Embarrassed
1. A time I felt embarrassed is when I walked into the wrong classroom. The teacher stopped teaching and everyone looked at me. I felt embarrassed because they were holding in their laughter. It was when I first came to Bard and them seeing me in a vulnerable and clueless state made me very ashamed.
2. Some healthy ways I have responded to embarrassment is by embracing it and turning it into a joke.
3. Some unhealthy ways I have responded to embarrassment is by running away (literally) and beating myself up for it.
4. Some negative responses of continuing to respond to this emotion in unhealthy ways are increasing insecurity, developing social anxiety, and self hatred.
Angry
1. A time I felt angry was when my friend continuously left me on read. It would get me frustrated because I would ask questions and she would not respond or ignore it. In addition to that, she confronted me when I
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Some healthy ways I have responded to anger is by talking to a trusted person and writing it out.
3. Some unhealthy ways I have responded to anger is by engaging in a fight and lashing out on other people.
4. Some negative responses of continuing to respond to this emotion in unhealthy ways are creating anger management issues and hurting yourself in the long run.
Jealous
1. A time I felt jealous was when a girl repeatedly started talking to a guy I liked. She was very pretty and I felt like all of my chances were blown and that I was nothing special compared to her. I felt jealous because she had the courage to talk to him and I didn't.
2. Some healthy ways I respond to jealousy is by improving myself in positive ways to increase self love like working out and putting effort into my appearance.
3. Some unhealthy ways I respond to jealousy is by instantly disliking the person and lowering my self esteem.
4. Some negative responses of continuing to respond to this emotion in unhealthy ways are destroying my confidence, mental, and emotional
Jealousy is regarded as a complex emotion that manifests itself in a vast array of cognitions corresponding behaviours (Volling, et al., 2002). It is often the result of a social triad composed of the jealous individual, a loved one and a rival. With respect
Transition to Main Point #3: Although anger can be clarifying and cathartic if utilized effectively, it can also initiate or exacerbate mental health symptoms if it is denied and swallowed in the interests of
QP asked Quadir to examine the questions such as, “why do I like things to always go my way, is it to my advantage to become upset or to express my anger and rage to others and what can I do to handle my anger better”. QP discussed with Quadir, how to keep track of his anger responses. QP examined with Quadir anger thoughts that helps to escalates anger responses in people. QP asked Quadir to rate his response to anger on a scale of 1 to 10. QP practice with Quadir exercise for overcoming anger. QP asked Quadir to identify the things he can control when he get angry. QP asked Quadir to explain, what he could have done differently in his last anger outburst. QP asked Quadir, to explain in his last angry outburst, if he was choose his reaction to the situation or her responded too quickly without thinking about the consequences or the outcome. QP discussed with Quadir, how to put anger into prospective. QP examine with Quadir the advantage and disadvantages of holding on to anger. QP assisted Quadir in identifying affirmation that can help with anger triggers. QP practice with Quadir the “I statement” and positive self-talk that can help in anger
4. I often apologize for things that aren’t my fault. No, I don’t find the need to apologize for others faults.
Jealousy has to be acknowledged so people can handle them properly. At some point everyone feels jealous to another because that is how life works on relationships. It can show people’s personality by how they can handle their jealousy. In the story of My Last Duchess the painter shows jealousy and actually learns and educates himself that he can change his jealousness by trying out different paintings. If the relationship is not going too well, the best way is to apologize.
First of all, anger is believed to be a natural thought that is assumed to be sometimes unwanted or irrational, and they are believed to be emotions that everybody can experience during life time as suggested by Sanders et la., 2004 . In this view, anger as suggested is believed to be one of the most powerful, yet misunderstood emotions, and that unfortunately, individuals’ misconceptions about anger lead to a lot of dysfunctional behaviour; as such, below are common myths about anger:
Unregulated anger has been found to lead to aggression, which can subsequently result in violence (Green & Shellenberger, 1991). As reported by Howells & Day (2003), anger and its preceding emotions such as fear and sadness are normal and are often functional in their expression. However, as anger has the capacity to cause non-functional behaviours such as withdrawal, aggression and avoidance, it often causes extreme distress to an individual and those around them.
“Jealousy is an emotion tinged with feelings like anger, insecurity, fear, and resentment.” (ppedia). Jealousy isn 't something we can control most of the time. It is a natural, built-in emotion that we all experience at some point. Most of the time jealousy comes from self-pity and insecurity. “Hands down, insecurity is the most common source of jealousy” writes Dr. Seth Meyers in Psychology Today. Curbing our jealousy can be difficult, but it is necessary if we want to move forward and have healthy relationships. Uncontrolled jealousy often causes people to do things they wouldn’t normally do. Small, self-perceived insults add fuel to flame our already heightened emotions. This uncontrolled emotion can lead to
Behavioral jealousy are actions that occur between an individual who is experiencing envious thoughts and how they internalize and react to the stimuli. Pfeiffer and Wong (1989) “conceptualize jealous behaviors as the detective/protective measures a person takes when relationship rivals (real or imaginary) are perceived. Detective actions include questioning, checking up on the partner, and searching the partner’s belongings” (p.183). Research suggests that behavioral jealousy is used to maintain relationships. Relationship maintenance refers to either positive or negative behaviors that occur between two individuals in order to maintain a healthy communicative balance.
According to previous research on the feelings toward individuals who could or could not control their outcomes, one may assume that undesirable emotions such as anger would
The most common cases of jealousy take place between two romantic partners. This case can
Experiencing anger can be healthy because it prompts us to make positive changes in our lives and situations but mismanaged anger can be unhealthy because it can lead to poor decision making and problem solving.
1. The emotions I have difficulties to express is anger and sadness. I strongly believe that
To begin with, anger issues is something everyone has, one’s is worst than another. So for those who have severed anger issues, and for those who would just want to know what anger does to you. Let’s say you or a friend suddenly has an anger meltdown (hopefully it doesn’t happen), well now how do you stop it …. My opinion is to let the
“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned” by Buddha. The quote states that if you try to keep your anger inside you, you are the one who suffers. A poem called, A Poison Tree by William Blake also shows how letting your anger grow kills you every day. I agree with Blake idea that we have two options either choose to communicate our anger or let it grow. One of them has a positive impact, and one of them has a negative impact, it’s on us to decide what is best for us. Based on my opinion, it is better to communicate anger rather than keep building it as it helps our relationships, mental health, and it helps us be a better person.