Tu Shaheen Hai, Parwaz Hai Kaam Tera Tere Samne Asman Aur Bhi Hain (You are an eagle, flight is your vocation: You have other skies stretching out before you.) Allama Iqbal Srinagar,
5th of October, 2017 Dear good girls,
Confidence! We hear every other person talking of “confidence”,
“Self Confidence”, “Confidence & Courage” . . . What is confidence? Confidence means “to be sure,” “to believe in,” or “to have full trust.” self-confidence means something like “to have full trust in yourself” or “to believe in yourself.”
In the purest sense, confidence is knowing what you're good at, the value you provide, and acting in a way that conveys that to others. “self-confidence […] has to do with beliefs about one’s general ability to handle situations and problems in the world.” So self-confidence describes the extent to which a person believes they can handle the world. If we make this more tangible, it means a self-confident person has the internal belief of “I can handle it.” On the other hand, a really unconfident person might think, “Oh my god I don’t know what to do . . .” A very important dimension self-confidence also includes “lack of anxiety,”. If we put the two together, then a self-confident person is somebody who goes through the world with the general belief of “Whatever comes, I can handle it.” Obviously, if you believe this about yourself, then there is no need to be afraid. Usually we are more confident in some situations and less confident in other situations.
Self confidence is the foundation of success, achievement, and happiness. Unfortunately, the foundation of self confidence can become shaky and unstable if someone that you look up to as a role model hurts your self esteem and courage. One of the biggest role models in my life used to be my first club soccer coach. He seemed brilliant, passionate, and willing to work with my team. This man soon became the complete opposite of what I hoped he would be. I soon realized that he was a two faced liar and one of the most awful people I have ever met. Little did my ten year old self know he would be the downfall of my self confidence and he would slowly destroy any passion I had for the sport I loved all with only a few words.
According to Shell, the best kind of confidence is the belief in oneself, the belief of high morals, the belief to be the best you can. Makes sense, right? The way we think about ourselves is related to our confidence in the way we learn new skills. However, according to Shell that is not enough as our desire
Self-efficacy can be described as the level self-confidence that a person has when they try to do something. It is important in making a behavioral change because people need to envision themselves succeeding.
Being confident goes beyond just being proud of yourself; In Otto’s view it's about taking extraordinarily big risks. For example Otto was taken from his orphanage to the H.I.V.E. campus where he could have complained but, instead he was confident in himself and the teachers that ,although this place was new and out of ordinary, it still was safe. Otto Malpense gained his confidence when he was a child; His orphanage was threatened by the Mayor that it would be closed down because of its disastrous condition but, Otto didn’t give them a chance so, he made a plan and told all the kids in the orphanage. His plan could have had a tiny flaw and that would have shut down the orphanage
Not having a strong sense of confidence can cause problems such as being easily influenced, having trouble making the right decisions, and getting involved in unhealthy relationships. Developing a strong sense of identity and self esteem is important because we must first learn how to understand and love ourselves before we can allow anyone else to. I am confident because I know who I am and what I want in live. I am driven and goal oriented and I will stop at literally nothing to get what I want. Being confident in myself has allowed me to express myself in a variety of ways without worrying whether or not people are going to judge me. I’m a big believer in “look good, feel good, do good” so I always try to look my best even if I’m feeling not-so-confident on that particular
“There is a difference between conceit and confidence. Conceit is bragging about yourself. Confidence means you believe you can get the job done.” says John Unitas.
Public speaking has always been very hard for me, I've never been the type to stand in front of an audience and speak or do a presentation. No matter how many times I've done presentations I've always get nervous or shy and always forget what I rehearsed. In the military I was training Nco, everytime we had a new marine check in to our unit or are shop. I would be the one to give them and the A presentation on what is expected of them and also give them information about the unit and our shop. In my opinion the Marine Corp prepared me for public speaking, especially if you where lower rank and your senior enlisted would throw you to the wolves and send you up there to give the
According to Brown (2004) self confidence is defined as one's ability to rely on themselves, to assert oneself socially, regarding what one thinks and possessing the skills to work independently, based on one's learning from personal experience and the ability to make use of prior knowledge. Self confidence measures include self efficacy, self esteem, knowledge and ability to work out problem situations and make informed and successful decisions, without relying on other individuals.
Confidence is something everyone needs, because without confidence you wouldn't believe in yourself or push yourself to do something like at a baseball game when you are losing and you don't think you will win.
I believe that having this self-confidence is necessary in our time and age where the social forces at large always try to push us into different
The confidence is built upon the esteem and the belief in oneself to be good or worthy enough to be capable of aiding others.
When someone has the confidence in themselves and what they are capable of accomplishing is called self-esteem. They have the notion that they can achieve any type of situations. They take on goals that are more on their level. Managers should have very high self-esteem so that they can acquire the desire to keep pushing forward when faced with problematic situations (McGraw-Hill, 2006).
For this speech I choose to have my topic be something I have a strong personal connection to which was Rave culture, its history and practices. Choosing this to be my topic of choice I was able to be motivated in researching it and I believe my genuine interest in the topic showed in my presentation. In this self-eval I will be discussing the structure and style along with what I am taking away from this speech.
Some people have so much confidence that they are not afraid to do anything. Others are the complete opposite, and are scared of being judged or ridiculed by others. Self-confidence cannot be taught, but is reached by the individual when they decide to believe in themselves. In order to attain self-confidence, one needs to believe that they can do the task at hand. It cannot be accomplished overnight, but slowly gets stronger and stronger over a period of time. One of the major ways to obtain confidence is acting like one is confident, even when not. Acting will transfer into truly being self-confident and having high self-esteem. Another way to gain confidence is by talking to others.
you can not touch it, however it influences the way you experience. You can not see it, but it's there while you observe yourself in the mirror. You can not hear it, however it's there each time you speak approximately your self. What is that this important however mysterious aspect? It's your shallowness! Self Esteem is described as self assurance to your very own benefit as an character. Our self esteem is instilled in us all through our adolescents. There are two styles of self confidence. There is high self confidence which is while you feel top about yourself, and then there is low self esteem that's when you sense terrible about your self.