Manzo (2003) reviews literature regarding emotional relationships with places. He notes how the metaphor of the home representing a comforting place of belonging and safety has complicated how negative feelings surrounding the home can be understood. By having no recognition of these negative feelings towards the home, Manzo explains how this has the potential risk of research only investigating a panglossian home. Moore (2000) has also proclaimed that there needs to be a refocus on how research into emotional relationships towards the home. This includes examining the way the home confines and disappoints us as well as how it comforts us. Individuals categorise their house as part of their identity, just as the nation as a whole is part of
Home is the place where one lives permanently, especially as a member of a family or household of or relating to the place where one lives. Home can and can’t be a physical environment. It can, because you have those connected thoughts, memories, feelings, and so much more to you house. Home also can be the environment, like the people, and animals all around you. Home also maybe could not be a physical environment because, You might feel like living there since it looks nice but does not have a good surrounding environment. For Esperanza, she is not proud of the House on Mango Street that she lived in when she was young. she feels like that it’s a dump and the places around it makes her feel bad on the inside.“There? The way she said it
Many people live their life without realizing how much of their neighborhood they carry with them everyday. We also don't realize the fact that no matter the place we find ourselves in we act just the way we would if we were in our own neighborhood. Each neighborhood is unique in their own because they each carry either own set of beliefs, perspectives, and ideas that ultimately impact the decisions we make in the future. Along with our neighborhood shaping us, aging, maturing, memories, and past experiences are also factors that impact our identities. Although there are multiple factors that end up impacting our identity for the most part the type of neighborhood in which we grow up in is the primary factor that shapes our identity.
Home is where family resides. Home is where one feels safe, like a baby in a cradle. Home is where one has a back to rely on, people to trust. For me, home is none of those things. Instead, it is the dark, empty, consuming void in which I spend my days residing. The only companionship I have is the computer screen and the dull, dusty, corroded walls which surround my only home. The walls serve their purpose, as was expected of them: to protect me from the hideous monsters outside. The ugly, manipulating, disgusting monsters who lure one in with their sweetness and proceed to strangle one from the inside out. The monsters who do terrible things, things I wish not to speak of within the confinements of these pages, things that make my blood run cold as if there were a specter within my midst. The
There is an old expression that claims “home is where the heart is.” The expression can be found on signs, door mats, posters, trinkets, or just about any other form of arts and crafts imaginable. When one thinks of home, different ideas and emotions are brought to the surface, some good, some bad. Yet, in that age-old expression lies truth. The home should be the center-piece for one’s development and growth. This is because the home is the central headquarters, the operating base for the family. The family unit has an inordinate amount of influence over one’s development. Is it any wonder then that the Lord would mandate the home to be the key means through which one is brought into spiritual maturity? Randy Stinson and Timothy Paul
Every person is in need of a home. It is a place that feels natural and welcoming. It instills a sense of belonging. A home doesn’t have to be a specific dwelling, for it has many different definitions and meanings for each individual. What is universal is the feelings one receives when they are in their home. It is a place that protects them from the struggles and obstacles that life inevitably thrusts onto people. It is a safe haven. For me this particular feeling is bestowed upon me every time I step foot into my grandparent’s house. My grandparent’s house is my home and it will forever fill me with the unconditional love, happiness and security that my family has given my entire life. My heart is there.
Home has been the center piece of my life since I was born. It has been more than just a place for me to come in and lay my head down at night. It always has been and always will be the safety blanket for my life. It has been the place of several memories over the course of my lifetime; memories that I will never forget. Inside my home, there are many artifacts that describe me as an individual person and have shaped me into the man I am today. My home and the artifacts that it withholds have instilled in me the personal values and norms that help me carry myself as a person, day in and day out.
My house, not my home, just my house. There is a difference, but I wonder if anyone notices other than me. A home has special touches, the cozy feelings, family, memories, and most importantly it gives you and your family something to be proud of. It is something your parents have worked hard to have, it is hopefully a place you feel safe, loved and know better than anywhere. Home isn’t really based on what it looks like, it’s a feeling, or is it a mix of both?
Home has been the centerpiece of my life since I was born. It has been more than just a place for me to come in and lay my head down at night. It always has been and always will be the safety blanket for my life. It has been the place of several memories over the course of my lifetime; memories that I will never forget. Inside my home, there are many artifacts that describe me as an individual person and have shaped me into the man I am today. My home and the artifacts that it withholds have instilled in me the personal values and norms that help me carry myself as a person, day in and day out.
Dwelling, Heidegger also insists, has a certain emotional state of being attached to it. People tend to interpret the experience of dwelling with the sense of home. Dwelling imbues the experiencer with a sense of peace and satisfaction. It is a safe space where they are free to be themselves and a place that need not be either specific nor stationary. In fact, the famous saying “home is where the heart is” perfectly illustrates that home is a feeling without the need for a dwelling to contain it. For example, a truck driver may feel at home on the road, but his home is not a formal dwelling. Thus, the feeling of home can be present without the existence of a dwelling. However, according to Heidegger, building and dwelling go hand in hand.
The concept of home is an influential and prevailing one to say the least. It is considered a place, as there is an attached emotion and a sense of belonging. Adding to this, it is something that can be constructed and shifted by an individual. As many see it, “to characterise someone as homeless is to imply some moral lack or weakness” (Silverstone, 1994, p. 26). Home stacks together our identity, belonging and how we are able to view the world. Alongside this, comes in television, which then is placed in a shared area that is often referred to as the family or living room. The way a sitcom portrays a family is how the viewing family will then use to influence their actions. For
The idea of home is a loose image for me, one that wobbles and threatens to be blown away at the lightest breath. Home will never be a singular place, as I’ve become familiar with too many walls, each a distinct color of beige that is friendly, but not inviting, like a stranger you greet briefly as you skirt around them on the sidewalk. Each house a place to hold the memories I’ve placed in objects, a shell against the cold wind of time that bites harshly at the thin jacket that objects offer to recollection. Houses are nothing more than a box that contains that which I hold dear. Old pictures taken with friends against the hazy background of a summer night 10 years ago, a snow globe from my mother’s business trip, a letter from my brother, all things I would consider to be childhood home above an actual house. Home isn’t a place, it’s an intangible thought that I hold sweetly in my head, one that reminds me of the good, the bad, and those who have touched me throughout my life.
Home is a place that one has an emotional tie to, whether positive, negative, or a mixture of both. In many cases, home is remembered in a certain time setting, hence nostalgia and remembering the past are common reflections for numerous people. That is why people mention or reference the “good old days.” In a modern age where people travel and there is constant progress in culture and society, people can easily lose something significant. The only way to possibly re-live it is by embracing the memories. The result is a hiraeth, a Welsh word for an intense longing for home. Ron Rash’s “Myopia” and “Milking Traces” and Robert Morgan’s “Heaven” reflect on the emotions that are associated with remembering the past and clinging to home settings. In their poems, Rash and Morgan illustrate the idea of hiareth through imagery, metaphors and symbolisms.
“Home” can be a focus of memory, a building, a way of mentally enclosing people of great importance, a reference point for widening circles of significant people and places and a means of protecting valued objects”. 1
When did the idea of “home” become embedded in our conscious? In the earliest history of our ancestors, home may have been simply a small fire and the light it cast on a few familiar faces, surrounded perhaps by some ancient cave that they constantly go back to. Nowadays, the definition of home is solider than simply just a cave and a fire. Home is a place which brings back good memories, it is a symbol of comfort and wellness. Consider the word home. Picture it: a well trimmed green lawn, a white picket fence, a stone path that leads to the picturesque house sitting in the middle of the garden, garnished with a flower bed and a vegetable garden, a garage that can contain more than two cars. It’s materialistically perfect and is worth
Home is where a person can live, play, learn, cry and take refuge. It’s more than a place over your head, it is where memories are made, and hope was hopefully happy ones. It’s a place where a person can feel comfortable, where someone loves to live in, and it’s built with a family. A family sits together and enjoys each other’s company, it gives you a sense of belonging. Look around, home and family are in trouble. With both parents working, an absent parent, children are left to be raised by themselves with someone other than their parents or even raised by the state, children which make up the vast majority of a home are at risk. This essay will attempt to show what makes a house into a home and how our children are being effected when our house is no longer a home.