In September 1993, Katie Weber joined the U.S. Army at the age of 17. Six months after joining, Katie was given her first set of orders as a soldier and made her way to Germany. Eventually she ended up on a unit in Nuernberg-Fuerth, Germany. On her first week there, she was told that she would need to purchase a hot plate and pots if she wanted to cook for herself. But having not received her paycheck yet, she had no money with her. Her Staff Sergeant took her to the finance office to talk to the specialist there about her paycheck. While at the specialist's office, Katie made some small talk with the specialist, and had felt that she had truly made a new friend. That very same evening, people from Katie's unit invited her to attend an …show more content…
Katie remembered the Sergeant writing something on her chart regarding her claims of sexual assault, but taking no other action. Katie was then sent back with a medical exception due to her back pain. That same afternoon, as Katie entered her room, she found the financial specialist already in it. Having no idea how he got in, Katie was told that she may have AIDS and was told to take an AIDS test by the man, who also demanded her to show him the results. Katie was petrified with fear and felt as though she could no longer trust anyone. Katie proceeded to tell a female sergeant about the incident, who then told her male NCOIC. The NCOIC met with Katie privately and told her “I know what you are claiming, and all this talk about rape just needs to be over or it’s gonna get you in trouble.” Katie then went to sick call the next day and asked for an AIDS/HIV test so the specialist would leave her alone about getting one. Katie was asked by the nurses why she wanted this test, since she had one not too long ago. She explained to them that a soldier had forced himself on her and demanded this re-test. The nurses complied, but asked no further questions. Katie was harassed by her peers throughout the next couple of weeks. She explained that she woke up every day hating herself and the military and felt unprotected and uncared for. One
On the eve of Katie's wedding, she brings up the dress again. She is calmly told that she was adopted and is not of Amish blood. Katie seems to be okay until the next day, at her
Why is it important to follow orders and instructions? From a military standpoint the difference can mean life or death for a soldier. On the civilian side it can mean the loss of your job, loss of position, or loss of pay. There are many factors that play into each individual scenario. No two events are ever the same and the outcome can range from a verbal reprimand to the death of the individual.
Being late does not make one important. Tardiness is a very unattractive quality when it comes to most aspects of one’s life: family functions, meetings, interviews, and especially a job. While a family may forgive tardiness, a job will not. Being late once or twice in one’s life is unavoidable. Being consistently tardy makes one unreliable and shows a lack of respect for other people’s time and obligations. Being late tells others that one person can be waited on, while everyone else can’t. People do not like when their feelings were not taken into consideration, when they took the time to consider others.
Many people are concerned about the U.S. military because of how many risks come with joining it. However, the U.S. military also explains the benefits that one could receive. Joining the military is a decision that should not be taken lightly. One must understand all aspects of the military. In order for a voter to be fully informed about joining the US military, one must consider both the risks, like mental illnesses and commitment and benefits, like education, and experience.
On these pages, Katie can be seen to be suffering from anxiety. An example of this would be when she states “When were they saying? Had I done something wrong in class? My stomach contracted with dread…” (Page 128). This struggle of hers originates to the death of her parents. As a result of them dying, she has developed an anxiety problem and a constant fear of being a disappointed for people, and especially
Her successes were nothing short of groundbreaking! She paved the way for women who will follow in her footsteps, but at what cost? Sexual assault, accompanied with men repeatedly telling her she wasn’t good enough. The way she chose to respond to the sexual assault and barrage of misogyny she was continuously exposed to throughout her military career is not mine to judge. Major Jennings, like many abuse victims put up with it, made excuses for it and found a way to live with it. It is how she survived. Timelines for victims getting out of abusive situations are as varied as the victims
Katie said that she received a lot of attention from men after the weight loss, and her husband was not happy. He was jealous of all of the attention she was getting. Katie also stated that her husband would make cruel comments to make her feel bad about herself.
Even though Katie lived four hours away and was busy with her work as a teacher, tutor, AND a restaurant hostess, she still made three trips down to see Erin and her new family in the hospital. “Each time, she and her mom brought us frozen meals and gifts for Cameron and Julia. They treated us to dinners out and visited the babies in the NICU. They made us forget about all our worries while they were in town,” Erin
When finding that moment, Katie vanishes into a slow sprint, because she is battered from the two men: “My first instinct is to run” (Henry 9). Once she is free from the two men she steals a car and stops at the unconvincing police, she halls to McDonalds to find her bathroom, food, and hiding. Hiding plays a significant role in Katie’s survival. Hiding is important once she meets the character Ty, because Ty conceals her in a trashcan in the back of the McDonald’s parking lot when the two men that were previously over her wakening body try to locate Katie. This relates back to the title The Girl Who Was Supposed To Die, because if Ty does not help Katie hide, she would be the girl
SPC Tate, a medic from Bravo Team, sat in his MRAP patiently waiting to roll out the gate to their next destination. Upset that on his last week of deployment he was again tasked to go clear buildings. Agitated at his current position, he was furthermore irritated that the team tasked to replace Alpha team was late. Growing more and more impatient SPC Tate got in his vehicle and started listening to music when he felt the truck start up and begin to roll out the gate. He drifted off to sleep and before he knew it the convoy had reached it’s destination. Every one assumes their positions, stacks the door, and before you know if they’ve cleared two buildings. A successful day of hard work, almost another day down. He can taste it, one step closer to his goal of finally making it back on U.S. soil. His euphoric daydream was interrupted with a loud BANG!! He realized that a solider from Alpha Team has been injured by an IED and he quickly rushes to aid him and drag him into safety. He picks up the soldier and rushes him back to the MRAP ripping off his vest and cutting off his shirt. SPC Tate freezes in shock…HE was a SHE!!! So many thoughts ran through his head. “How do I care for her”, “what is she doing here”, “she doesn’t belong here”, “this would have never happened if she was a male”. All the training that he received suddenly became a blur. SPC Tate had never witnessed a female soldier on the battlefield. He was used to them supporting the infantry being the cooks,
According to Field Manual 6-22, “Military Bearing is defined as having or projecting a commanding presence and a professional image of authority”. The United States Army is structured on several values and principles that it upholds, among these are military bearing, discipline and respect.
Mr. and Mrs. Thompson found out they were expecting a baby and grew very excited. Their excitement disappeared quite rapidly when they received the news that Mr. Thompson would be going to Iraq. Mrs. Thompson began to stress about her husband well-being while at war and his absences of the birth of their first child. Even though Mr. Thompson was away he made way to communicate with his wife, whether it was via e-mail or brief phone calls. Mrs. Thompson dreaded receiving news that her husband was killed or wounded in the line of duty. Anytime she thought she heard a vehicle pull up she grew anxious. She did her best to avoid “war talk” from her coworkers and the media. As her anxiety built she began to be stressed. At only 6 months Mrs. Thompson went into premature labor. She was so scared and nervous because she was alone. She feared the death of her child and experiencing without her husband. She continued to stress about Mr. Thompson finding out about their son and will he be able to come home for family emergency. She grew at ease when she found out he will be coming; however, she was unaware of the timeframe. Once Mr. Thompson arrived she was relieved to have someone by her side. He was able to stay on leave for 14 days before he had to return back to war. Mrs. Thompson was enthusiastic about the improvement of their baby and his discharge from the hospital. Now that they are discharged, Mrs. Thompson still worries about her husband at war and the health
leader should be obvious. If a war or conflict were to break out, it would
“He asked to see Ella back stage.” Katie put in from behind Anthony, looking like a little lost sheep as though she might get told off for interrupting men while they were at work.
“Oh….um, okay…” Katie said quietly as we all went inside. You could tell she was upset. I will always remember the expression on her face at that moment.