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Essay on Hospice: My Life Changing Experience

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Many things have shaped me into the person I am today. Some of them are so insignificant I can't even place them, but others I will remember until I take my very last breath. I will never forget what happened to me and my family since the time my mom was diagnosed with cancer. Because my mom had cancer for a good portion of my childhood, I became very mature, gained a new respect for people, and I have developed a new outlook on life. I had to become very mature very quickly after my mom got sick. My mom was diagnosed with stage three colon cancer in 2008. I was only eleven years old. It was shocking to me because I was still a little girl, and I was worry free and happy. Having her so sick changed me because I didn't have the time to be …show more content…

Frankly, I found them repulsive. It was a good and a bad thing for me. I felt so alone. My depression grew with each month, but it made me a stronger person. I came to rely on myself, and I did not reply on other people anymore. I learned to trust in my own abilities, and I came to the realization that the world is a cruel place. I have a new respect for people who are sick because I understand how it can affect them. I have a new sympathy for people in the hospitals because of spending so much time there. Today my mom is still fighting stage four cancer, and it has spread to her lungs and her liver. She has good hospice care, and they even attend to her emotional needs. The sad thing is that my mom is not the same person she used to be. Today I understand many things that I did not when I was younger. I am sixteen, but I am mentally much older. I understood that cancer kills people, but I now understand that it affects so many more people than the ones who actually have it. Cancer affects a whole family. Now I feel like my mom being sick is an everyday occurrence, but it does not affect me like it used to. I have become numb to it. I still have the greatest respect for my mother, but I have accepted that cancer will always be a part of her life. My mom's illness has given me a new outlook on my past experiences with her. I often think about how different my life would have been if my mom had never gotten sick. I wish the very best for her,

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