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Essay On Mentoring

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These last two weeks of mentoring have been going very smoothly for me. I feel as if my peer mentoring gears are finally revving up as I’m starting to understand how to be a successful peer mentor. The reason, I think, for my recent success as a peer mentor and the collaboration with the peer mentoring team is due to the weekly articles. With the weekly articles, I’m able to realize what made previous collaborations in my life so successful and what made the more unfavorable groups unsuccessful. This has allowed me to focus more on the successful traits by having the knowledge of it in my mind and steer away from the bad traits. These successful traits would be the three ingredients for collaboration which is the willingness to grant authority, …show more content…

It first happened in our first tutorial session where the peer mentors talked about the possible laboratory topics the Bio313 students could pick. Each peer mentor did a different topic and that allowed us to specialize into which slides we could create. The second time it happened was during our Excel tutorial where one peer mentor presented the topic, another was helping a Mac user, and I was helping Window users. Both of these events have one thing in common – that each of us was better suited for an activity and we allowed each other to do that activity. We essentially gave each other the authority to do their respective thing in order to better achieve our mutual goal of helping the students. If any of the peer mentors had objected and decided they were better suited for all the topics, the collaboration between us peer mentors to help the students would have been negatively impacted. I feel that sometimes when people give up their authority over a topic or a section of a project, their ego gives them a sense of inferiority or the feeling that they slow but I don’t think it’s like that. One of the advantages of collaboration is to fully utilize the best traits in everyone in order to reach the underlying goal most efficiently. To allow someone else to do something you’re weak in doesn’t make you inferior, it makes you smart for realizing the goal would be better obtained that way and not …show more content…

In all of my past successful collaborations, each member had a mutual respect for each other, enjoyed each other presence, and worked together in an appropriate manner. To contrast this: in a previous group that performed not successfully, it was due to internal conflict between my partner and me. There was an obvious tension between us that made me want to disprove or reject any idea they would suggest, even if it was good. Although we managed to put aside our differences to finish the project, not many positive memories remained from that collaboration other than the negativity and awkwardness between us. I understand how tension in a group could harm the collaboration as it may lead to the rejection of positive ideas or worse case scenario, sabotaging the project. Working in an atmosphere of stress definitely does not promote insightful and efficient learning. To summarize my second reflection, I have learned the importance of the three ingredients for a successful collaboration. Through elaborating on how each ingredient relates to an event in my life, I believe it further strengthened my appreciation for both the article and collaborating in general. I plan to enforce these ingredients in future group projects as it’ll allow me to truly collaborate and

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