We all remember growing up as adolescents – striving for freedom, searching for some sort of belonging and most of all, searching to gain the respect and trust of adults. For some, this may have meant doing chores at home or tutoring younger kids at school, but for myself, at the age of 15, there was nothing else I wanted more in the world than a part-time job and I mean a real part-time job. I was tired of delivering newspapers to the same 64 houses three times a week for four years, and I was done with shoveling my neighbour’s driveway in hoping to earn some pocket change but walking away with nothing more than two butter cookies. I wanted a job in which I would have real hours, where I would get a real salary and have the chance to meet …show more content…
The others had all had previous retail jobs and they were well aware of all of the concepts that were foreign to me so I felt lost in translation, but I managed to figure out what the training manager was talking about and I felt I had a good idea of what to expect on the job. Not long after would I find out that I was awfully wrong. I can’t lie, I was extremely excited for my first shift on the sales floor. I thought I was well prepared, well informed and I was ready to show the others in my department that I was not only suited for the job, but that I would excel at doing it. This is where everything began to go downhill. My first shift being on a Sunday, was much busier than I had expected, and I being the only one in my side of the department for the day didn’t help one bit. I had a terrible time keeping up with all of the customers in my department asking for help with items that we had on the sales floor let alone when I had to go to the warehouse to find another size for a customer. When I was faced with the challenge of asking a manager whom I’ve never met for help, I did so. Not only did I ask her for help confidently, but I continued to ask her for help throughout the rest of my shift, always calling her by her first name – or what I had thought her first name was. Only during my lunch did I find out that her name was actually Shabana and not Chavana as I had been calling her all day. I turned firetruck red at the learning of her name because I had
Teens work to help them gain work experience for jobs that they will take in the future. “Clark is a 16 year old who talks about how working experience can help teens like him to succeed in their career” (“Africa News Service” 1). Working experience can build a sense of confidence for teens . “Many teens talk about how having a chance to work makes them confident as a human being” (Scherer 1). Teens want work experience so they can improve in their weak points. “Bailey talks about how she was very shy, but until she started working she had become more open towards people” (2). Teens getting working experience and equally treated will help them be confident and grow up to be a good example of an
Jobs won’t only support teens for the things they want, but it can help benefit for the things they need. The first things teens think of for their future are going to college and getting their first car. But, let’s say there’s a well educated thirteen-year-old, raised in a low-income family, who has plans on going to college.
In modern-day society, there are numerous people who take pleasure in separating themselves from the typical standards of society; however, there are also people who feel uncomfortable expressing themselves in the own, distinctive ways. Because they feel this way, many adolescents believe that by camouflaging themselves into their peer’s behaviors and beliefs that they will fit in with social norm, accepted beliefs and behaviors in a social group or society, and the reason why they have this mentality, is because of the lack of confidence to express their ideas in their own unique ways. The belief that students and kids have to live up to social norms, are implemented on them by social influences, more specifically, their peers.
The next morning, I woke up at 9:30am to prepare myself for my second day at McDonalds. I got dress into my uniform and jumped into the car to go to work. I arrived at McDonald and noticed that it was very busy inside. As I walked in, I was automatically being placed on front counter to take order but I was very nervous to take order because I didn’t know how to take them. My manager taught me how to take the order and after a while I began to start taking orders without any help. Everything was going great until one customer came into store with complaint. I politely asked if he needed help, then angrily started yell at me about his order being incorrect. The man even started to blame me for incorrectly bagging his food. His yelling was so loud that my manager and even customer had to calm him down and escort him out of the store. At the end of shift, I talked to manager and told her that I wanted quit because the customer made me so upset and embarrassed. She told me quitting would be the wrong option and she told me that her and the other managers liked me working there.
“I am self-propelled; fueled from within. I appreciate people’s opinions, but I am not attached to them. I learned a long time ago that if I give them the power to feed me, I also give them the power to starve me.” -Dr. Steve Maraboli. When I read this quote I thought he was describing that no one can hold him back and he is going to be free. My question is what does it mean to be free? Does it mean not caring what others think about you? Or is it being free to accomplish your dreams with no regrets and nothing holding you back? Being free means different things to different people. In the poem “Caged Bird,” by Maya Angelou, she talks about two types of people one being caged and one being free. In his poem “Mother to Son,” Langston Hughes talks about there will bumps in the road of life, but you have to forge your path to be free. In the poem, “The Road Not Taken,” Robert Frost discusses the two roads a person can take, either you can be free and not care about other's opinions, or you can be trapped by everyone’s thoughts about you. You can be free by not caring about others opinion’s on you, but by making your own path. So will you choose to be free or will you choose to be dragged down by other’s opinions about you?
What is a teen activist? A teen activist is a teenager who wants to help people or animals for a cause. What I think about all teen activists is that they all fight for what they believe in. They go to extensive lengths to help people to help us. They don't do this because they have to they do it because they want to do it. They don't care that the odds were against them or they have very little chance of succeeding. They do what they want and the do it right.They are like the voice of the people fighting up against poverty and all the other struggles in the world. Most activists go through a lot like Malala but I won't get to deep into that yet. They all have the courage to do what they do.
“A lot of people think that addiction is a choice. A lot of people think it 's a matter of will. That has not been my experience. I don 't find it to have anything to do with strength.”
In the essay "Let Teenagers Try Adulthood", Leon Botstein expresses that the "superficial definitions" of high school students present a reason that they should be allowed to begin their lives in the working world rather than to prolong their education. Botstein is correct in proclaiming that high schools are breeding grounds for "cliques" and "artificial intensity”, and his address of the “flawed institution” of high school is cogent and fitting.
Schooling has always been of great importance to our society. Most parents, want their children to have a proper education. They believe in the importance of a good education and doing what is the utmost for their child. Unschooling is a method of where there is not teacher teaching the student. Each student has to be able to learn on their own without the help of others. Yes, they can have help, but it is a personal motivation for them to strive for excellence by themselves. Unschooling has dated back centuries ago when Thomas Jefferson was still alive. Unschooling is a new trending topic that results in many benefits and pitfalls.
Working in a daycare, I see kids, of all kinds, limiting themselves on a daily basis. Whether it be the boy who wants to play dolls, or the girl who wants to play dinosaurs, kids all over the country are restricting their personalities and their imaginations because of what it expected of them.
High school is the most important time for teenagers and it is the time where they grow and learn to think differently about their self. If we could recall back to any films that has been made from the past years for example, Cyberbully, Mean girls, Cassi and vise versa, we could see that this these films focus on teenagers concerning about identity and their self; whether popularity that boost their confidence, and bullying. However, this paper will be about the observation conducted at McDonald’s; the first part of the essay will focus on the environment, secondly, the adolescent’s physical characteristic, then social skills, language skills, and behavior. The essay will continue on discussion about some possible programs that should be created to help middle adolescents or teenagers with identity issues; because identity affects all categories of development.
The movie thirteen is a raw psychodrama directed by Catherine Hardwicke is based on the life of a young teenage girl, Tracy Freeland whom catapults from pre adolescence/childhood to a wild and rebellious thirteen year old girl. Filmed in Los Angeles, Tracey and her mother’s relationship are put to the test when she befriends Evie. Evie is a popular girl from junior high school who introduces her to the world of sex, drugs and self-mutilation. We see a physical and psychological change in Tracey almost overnight, as her kinship with Evie transforms into a toxic relationship. Tracey’s early traumatic life experiences, manifests into a co-morbidity of depression and borderline personality disorder that affects her ability to cope with an
Being a teenager in our times is both tough and great, depending on the current state of each individual. It is extremely tough on one side, due to the surroundings what’s around us both local and international, what’s going on here at home and around the world. As I am aware of personally, it is the toughest times I’ve seen in my short sixteen year life, for both the teenagers and generally for all types’ people. As we see today the world is going through so much trouble, crisis, lack of safety and even wars in some countries overseas. Meanwhile here home we have our own types of trouble, we see police brutality and police killing of innocent black people, labeled as racial profiling, you have that Black Lives Matter movement going on. Something that was not far from us was the recent presidential elections, where there was one of the candidates who was very controversial, and now is the elected president Mr. Donald J Trump. He has made a lot of controversial remarks including vowing to build a wall on the Mexican border, deporting Mexicans, monitoring Muslims, not letting Muslims leave the country, calling Muslims terrorists and a handful of other comments and agendas. In the meantime immediately after he won the elections, mass anti trump protesting broke out nationwide and among those were a lot of students, teenagers and youngsters. Teenagers are the most easy to influence among people in all types of things and today we have some many different types of things, teenagers are easily to get exposed to, we have drugs laundering around everywhere, radicalization, gangs,
Nowadays, students love to have part-time jobs. Their parents approve it easily as they are said to gain experience from working. However, having a job is a big responsibility for a student. Before, teenagers at their age were working to help their family because of poverty. Nevertheless, they were actually eager to study and learn at school for their future. It was not the same as the teenagers nowadays where they are more likely competing to each other to have a job. Most of the
Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "So much attention is paid to the aggressive sins, such as violence and cruelty and greed with all their tragic effects, that too little attention is paid to the passive sins, such as apathy and laziness, which in the long run can have a more devastating and destructive effect upon society than the others." Laziness is in fact harmful in the long run. It leads to lack of dependency, which can cause drastic consequences to society. This is why solutions must be identified to solve the dilemma of dependency on others in today's youth, particularly in the United Arab Emirates, where this problem prevails.