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Teenagers And Their Parents

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Teens sometimes feel as if their parents are spying on them, they feel like they need room to grow and they want freedom and responsibility but their parents will not give the freedom to them to them. Teens sometimes feel that their parents do not trust them, and freedom and responsibility is the only way that they will grow into the adults they are meant to be. When children are given freedom and feel that their parents trust them, they tend to grow into more responsible and mature citizens. If they feel this way, they are also more likely to open up to the adults around them if they are in trouble or need help. “Children who have made good decisions in the past are less likely to engage in risky or dangerous behavior” (Williams, 20--, p.1). If parents have not noticed their child make bad decisions in the past, especially when looking at social media, then they should not worry about them now. If the teen feels violated by their parents, and have not made any bad decisions in the past, they will feel untrusted and may feel like acting out. As Drexler (2013) says, “Realize that going behind [your teens’] backs to determine what they’re up to may only push them towards greater secrecy.” (p. 3). If parents trust their kid, that means that they trust them to take actions when they sense trouble, which many teens have done. “58% have blocked people on social media sites.” (Williams, 20--, p. 1). If a teen feels trusted and knows that their parent is not going behind their back,

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