When it comes to gender identity, I identify myself as a masculine or a man. As a masculine I’m going to play the role of a female where I would go to a neighborhood close to where I live, wear a wedding dress, and see how people around the block reacting to my kind of behavior. Base of my moral norm, I think it would be shameful, and I expect people to feel disgusting by it because that’s how I would feel if I were the public. As we all know when it comes to the behaviors between men and women, there is a lot of thing women can do but man can’t do because if a man does it, it would look weird or shock the society. For instance, throughout the weekend I was thinking about an experiment to see what exactly a woman can do which would be normal, …show more content…
Therefore, I borrowed my sister's long-time wedding dress and decide to wear it, and walk down the street with it for approximately ten minutes. Honestly, it was a shameful moment as I thought it would be, but despite that I learn something from it. The people who saw me walking down the street in that wedding dress were so shock like they could not believe it. Others even give a facial expression like they were wondering what the hell is going on. People like Arena be like, “boy where are you going with that nonsense.” That is to show, how emulating it was to behave in such way. Anyways, I hope I will never have to do this again because it was very uncomfortable. I think it is better for a woman to play a man’s role than it is for a man to play a woman’s role. Nevertheless, after the experiment, I approach some people and ask for their opinion, such as what was the first thing that comes to mind when they first seeing me in that wedding dress. Some say, they thought I was a gay man who was about to get married, many say, they thought I had lost my mind. Meanwhile, others also say that they would most like expecting to see a woman walking down the street in her wedding dress, but not a man. In fact, that was disturbing and
Because of these misconceptions, I want to dive further into the taboo around gender to explore how gender performance influences the way we perceive and treat others. If these practices are exposed, perhaps we can begin mending the ties that separate us from those whose life experiences are different than ours.
Gender is defined as being male or female as defined by roles, social status, and attitude. The perception of oneself and what characterizes gender identity. Included in gender identity is hormone and behavior interaction, along with the examination of psychological, biological, and environmental influences on sexual separation.
We are made by how people looks at females and males in today’s world. When we are first born we are labeled by colors, boys gets blue and girls gets pink. We don’t ask for any of this and yet we are forced into this because we have no power what’s so ever. Whenever you see a male wearing female clothing in public, it seems weird or unnatural to some people. It’s unnatural to some because of the world they were raised around, which was males wear male clothes and females wear female clothes. Clothes are intended for everyone but people make it seem like it’s either for males strictly or it’s for females. Society chooses what we can wear and what we can’t wear. People are
On October 6, 2017, I woke up and for an hour I thought about what social norm I was going to challenge for this assignment. After giving it careful thought, I decided I was going to challenge the gender roles, identity, and stereotypes that society has. “Gender roles are sets of behavioral norms assumed to accompany one’s status as male or female.” (Conley, 2017, p.133) I was going to challenge this with my clothing. So, I decided I was going to dress up like a man for the whole day. Gender roles are cultural and personal. They determine and control how males and females should think, speak, dress, and interact within the context of society. In the United States, these gender roles are
In this society, people have grown to believe that your gender is what defines who you are and what you do. By using gender-based clothing such as dresses and overalls, life events, and the importance of choice, Lee suggests that gender roles can’t be pushed upon someone because they must choose and accept it themselves.
Julie Greenwood, a transgendered woman, explained that, if you steer away from the social norms about women there could be consequences. She also explained that social norms are learned at a very young age. As we learned about in class, the gender role theories are roles that are learned in childhood, which can affect many of people’s choices. The social norms of gender can affect how people dress, the division of labor and essential differences. Men are usually expected to be independent, assertive and competitive while women are supposed to be passive, emotional and supportive of their male counter part. These gender norms can interfere with the careers women
The people there were of all different races, ages, and genders and they were very open to different people. The host kept explaining how all women are beautiful despite what race or gender you are which made the environment even more open to diversity. However, although accepting people of all kinds, the host did use many racial slurs and expressed how those who are religious and didn’t approve of drag should, “drag their asses out of the club”. I found it interesting that they approved of people who were different, but didn’t really accept the people who viewed drag differently. There was a blurred line between gender roles at this performance and even in the couples around me. In male couples both seemed to play both the male and female figure in the relationship and in many female couples both would play the same gender role. In terms of kinship relations there was no families at the club, just couples or single men and women. Like the hijras in Gender Diversity ,it was interesting to see the men in the drag show “adopt the clothing and behavior or women”(29). Thier employment is also like that of the hijras “musical entertainers”, but in American society it isn't seen as supernatural or religious event it is seen as entertainment. I truly enjoyed the different genders that performed, but did find it difficult not to let my subconscious judge them from what I grew up believing. I wondered if they felt like the transgenders described in The Five Sexes Revisited, “people who have an emotional gender at odds with their physical sex...males trapped in female bodies”(22). I expected the show to be more like the movie Hedwig and the angry inch where people would be more upset and concerned about a male dressed in women's clothing. However, most people at the event were very accepting and seemed to appreciate the differences in other people. It was nice to be in such a friendly environment
As societal human beings, we are constantly immersed in a world of gender norms. Gender norms are behaviors that include ways of speaking, ways of presentation, and even types of body language that are associated with certain genders, typically to the resilient two-category system of men and women. Sociologists West and Zimmerman describes the action of performing these gender norms in daily, social interactions as “doing gender” (35). Gender norms are an essential part of society, to the extent that the general population will only notice and acknowledge the presence of gender when the norms are breached and questioned. For this particular assignment, I have decided to enact a gender norm violation of demonstrating masculinity by wearing a tie, sitting while taking up as much room as possible, and building furniture with an aggressive, loud and assertive approach. My uncharacteristic behavior at my workplace, a conventional law firm, drew both subtle and unsubtle reactions from my coworkers and I was eventually held responsible for my actions. This report of my experience also reveals the conflicting responses of respect and reprimand towards the consequences of breaking a gender norm.
Moreover, Lang (1999) successfully demonstrated that young women within sorority clubs do gender as their role of adopting their traditional feminine characteristics become gender obligations in order for them to fit in that particular society. Therefore, the example of dress illustrates that individuals within society are deeply controlled by their body since non verbal communication has become a form of social control (Lang 1999). For instance, it enables users to project their identity and allow agents of social control to interpret their identity through their style of clothing (Arvanitidiou and Gasouka 2013). To conclude, the example discussed above highlights how garments are devised by humans which offer a clear distinction between how
Judith Butler is a famous American academic who is famous for her theories of the performative nature of gender and sex, who firmly believes that gender is socially constructed rather than being innate. One of her most popular beliefs was that there is no ‘proper’ gender, and that gender is a ‘doing’, but not a ‘doing’ by the individual. Gender performativity is not a singular act, but actually a set of repetitions and recitations; through gestures, a way of dressing, and a way of speaking; that become ritualized where the effects observed by others make the gender appear natural. Butler takes a stance on believing that gender is socially constructed and that society influences expectations and characteristics of being a ‘man’ or a ‘woman’,
When first receiving the instructions for this assignment intending involvement in a public women-centered event in order to review and analyze it – I was overwhelmed by intimidation. I was perplexed by the realization that for a woman in my thirties, this was to be the first time I would find myself in the enclave of true womanhood…and it terrified me. The closest I had ever come to a ‘women-centered’ event was during my twenties, and it involved a bunch of girls and two hired male exotic dancers. You see; I realized that, despite being a woman, I have always found women intimidating. Nonetheless, I set out to make an appearance driven to overcome some personal challenges including the task of writing this paper.
The first community engagement event I attended was called “The Vagina Monologues” which took place on February 17th, 2016. The event was held in the HUB room 302, was hosted by the UC Riverside Woman’s Resource Center, and began at 7pm. When I arrived I was a bit hesitant to go because all of my female friends who I had invited to come with me had class obligations that night and although the flyer had said everyone was welcome, I couldn’t help but feel I would be out of place. All I knew about this event was that it was supposed to be filled with skits meant to empower woman, and being a man in that environment mad me uneasy. After a few moments of internal debate I decided that it didn’t matter what I thought or felt I needed to go to the event and get
Throughout today’s society, almost every aspect of someone’s day is based whether or not he or she fits into the “norm” that has been created. Specifically, masculine and feminine norms have a great impact that force people to question “am I a true man or woman?” After doing substantial research on the basis of masculine or feminine norms, it is clear that society focuses on the males being the dominant figures. If males are not fulfilling the masculine role, and females aren’t playing their role, then their gender identity becomes foggy, according to their personal judgment, as well as society’s.
“Why is she with him?” is the question we find ourselves asking our peers. To judge a book by its cover as to judge a human by the layer that covers his or her skin. Often in our culture today, we as Americans tend to follow the never ending trend of fashion. It plays a role on what we wear, how we talk, and even who we date. In California, you come across vast styles of fashion, races, and cultures all in one place. Most of the time we find similarities between the couples we see, but in other circumstances like the experiment of a well-dressed female dating a very poor looking male, would this be a norm in society? My boyfriend and I decided to purposely disguise ourselves in completely opposite social class appearance such as clothing in order to feel people’s reactions, comments, and overall judgment on what most would consider taboo. The experiment took place in three different areas that involved being surrounded by people. These areas most importantly had to have a diverse group of people, so I chose; the mall, a restaurant, and Best Buy. My determination was to not seek acceptance but to determine whether we as a whole play a role in society on what is normal from the abstract.
Throughout today’s society, there are multiple views and opinions on whether or not there are more than two genders or if gender is even just a social construct. Each person has their own individual preference on how they express their gender. Therefore, we can no longer assume what someone identifies as just by looking at them. Over the years I have learned more about gender expression and gender identity as I gained friends who were homosexual as well as transgender. I feel as if I was introduced to all of these ways of life at a young age, therefore I can, in some ways, teach those who are uneducated and do not know what to think. I have personally never really thought about the different gender identities I could label myself as but as of right now I identify as a cisgender female