If you asked adults about their childhood they would probably tell you how they would go outside and play hockey in the street with the neighborhood kids or go over to a friends house and hang out in a treehouse. My dad tells me stories about how he got sprayed by a skunk when he was outside with his dog once, or one time he rode his big wheel down a slide and knocked the wind out of himself. But if you ask people who are kids now, 20 years from today about what their childhood was like they might tell you about playing Black Ops, talking to their friends over the PS4 headset, or Snapchatting. Kids now are staying inside and playing video games or sitting on their phone, maybe texting a friend instead of seeing them in person and talking face to face. The average age for getting a smartphone was 12 in 2012, but now it’s down to age 10 in 2016. But are kids really ready for a phone at age 10? 10 Year Olds Aren't Responsible Enough Yet Kids may have heard their teachers at school talk about how anything you personally post on the internet can always be retrieved or found so you must think before you post, but not everyone takes this advice seriously. If your kid sees cyber bullying or is the victim of it are they really able to handle it? Will they do the right thing and report it? The older they are the better they are at handling tough situations that happen online. Cyber Bullying Hotline says,"81% of kids say that bullying online is easier to get away with." Social
Cyberbullying amongst young people between cell phones, social media websites and at schools. Children today seem to have more outlets for interacting with each other virtually than they do for interacting with each other in person. There is an alarming trend of social media outlets being used by young people to bully others; all around the world but especially in America. So what is considered cyberbullying exactly you may ask? Cyberbullying is threatening lying about stalking or otherwise harassing a person online via other electronic communication devices like a cell phone, or at schools. It is becoming a bigger problem as more and more people are spending time online as today. Subsequently cyberbullying problems are also likely to happen at schools; teachers, principals, and parents are responsible to prevent and discipline cyberbullying. The hopes of most parents of the school, is protection as the parents claim to be they are very “busy” with their works.
Allot of cyber bullying can be done anonymously, you may not be sure who is targeting you. Since cyber bullies can't see your reaction, they will often go much further in their harassment or ridicule then they would face to face with you. It's also very important that you don't seek revenge on a cyber bully by becoming a cyber bully yourself. Again, it will only make the problem worse and could result in serious legal consequences for you. If you wouldn't say it in person, don't say it online. The more far-reaching the bullying, the more humiliating it can become. Whenever you get an accidental comment anywhere can seem harmless, but it's not. People worldwide should think before they do anything and not hurt other people's feelings. Sometimes the best is to do not too response to others. There are three thinks you should always keep in mind if your being cyber bullied, First don't blame yourself. It is not your fault. No matter what a cyber bully says or does, you should not, be ashamed of who you are or what you feel. The cyber bully is the person with the problem, not you. Being cyber bullied is also like having your worst nightmare following you home. The number of teen suicide due to the cyber bullying is increasing day by day. Second try to view cyber bullying from a different perspective. The cyber bully is an unhappy, frustrated person who wants to have control over your feelings so that you feel as badly as they do. Don't give them the satisfaction. Third don't
“The real solution is not criminal prosecution, but it should be education and selective participation.” 60% of young people who have been cyberbullied say that it has affected them in their personal life. However, if a child can’t handle the bullying, they should not use the Internet. Cyberbullying is bullying another person on the Internet. Individuals should not be prosecuted for statements on social media.
Bullying is a common thing in school millions of kids are bullied everyday at school and no one really knows.And bullying can hurt someone really bad by physically,verbally,emotionally,or sexually and more.When a bully is bullying somebody they call them names or try to fight them and make them feel hurt and bad but if you're being bullied just ignore the bully and act brave and that your not scared and that you don't care about them and act like they are not there.And always try to stay with a friend or a little group so that your friends can help you and make sure the bully doesn't try to do anything or just tell an adult and they can help you with the bully.Bullying can make you suffer from physical ailments like stomach aches and more.Technology can make bullying worse because when you post something bad about someone everyone can see it because it's online and if that happens to you just save the things the bully post about you because you can use it as evidence and get the bully back, but most times when a bully is bullying someone is because that bully wants to feel empowered and manipulate people or that bully might have been bullied before so they bully other people.
Surrounding the discourse around the subject of cyberbullying, it is imperative to not only address alternatives, but also to formulate recommendations on how to remedy this issue. In addition to the discussion within the report, a potential first recommendation to defeat the issue of cyberbullying is to make school systems the main point of contact for the conflict. A common factor when addressing the problem of cyberbullying is how heavily schools are involved in the scenario where cyberbullying is occurring. The student adolescents involved with cyberbullying fit the statistic that, “55 per cent of all teens that use social media have witnessed outright bullying online” (nobullying.com). Look for example at the case Jessica Logan mentioned previously in the discussion. This is a very extreme case where multiple high school students were involved in the cyber harassment of a female student. This would not have been the case if schools spread more awareness of the issue and inflicted some safety precaution. “Over 80 percent of teens use a cell phone regularly, making it the most popular form of technology and a common medium for cyber bullying, (http://www.bullyingstatistics.org).” With that being said I feel as though school programs should inforce that they take away the cell phones of students at the beginning of the school day and give it back to them at the end. Cell phones aren’t directly used too much in the classroom to begin. With it stripped away, it would take away the risk of having the group of students involved in cyberbullying and produce more engagement in the classroom at the same time.
It is hard for parents to protect children if they do not understand the problem at hand with cyberbullying. Parents and guardians should be the ones their kids run to when something is wrong. However,
Did you know that approximately 33.8% of students have been victims of cyberbullying? (Hinduja). With a percentage being over a third of students having been victims of cyberbullying, the time to address this issue is currently at all-time high, especially as technology becomes more integrated into our daily lives and amplifies the risk of cyberbullying. Cyberbullying is the act of bullying another through means of electronic devices. Cyberbullying can occur anywhere, unlike traditional bullying that requires in person altercations. Through cyberbullying, the bullying can happen at any time of the day and anywhere, leaving the victim with almost no escape from constant torment. With this in mind, school officials should monitor and fight cyberbullying because it affects student life, such as academics, behavior, and their personalities.
Some people may say that cyberbullying is no big deal, and they just might brush it off their shoulders. But others say it’s a crime. To me, cyberbullying is the worst thing that could ever happen to someone. It makes you feel powerless, depressed, sad, mad, and all of the above. So please do us all a favor, and if your friends with a cyberbully then make them stop, they aren't benefiting themselves at all.
First, I will explain how a student got cyberbullied and never reported it, Then I will explain how this girl was trying to commit suicide and tried, but it didn’t work (which is a good thing) Finally, I will describe how she got better and how she tried to stop it specifically how she did stop it.
Over twenty-five percent of adolescents and teens have been bullied repeatedly through their cell phones or the Internet. School should be a place where students feel safe because they are there for eight or more hours a day. Schools should take part in disciplining people who cyberbully because it can prevent unfortunate things from happening, such as suicide, schools also, are ensuring that students are safe, and it could help inform parents who do not know what is going on with their children in their lives.
Bullying most certainly continues into high school, and in some cases even college. While the prevalence may not be as intense as it is in middle or high school, it seems clear that college students are dealing with cyber bullies as well. Up until a few years ago, it seemed that a blind eye, of sorts, was being turned to cyber bullying. The thought was that kids would be kids, and that they would ultimately get over it. It wasn’t really acknowledged as a real problem; bullying was just one of those things that everyone experienced at some point or another, and then moved on from. It wasn’t until it began to come to light that suicides were beginning to occur as a direct result of bullying, cyber bullying in most cases, that it was recognized as a real problem (Hinduja, & Patchin, 2010).
Bullying is nothing new in society. Some may think that the issue is just a part of growing up and that “kids will just be kids”. While traditional bullying is a hard concept to grasp, social networking is even worse. Social networking has made bullying become out of control. Children and teens have taken the internet in and embraced it for socializing and communicating. Before advanced technology, children and teens always dealt with school bullies. These bullies would act out in school hallways or on the bus. Today, victims are targeted by bullies over the internet, whether its over social media or instant messaging. Most people undergo some form of bullying throughout their childhood. Growing up, I didn’t experience any physical bullies, but I experienced name-calling and mean comments that were shared via the internet. This concept is known as cyberbullying. Cyberbullying manifests itself by sending harassing and threatening messages to another individual through the internet. It impacts a lot of people and can lead to many long-term or even life-long affects. This issue is hard to grasp because there are so many wide varieties of communication on the internet. Cyberbullying is an issue that will not stop if nothing is being done to prevent it. In this paper, I will talk about why people cyberbully, the affects it has on individuals, and how it can be prevented.
In today’s progressive world, I believe it is better to consider online bullying in an immersed online ethnographic research method, in order to fully understand how bullying is enacted in an online world. It’s also important to take this approach in order to understand what’s misunderstood about online bullying as a whole. Boyd (2010) states that if we are to know if online platforms act as a tool for teenagers to perpetuate violence in the “real world”, we must look at what they are doing online. Boyd finds that bullying does not dramatically go up or down when social media is introduced (Boyd 2015, 152). Digital spaces that are important in the lives of youth need to be understand both locally, and in global contexts. Mallan, Ashford and Singh’s (2010) article discusses “iscapes” as a way for todays youth to hang out or communicate. The authors seek to answer the question, “how do interactions across iscapes affect the identity work carried out by today’s youth.”( Mallan et al. 2010, 265).
Have you ever been bullied and thought it was just because that person was having a bad day? One day it starts off in the class and you walk away to ignore it. Now daily insults start to come through via text, social media, and your email. Although the targeted jokes aren’t true, people still laugh because they have no obligation to help anyone other than themselves. That sickening feeling of self-hate and depression causes irrational thoughts to flood your mind; The constant insults jab at yourself -esteem causing you to look into the mirror with disgust often times thinking of ways to change your appearance or true character. Dropping out of school was the only way to escape the pain caused by your environment, but these methods never trash these feelings they only neglect them causing them to linger in your subconscious. Remnants of these emotions cut deep so your wounds cause you to randomly run to the bathroom to wipe your eyes. You sit there wondering if it is all real. The real question is what would you do to help? Would you let this continue to happen? In response to these problems, I will argue that cyberbullying is an issue that is getting out of control and people are not fully aware of its life altering effects. With the increasing usage of social media cyberbullying has caused adolescents to have low self-esteem, to drop out of school, and to harm themselves. Cyberbullying is being ignored and people need to be reminded how serious it is. As a matter of fact,
In today’s time kids these days are using the internet more than ever. They view the web and even more so the technology it can bring to our handheld devices, laptops and tv as positive aspects of our daily lives. The internet and our smart phones systems are the two biggest source of communication which plays a major role in our daily life. On the side note, these technologies are also often used negatively by other people. Many children are the targets of bullying specially during grade school up to high school via social media such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or websites like YouTube which can lead to in a life-threatening situation. Sometimes children are not able to understand that what they are doing to their friends or classmates is a form of bullying. As a result, the image of safe or playful environment of the internet is now becoming a source of conflict, anxiety, fear, depression and low self-esteem of our kids today.