Seventeen-year-old, Sally Jensen does not have a great home-life. Her parents spend all their money on drugs, which makes they have very little to no money to spend on their needs. Therefore, she does not have good clothes or hygiene items. At school, she gets made fun of for the way she smells and looks. Then one day Sally’s had enough. At school, the principal announces her lost. Guilt weighing heavy on the bullies’ heart. Saying, “I did not know, she would die.”, “I was just kidding.”, or “I did not mean it.” It is funny how they did not mean it when suddenly they have blood on their hands. Bullying in schools has become an epidemic in today’s society. It is not just “joking.” Bullying over the years has become more fatal, and in some cases, has led to self-injure, depression, and suicide. Department of Education in TN, claim out of 5,478 cases 321 of them were due to race, color, and origin. Six- hundred ninety-five were sex and gender based discrimination, and 168 involved students with disabilities.
How are bullies created? Sugar, spice, and everything nice? More like jealousy, revenge, and everything mean. In my opinion people bully for various reasons. First, it makes the bully feel powerful. Secondly, to get noticed. Bullies normally have issues of their own, so they try to cover up their weakness. Third, problems at home, such as verbal and/or physical abuse. No matter the reasons of bullying, the victim still suffers. The result of being a victim of bullying is
Children and teens from ages 10 to 14 are killing themselves at an alarming rate for youths states WBTV news. Suicide is the second leading cause of death for adolescents between the ages of 15-19, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. Two mothers April Quick and Debbie Smith, both lost children to suicide due to bullying in 2015. The two girls, Debbie and Emily were both suffering from bullying and nobody would lend a hand to help. April’s daughter, Ashley was turned down from a six month program because of the severity of her cutting, Ashley would cut to escape and relief all her pain. Although the government made no federal laws about bullying, it is possible for the U.S department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights and Justice’s Civil Rights to help solve the problem of not only bullying, but harassment when it’s based on race, religion, color, sex, age, disability, or national origin. People tend to bully others due to insecurities, one may feel better seeing someone else down. It may also rely on family issues, or jealousy. Bullies should be legally responsible for what they do because it causes depression, disorders, and suicide.
Bullying is found in elementary, middle, and high school all around the world. School bullying occurs at similar rates such as cultures, countries and educational settings. It can take many direct and indirect forms, like physical violence, name calling, taunting, teasing, horrible rumors, and social exclusion. Since the late 90’s, several school shootings committed by the victims of the school bullying have brought media attention to the issue.
Ducharme define Bullying as an “act of repeated aggressive behavior in order to intentionally hurt another person, physically or mentally” (2010). Many students in elementary, middle and high school are absent from school every day because of fears of being bully. These students get bullied just because they’re different or have special needs. Students who are victims of bullying lose their self-esteem and confidence. It makes them feel worthless and unimportant. It also causes them to harm themselves or others. Bullying is a very negative act and a huge problem to students that needs to be stopped. We need to recognized the problem and provide a solution to it.
Bullying to me is the most hurtful way of communicating between students, especially high school students. Bullying can cause students to commit suicide,depression and become antisocial, and rage to the point they shoot up a school. This is the most devastating thing a kid could ever go through. In just 2 weeks I have been to the office. 3-4 times to report some kind of bullying for example name calling, fight threats, Ignored or left out because of rumors,and rumors itself. When you see nothing is being done about it, because of the “policy”. You enter a state of mind where you feel like you have slipped on mud and you see
What is it that causes students across the world to be unfairly targeted by their fellow classmates? Bullying is an act that is all too common in schools today. Some forms of bullying can range from the “innocent” teasing of a student to the harmful attack that could potentially damage a student’s well-being. School should be a place where a student feels safe and welcome to express their individuality. Instead, students feel insecure and apprehensive to present who they truly are to their fellow classmates. Shaming within schools is unfortunately a common circumstance that can lead to students feeling insecure, whether it be in connection with their appearances, exercise habits and weight differences, or their family’s economic stature.
There are many reasons why people bully. People like the feeling of having power, winning and using violence to get what they want. It could be weather it makes them feel better of themselves or being the bigger person. Young bullies might think that it is acceptable when they see it on Tv any where in their surroundings. Bullying can take place anywhere like at home, school, and even a workplace. The person might have some personal social issues that can be negative. They can possibly have a hard time getting friends and bullying someone can grab some attention. A person can bully when they feel jealous and have a hard time expressing themselves on how they feel. They might not live with a family who are not loving and not being able to
Back in the past many have focused on drug and alcohol use in school students along with students carrying weapons to schools, and it seemed as if no one was recognizing the significance of school bullying. For victims of bullying, they go to school every day facing harassment, taunting, and humiliation. Kids today come home and kill themselves or never want to go back to school because of BULLYING. “Studies show that 25-35% of teens encountered some type of bullying in their lifetime (Nansel et al,).” Bullying is a form of violent behavior that happens not only in the schools but everywhere. Kids everywhere have been exposed to bullying in school for generations and ages . Although bullying has always been a factor the consequences for
Bullies bully people to be more popular and get what they want. Most smart bullies will pick a kid that is younger or smaller than he or she and pick on them. They also like to pick on people who have trouble standing up for their selves.
Supporting kids to surrender themselves to the threats of bullies is unjust. To punish a kid for self-defense is not only unfair, but is not right. If a student is trying to protect him or herself from a bully because of physical abuse the student being bullied should not be punished for it. Instead, the student should have had a teacher monitor the school ground properly, so this would have never happened, so that there could have been a better outcome.
Bullying in High school in the Us shows that with every four students enrolled there is one child who is bullied regularly. The bullying that occurs in high school is carried over from middle school as early as sixth grade. In some surveys it shows that 30% of bullies have been either bullied themselves or come from a rough home life. Another survey shows that 77% of students are verbally and mentally abused, 14% of that 77 end up having a severely negative reaction to the bullying, such as anxiety, a drop in grades, and less want to be with friends. In the schools it is said that 50% of bullying incidents happen in the restroom, when there is no one around to negate it. However, 85% of students do not receive help from teachers or school staff. I believe that should be fixed and that teachers should actually show that they care. In a study in 2010 showed that 61% of the participants said that bullying was driving them to shoot other students. This is a very serious thing and if we really cared whether or not there was a school shooting we would focus on fixing the bullying situation. In that same study it shows that 23% of high school freshmen would carry a gun to school. With school shootings, it is shown that 75% of them are caused by bullying. The two main groups of students that get bullied are either overweight or part of the gay community.
What if you were terrified to go to your school every day? 160,000 students miss school each day because they get bullied and are scared of what will happen (“Bullying Statistics”). Bullying has been a major problem in schools for far too long. Students should not be scared to go to a place that is supposed to be safe and where they can express themselves. Students that bully never get the punishment they deserve, which causes them to continue to act. When you go to school, you should know that if you are getting treated in a horrific way, the people who were treating you that way will get punished. Students who bully should be suspended from school.
As parents, our instinct is to protect our children from harm or potential threats. They are often referred to as a piece of our heart that is walking and talking in the outside world. Therefore; it is natural to treat our children as if they are fragile, similar to a delicate piece of art that should be handled with extreme care. However, by doing so we are not preparing them for the real world. Parents should aid children in building an armor to protect them from the often-cruel society, which they will eventually journey out alone in. Instead of placing these children behind bulletproof glass, we need to teach them how to deflect negativity and accept disappointments as they come. Parents can create this controlled learning environment at home; however, once they venture off to school, a new challenge presents. We entrust their care to teachers and administrators, with some students spending more time in their care than with their parents. Therefore, it is critical that schools maintain this safe learning environment for their development. One way schools maintain this safety is to identify and respond to incidents of bullying which is a significant threat; however, we need to closely examine what is being categorized as bullying. Where is the line between bullying and routine life experience with disappointment and hurt feelings? While bullying is present in schools, the incidents are not as rampant as reported due to what receives a bully label. The possible ramifications from real bullying encounters are significant while those from hurt feelings are not. Over classification of the word “bullying” discounts the impacts of actual incidents of bullying.
Bullying is an aggression that makes someone feel hurt, intimidated, humiliated, or offended by someone who has more power than them. It can face to face or through the internet and comes in many forms as physical, verbal, emotional, or cyberbullying. Many young people were first exposed to bullying when they experienced it as children in school.
Bullying has become a very hot topic in schools and on social media. There is a chant kids say “sticks and stones my break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” This is totally false. In truth, words can kill. Bullying is a fact of modern society; it can cause psychological effects and in most cases result in self-harm. I believe preventative measures to reduce bullying in schools and social media should be taken.
What appears to be bullying is not always bullying. There is this misconception that when someone disagrees with another person or is hurtful towards that person, bullying always seems to be what they say is going on. Although statistics shows that one in four kids are bullied, all aggressive actions are not bullying. If a person has self-esteem and self confidence in themselves and not let others tear you down the imbalance of power is balanced. Bullies have more power over their victims and always want to be on top. They enjoy displaying the power they have over their victim.