to live separate with their father or their mother. However, it is not a bad life if there is still a relationship among the member of a family like in the story “Powder” by Tobias Wolff which tells about the relationship between father and son with broken home situations. This story has some cultural points of family life and relationship that will be explained including young adulthood, family roles, promptness, future time.
The first cultural point is young adulthood. In this story, we know that the father try to pass the road with full of snow around although there is a barricade which blocking the road. He also ask his son to move the barricade, so they can go. However, the father says to his son to never try
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That situation obviously become a custom and also will influence their future life. What the father did does not indicate that he teachs a bad thing, but he want his son learn and take a lesson from something that happened in his life. Comparing with our culture, this point is not different with Indonesian family. Children in Indonesia is asked to be open minded and have a wide knowledge, but still the parents control and monitor the children activities. Sometimes, young adulthoods depend on their
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