It’s almost as if I am a consolation prize to far too many women who fall short of their romantic endeavors. Even the word prize may be a stretch as an appropriate name to represent this arrangement. I am more like a band aid for the broken rather than an actual reward. It seems as if there have always been women in my life that allow guys destroy them to the lowest denominator. The pattern – much to my dismay - is repeated over and over. Time after time they go through their separate dilemmas, and after it turns south, they come crawling back to me. My role is to make them whole again by putting the shattered pieces back together. As simple as this may sound, it is far easier said than accomplished. As to how effective my requested involvement is, I’m not a hundred percent sure. There is a fine line between helpful and hurtful, and depending on the day, it could tilter to either side. The variations are minor and truth be told, everyone wants to help them. It’s human nature. The problem is, more often than less, they won’t help themselves. Is this some kind of morbid attraction? Do the good guys really finish last? I always thought that the words were just nothing more than a popular cliché. Perhaps I thought wrong. It’s all about choices. We all have the power to choose so why do they keep going for the same destructive unions? The solution seems so simple to me. All they have to do is stop going out with terrible guys. Then I again it is all too clear that I continue
If you find yourself in a disaster, helping others is most likely not your first thought. The more rational look for a way to make it safely, worrying about themselves first, and others second. In the Novel Hiroshima by John Hersey even though many of the main characters are hurt, run to assist others. These people who were in the thick of it lacked any real reason to help others, yet they still made the effort to try. The disaster that befell Hiroshima was an atrocity, however, it did bring the community closer. Compassion in all forms enthralls those who have nothing to gain to help others, regardless of the repercussions or sacrifices.
Being in a relationship is like being in a roller coaster, sometimes you enjoy the ride, sometimes you don’t. Even with the passing of the years, this statement hasn’t had considerable changes. Many women see themselves trapped in relationships they are not satisfied with. While a few of them look for solutions in order to live a pleasant life, the majority resign themselves to stay in distressed affiliations.
There are times where trying to help others, social capital with purely with good intentions, fails to benefit someone and so society is not enhanced. If the person, who fell on bad times, you are trying to help chooses to not make any effort to recover from it, then there is nothing to be done to truly help them. The expectation is that he will endeavor situate himself back to self-sufficiency to
People don’t help others people unless it benefits them. An example of this is in the article “The Dying Girl That No One Helped”, when 38 or more people saw the girl dying but not a single person stopped and went outside to help. No one even picked up a phone and called the police until she was already dead. Lieutenant Jacobs said that most people “just don’t want to get involved”(Wainwright). An example that most people can relate to in their life is when something happens, such as a fight, or any other type of argument between people. Most of the time no one will help to break up the fight, they would rather stand by and watch. These examples show that people don’t want to get involved in something that doesn’t benefit them to help. People will only help when it benefits them to help, or hurts them to not help.
Attention Getter: Has anyone ever stopped to help you when you were in need? How did it make you feel?
After reading the readings that I have read for this paper makes me sit back and think how others were raised. I wonder if these people were taught right from wrong. It is really hard for me to think that so many people just think of themselves and do not want to help anybody else out in a time of need. If it be at work, personal life, or in a state of emergency. I feel that if you do not help another person out you are a selfish irresponsible person. There are way too many people who like to make somebody else be responsible for what they should take responsibility for.
I think that maybe, if I help them, that they would want to help other people too. One of my tasks
People helping people are what makes America strong. We seem to forget that everyone needs help at one point in their lives. Some people go about their daily lives and seem to have blinders on. Zig Ziglar said it best “You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.” Stop look around and you will see the need. Horace Mann stated, “Doing nothing for others is the undoing of ourselves.”
So technically what am trying to say is to not deny help to those who need it ,put yourself in their shoes do you really want to be that kind of person who says no to every person who need help
In this generation, some people do not take relationships seriously. Sandra Cisneros explores the message of women falling in love easily with the wrong men in the stories “One Holy Night,” “Woman hollering Creek” and “Bien Pretty.” These stories show us how women loved men who did not love them back, left and hurt them. The women from these three stories shared what love did to them and what love can do to them anyone. When women actually committed on something or someone, they will love them endlessly. Although these women did not get the love that they deserve, at least they experienced something that will teach them lessons. Perhaps the next time they will love someone, they will make sure that they will be love back.
* One thing is always sure when you 're a nice person; people will tend to reciprocate in your time of need because as individuals, we 're bound to face challenges, disappointments and looses at some point in our lives. When you 've been nice to others during their struggles, it 's more likely they will return the favor during your hard times. That is just human nature, most of us feel really motivated to help those that have helped us, i am a very sure bet in this regard. It’s an aspect of me that i strive to do more often because i feel that individual has slightly changed my world with his acts of kindness. This is significantly valuable and it makes us feel important which is something we all want as individuals.
“The Winner Within” is about a life plan for team players and what it takes to be a successful team. Each chapter is based on one subject, and that subject is one of the many things that a team needs to be successful. Pat Riley shares his game plan for team players in all of life, not just on the court. All of the strategies in this book are very inspiring and motivate teamwork. I think that the first chapter in the book, ‘The Innocent Climb’, is one of the most important concepts you have to have on a team. The innocent climb is the surge that occurs within a team as they are accomplishing more because of the synergy that occurs within a team. Innocence means understanding that the team comes first and being carried along by that.
When I am at best, I help people. I motivate myself and feel motivated when I get to help others. Whether it’s a stranger, colleague, friends, or family, I feel my passion in assisting those in need. As long as it’s within my capability and moral belief that what people ask for help is ethical and legal, I give them my attention and time. I feel happy that I am able to give a hand, and I feel happy to see people become happy with the help I give them. Helping others put smiles on my face and also on them as well. I feel proud of myself that I have the power to help the
I feel I deserve this scholarship, because I have overcome many things in my life to get me this far. The activities that I have been involved with have helped me grow as a person and have allowed me to reach out to others. The activities that I have been involved with include among others, interact club, and the rotc program I feel I deserve this scholarship because I achieve my goals by working hard, study and whatever it takes to get me there.
Social and cultural pressures, as well as beliefs about the self will influence helping behaviors. In an emergency, both informational and normative social influences are impacting whether an individual helps another. People look for queues from others in order to determine if the current situation requires action to be taken. Also, people will do things simply to be accepted by the group (Aronson et al., 2013). In any