My Childhood Attachment Analysis

EFT is an attachment based research theory, that suggest that couples have strong need to stay connected (bond) to each other. As such, bonding is very important in marital relationships and if the bond is disappearing, then stressful and negative cycle pattern begins to emerge. Thus, the goal of EFT is to support couples walk through a process of healing (overcoming the negative patterns, rebuilding the connection again, and fortify the bond) (Goldenberg, Stanton, & Goldenberg, 2017). From the assessment that has carried out by the therapist it is clear that Tam and Lisa do not have what it takes to manage or settle conflicts without it escalating into something else. As such, the bonding between them is disappearing and it’s becoming stressful and disturbing to them and their children. Because Jimmy and Emma even though do not see their parent fight or disagree in the open but they can sense the disconnection between their parent and feel the tension whenever both of them where at home. More so, because of the negative pattern that has emerge as a result of lack of secure attachment, there is no more interactions between the couple and each others needs are not met. From the case conceptualization, and to decide what treatment plan should target or focus on the therapist will use the step-by-step treatment manual provided by Johnson and Greenberg (1995) as cited in (Goldenberg et al., 2017) for the therapy process:

To begin with attachment theory, first everyone should understand what the attachment is. According to attachment means bonding between a child and caregiver or vice versa. The attachment theory is the theory that describes the long term interpersonal relationship between the humans. Also, it can be defined as the strong bond between parent and child, and later in peer and romantic relationship (Metzger, Erdman, Ng 85). It generates a specific fact that how the humans react in relationships when they get hurt, separated from loved ones and perceiving a threat. Basically the two main types of attachment are secure and insecure. Secure attachment is the attachments where mother and father are available for their child and during that time child demonstrates his or her stress and reestablish the connection (Metzger, Erdman, Ng 87). Insecure attachment is the attachment where parents are not regularly in touch with their children or they ignore their child which built a failed emotion communication (Metzger, Erdman, Ng 87). Also, it may be repeated from one generation to another until it is not recovered. However, as a result of attachment theory, it is so important for children to know about it and there are also several emotional effects on children when their parents leave to go to another county due to their connections or bond between them.

Ainsworth (1967) conducted a ‘Ganda project’, which looked into the individual differences in children’s attachment to their mothers/primary carer. She used babies ranging from ages between 15 weeks – 2 years old; they were studied every 2 weeks for 2 hours a time over a nine months. Ainsworth

they cannot teach him how to be responsive of his own feelings of insufficiency either .

The fascination about attachment and its impact on children has been prominent in our society for many years. The general notion is that a secure environment provides children with a foundation for establishing healthy relationships in the future. However, the exact environmental factors that nurture insecure attachments remain questionable. Further, the exact genetic variables that may play a role in shaping attachment is also still relatively unknown. Current research suggests that there is a bidirectional relationship between the environment and genetics. While researchers still do not know which component has the dominant role or if an egalitarian role exists, this paper presents current research on the environmental and genetic factors that appear to increase children’s risk for developing insecure attachments. This paper provides valuable insight on what behaviors caregivers should engage in with their infants as well as other environmental factors that can indirectly affect the attachment building process and possible genetic factors as well. It is hoped that this paper will encourage future research to become more informed on what predispose individuals to insecure attachment so that their environmental experiences can be enhanced as need be despite any possible genetic disadvantages they may have.

This essay will look at the development of attachment theory since the time of Bowlby and the many theories proposed to determine which best describes attachment. The Attachment theory highlights the importance of attachment especially between mothers and infants in regards to the infants personal development, both physically and emotionally. Bowlby describes attachment as “lasting psychological connectedness between human beings”(Bowlby, 1969, p.194). Bowlby’s attachment theory suggested that mothers and infants have a biological need to be in contact with one another and there would only be one main attachment made with the infant (Bowlby, 1968, 1988).

The attachment theory was created by John Bowlby and later expanded by Mary Ainsworth (Dunham, 2017). This theory explains how a bond of affection that is formed between an infant and their caregiver, usually their mother, will go on to shape the relationships that they will have later on in life (Dunham, 2017). Bowlby believed that in order for an infant to form a secure attachment, the mother needs to be completely attuned to the infant’s needs (Schore & Schore, 2012). He also believed that how the caregiver responded to the infant would determine the nature of the attachment. Ainsworth would go on to define the three types of attachment. The first attachment is the secure attachment, the second is the anxious-avoidant attachment, and lastly is the anxious-resistant attachment (Dunham, 2017). Researchers would later add a fourth attachment, the disorganized attachment (Dunham, 2017). A disorganized attachment is usually formed when a caregiver is abusive (Dunham, 2017). An anxious-resistant attachment is an insecure attachment that is formed when the caregiver is inconsistent and unpredictable (Dunham, 2017). An anxious-avoidant attachment is another insecure attachment, in this case the child has learned not to depend on anyone (Dunham, 2017). Finally, a secure attachment is when the child knows they can rely on their caregiver to meet their needs (Dunham, 2017).

Regardless of the internal or external factors which relate to children, attachment has always thought to be constant between a child and their primary caregiver. However, whether the style of attachment remains stable after the first year of life, remains controversial, due to the magnitude of conflicting findings on this topic. This article will argue that when applying the research to the general population, attachment classifications are inherently fluctuating, though occasionally the environment will permit an unwavering model of attachment. This is discussed by analysing Waters (1978), which obtained a 96% stability rate in a sample of middle class Americans. Nevertheless, Belsky, Campbell, Cohn and Moore (1996), could not replicate this

Tammy James is a 35 year old African American female, born female. She currently has a boyfriend, but is not married, and she has also never been married. Tammy is currently working as a Home Care specialists for the elderly population in an agency which the agency provides healthcare and personal care in the patient’s home. She does not work there full-time, but her grandmother provides a lot of financial stability for the mother and her children. Tammy has three children ages five and seven years old, and a seven month old. Tammy and her three children live with her grandmother in a single-family home. Tammy’s speech is within normal limits (WNL), and rapport is becoming established successfully through weekly home visiting and unconditional positive regard. Tammy’s mood euthymic and affect is congruent to content, she is Oriented X4. She is neatly groomed in loose fitting pants, and tank top with sweater, closed-toe shoes, and her hair is pinned back. Tammy has had previous experience with Child Development

New born babies are the future of mankind and how we treat them has a great impact on our lives. Each new born baby is shaped by the culture they are around and no one baby is raised the exact same as another baby. Early interactions with one’s mother shape the way a baby will be throughout its life. Depriving a baby of different motherly actions can have a profound impact on the baby’s livelihood. The attachment theory should continue to be researched because there is still much to learn about the development of young infants. This is displayed in, an experiment by Harry Harlow, chapter 6 of Opening Skinner’s Box titled “Monkey Love”. Harlow designed an experiment to use fake monkey mothers in order to solve how this affected the life of

This essay will explain the definition of attachment, the key factor that promote the attachment and discuss the theory of attachment, including deprivation and privation. Attachment is an emotional and affectional tie or bonds that one person or animal forms between himself and another specific one. Children`s attachment is mostly based on the children`s sensitivity and understanding of the mother`s honesty in providing comfort, support and security. In addition, behaviours of the child that build up attachment and give the opportunity for showing contact between mother and child can include breastfeeding, which means relaxing the baby and independent, co-sleeping, kangaroo care, smelly mother, talking, and smiling to baby, physical touching

An attachment is an emotional bond formed between a parent and a child. An attachment is common between a mother and a child. Strange anxiety is when a child tends to fear when they see an unfamiliar person. However, the primary attachment figure is usually mother for a child. A child uses a secure base, usually a primary attachment figure when exploring around. One of the researchers named Ainsworth has created a procedure to propose attachment behavior. Key behaviors observed by researchers in each attachment are the child’s exploration of toys, and the reaction of a child when the caregiver leaves and returns to the room. There are four types of attachments that researchers have agreed on. The first one is a secure attachment that involves

Another theory that can be associated with students’ misconduct in school is attachment theory. The attachment theory was first suggested by John Bowlby who described attachment as a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space which may affect one’s future behaviour. This theory involves the behaviour of an adult responding sensitively and appropriately to the child’s needs in the sense of comfort, protection, and support. A sensitive and better responsive parent provides a secure attachment relationship, which is can influence the child’s development positively (Sroufe, Egeland, Carlson, & Collins, 2005). In contrast, insecure attachment from an insensitive and unresponsive parent induces negative

The primary attachment during my childhood and continuing into adulthood is my mother. This relationship, continuing into adulthood, has developed my sense of self in relation to the world around me.

Many psychologists have come and gone, and many different theoretical orientations have been developed. With each orientation has come a new perspective on development, behaviour and mental processes. Some are similar, yet others could not be more contradictory. Attachment is one such theoretical orientation, developed by John Bowlby out of his dissatisfaction with other existing theories. Although Bowlby rejected psychoanalytical explanations for early infant bonds, the theory of attachment was influenced in part by the principles of psychoanalysis; in particular the observations by Ana Freud and Dorothy Burlingham of young children separated from