Personal Narrative: Masculine Vulnerability

To me trust is being able to count on someone during good times and during bad times.

The concept of trust is an idea everyone toys with in their lives at one point. One may think that trust is based of moral values between a trusting relationship. But it can be more complex than many may think. Trust by definition is the “firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something”(1.). To many, it is the bases of a relationship. People trust one another because they teach one another or they love one another. Whatever the case, trust is an essential piece to a relationship. But it’s Implied that both parties don’t take advantage of that trust. This idea is discussed in literature such as in the novel Indian Horse. Throughout Saul’s Journey in the novel Indian Horse he learns about trust by experiencing it as reality then as an illusion and finally as a choice he must make.

Machismo is a rather popular Spanish word meaning strong or aggressive masculine pride. I know this word so well that we could basically move in together because I have seen it take life before my own eyes for years now by my no one else but my father. This word has brought pain and suffering to my mother and by doing so has also inevitably harmed me. This word has shown me the ugly and the mean. But, this word has also shown me what I am and what I will not be and for that, I am grateful.

The more trust that you put in another person, the greater the effect their betrayal has on you then, the greater the pain you feel. Nobody is going to be happy for example, tricking a wife or a husband, a friend and relatives. At least try not to break a trust. Breaking a trust and betray somebody is bad, and could lead you into trouble or a fight. In the story Lamb to the Slaughter, author Roald Dahl creates a theme with breaking a trust to a friend or a relative.

It takes more than words to create a safe, exciting and secure relationship. Too often the signals we send are not those we intend to send. When this happens, both connection and trust are lost in our relationships.

Sometimes one will believe that they can trust somebody, but then that trust gets taken for granted, twisted, and then churned out in the backwater. No, this always isn’t the case, but in some relationships this is exactly what happens. Every once in awhile an exception happens which means the relationship leads to a renewal and birth of different relations between the people. This paradox then begs the question: Does trust lead to betrayal? In the book “And Then There Were None” Agatha Christie applies this questions to all of her characters that are trapped on an island with a phycological battle on whom to trust, and what will happen when they let their guard down.

Violation of trust drowns itself in emotional events which changes people's lives, which creates issues that affects many, in different ways. We all have been somewhere for a reason and that is because of trust; honesty. We are taught to trust people, but not too much where we get hurt. People fear distress so we keep ourselves in a shield of comfort and protection. When trust is violated we hurt and we are no longer show respect to ourselves which some take advantage of in many ways. But then sometimes when someone damage, they take that as strength, making them stronger and independent; smarter. Religions and cultures have different aspects on marriage which is based on gender and authority. In Afghanistan

“Trust: belief that someone or something is reliable, good, honest, effective, etc.” (Merriam- Webster Dictionary). Distrust in a relationship occurs when the trust between two people is diminished. Distrust can have many negative affects on a person including: trust issues, anxiety, suspicion, fear of opening up, etc. Symptoms of distrust can depend on the severity of the distrust in the

Lies and dishonesty are a part of life. A strong woman has had her fair share of betrayals to know a thing or two about trust. She knows that in her orchard, there will always be some bad apples. This doesn’t deter her and she does not try to lie to be different. She is honest about who she is but doesn’t wear her secrets on her sleeve. This characteristic saves her wasted time, money, and heartbreak. Drama may consume her friends but she stays far away. When she wants to trust someone, she takes her time to make the right

As a human being that believes that trust is one of the most important elements in a relationship, I understand that it can be broken intentionally and unintentionally. Trust is critical to strengthen relationships within a business. It builds the foundation for effective communication and motivation in the organization, but if broken, the chances for the organization to succeed decrease.

Trust is also dishonestly, disbelief, mistrust, doubt, fear, and concern. All of the thing I stated is a form of trust as well. You can lose friends and relationships over the loss of trust. Trust is a powerful thing to have and once it’s gone it is hard to get back. When you trust someone in a relationship you have a connection physically and emotionally. Trust is one thing you have to build and work on it’s never just given. Trust is admitting when you’re wrong. Someone that goes out of their way to put you at

1. Keep in mind, that when it comes to marriage trust, each spouse has the choice to either trust of distrust. When you make the choice to distrust, it does show up in your actions. Someone who does not trust will

Trust is the most important key when it comes to privacy in marriage (intimate relationship). Trust helps people to open up to others. But sometimes people trust the wrong people. In the passage Privacy and Private States the author gave the example of, “Vera Wollenberger realized with horror that the intimate and damaging information that filled it could only have been offered by her husband. No one else knew the particular details. Violating the privacy her trust in their intimacy to betray and exploit her, probably in the hope of increasing his own power.” The quote talks about someone who trusted her husband and told all of her secrets but it turns out her husband

A couple should have 101% trust in each other while being far apart and having different lifestyles. If one does not fully trust your partner, you will be filled with anxiety that your partner might slip away from your hands any time. For example, you should trust that your partner does not do anything that will give you the slightest disappointment. This includes being intimate with opposite sexes and breaking promises once made. Having this mutual trust in a long distance relationship builds a bond much stronger than those having an everyday normal relationship because you are able to have faith in each other even when your partner is not right beside you. Some would argue that seeing is believing, but I sincerely believed that not seeing is true

Distrust can frequently plague a lot of fine relationships. Here we aren't talking about when a person feels jealousy because they have got every reason to believe that their partner is having an affair. The bad habit of jealousy in a relationship is when, for instance, a boyfriend might at all times believe his girlfriend is fooling around with other men. A woman