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Sonya Owens Effect

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The effects domestic violence Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive relationships over a course of time, used to excerpt power (Break). “Domestic violence affects millions of children and adults in a very impacting way. “Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, blame, injure or wound someone” (What). Sonya Owens is one example that lives to tell how domestic violence effected not only her but her family as well in many life changing ways. Sonya Owens is a 40 year old mother of 3 children and is married to Seth Owens. Sonya Owens experienced 15 years of domestic …show more content…

She thinks that the issues from his childhood brought on the abuse. She said “I think that because he saw his parents fighting and he saw his father abuse his mother it led him to do the same. His mother was an alcoholic and she abused him and his brother as well. I think it was a cycle that he couldn’t break” (Owens). This is common issue in domestic violence relationships, most of the time when a child experiences domestic violence physical or emotional they will continue the violence onto their children as well (Domestic). Sonya also said that he made promises to change and never abuse her again. This happens a lot in abuses relationships, they abuser will apologizes and tries to make up with the partner with gifts or promises, this is called the ‘honeymoon phase’ (Understanding). Not only can domestic violence effect the women’s maternal control and discipline on her children, it can affect her self-esteem as well (Educational). The abuse that Sonya suffered from was verbal and physical, most of the time he would abuse her out of anger over …show more content…

Most of the time if children are involved kids are very afraid of the officers, they think there are going to take their mom or dad away from them, some are more reserved than others. The legal consequences of domestic violence all depends on what offence it is, (how many times the person charged has been convicted of CDV) it can cost upwards of $2000. A restraining order can be placed on the abuser if the victim feels necessary, this is a document from a Judge that gives specific orders of what is or is not allowed. A restraining order does not carry the same weight as an order of protection. You can get this from the Magi straight and does not cost anything. The restraining order can last for up to six months to a year. Spartanburg County rarely sees cases of domestic violence involving the women beating the man, Sheriff Chuck Wright said “it is not common in Spartanburg County, men normally are too embarrassed to tell anyone that a woman has beat them up” (Wright). Spartanburg County usually responds to 5 to 10 domestic violence calls per

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