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John Bowlby's Three Types Of Attachment Theory

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This report provides information on attachment theory based on the relationship between Sam and Chris. Chris has made “big romantic gestures”, but believes he is not getting the emotional response or appreciation he deserves. Chris believes that Sam is closed off and is failing to meet their emotional needs as a couple. Sam believes that they should be able to “lead relatively separate and independent lives” in their relationship. This report will pay attention to the actions and behaviours displayed by Sam and Chris to determine their attachment type from the case given. Moreover, the adult attachment type of each individual will be compared to the baby attachment type to find any correlations between them. From this, the issues between them …show more content…

Attachment Theory, made known by John Bowlby, is a theory dissecting the behaviourisms of humans and animals with others and the reasoning behind them. Bowlby created three main types of attachment one may experience with another. The first type of attachment is secure attachment. This attachment entails that the mother and the child have a healthy emotional bond. For this to happen, the mother and or father comfort the baby by means of “bodily centric and verbal communication” (Boyd, 2013). Some examples of how a secure baby would act would be the exploratory behaviour in the parents presence, getting upset when separated from caregiver, and can quickly be calmed by the caregiver when in distress. The second type of attachment is insecure-ambivalent. In this attachment, the baby will be cautious as well as distressed from the caregivers inconsistency to support the …show more content…

Sam is a dismissive-avoidant attachment, which means she stays away from emotional dependence and tries to lead a more independent life. Sam’s current attachment to Chris can be explained from her attachment to her caregivers when she was a child. Lecturer and author Joyce Catlett say’s, “Some of the mothers lacked empathy, whereas others had failed to develop a sense of closeness and commitment that appear to be crucial factors in “motivating caregiving behavior”” (Catlett, 2017). Sam’s attachment to her mother, and or father, could possibly have been affected by the mothers lack of “empathy” and responsiveness to her child’s needs. Catlett goes on to say that, “People who formed an avoidant attachment to their parent or parents while growing up have what is referred to as a dismissive attachment in adulthood” (Catlett, 2017). Since Sam possibly grew up with attachment to her caregiver, she tries to avoid being close with someone in a romantic relationship. A study conducted by the University of Montreal Quebec found that the reliability of a child's caregiver can directly relate to the reason of their attachment style. Specifically, they wrote, “Based on our results, it would seem that internal working models of parents as being inconsistently available and unreliable in times of distress represent key features that are transferred from the parent–child attachment

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