Giving up friends is difficult, even assuming that they were your friend, in the end, it is for the best. In the novel, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao written by Junot Díaz, Oscar recognizes his friends are not genuine companions. This is evident because they exclude Oscar when they hang out, make derogatory remarks towards him, and overall making him feel inferior to them. Oscar’s friend Al, assists Oscar’s other friend, Miggs, in finding a girlfriend, while excluding Oscar, “It killed him that they hadn’t thought to include him in their girl heists; he hates Al for inviting Miggs instead of him and he hates Miggs for getting a girl” (28). Speculations as to why Al did not invite Oscar include: not having enough room to include …show more content…
Díaz writes about Oscar leaving his friends to show his maturity for being able to cut ties with people, especially since it is hard for him to make friends. The decision to stop affiliating with people that have no interest in being friends with you is similar to what I had to go through with a former friend of mine. Back in middle school, the majority of my time was playing League of Legends with this friend. I was playing this game with him everyday. This was one of the two hobbies I had in middle school, the other hobby was watching anime. This fateful day was not an exception. Eager to play League, I recline on my blue computer chair, turn on my computer, log on to my League of Legends account, saw my friend online, and invite him to a game. He declines, surprising me, I send him a message by left clicking his name once I type, “Hey, why did you not accept?” He responds, “Sorry I’m doing my homework, I’ll be back in about 20 minutes”. I start doing some homework, deciding to wait for him. Five minutes later, because of my low attention span, I ALT+Tab from my Google Chrome tab to check my League of Legends client. To my surprise, my friend was in champion select. Sadness floods me as I thought, How could someone who I consider my best friend deceive me?!
Confused, I message him, “What happened to
The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao is not a happy book. The Author, Junot Diaz, does a great job fooling the reader into believing the story is about the De Leon family, specifically Oscar who is an over weight nerd trying to find the love of his life, but due to a family “fuku” or curse Oscar is having a lot of trouble doing so. Instead, the story actually portrays the dark history of the Dominican Republic under the dictatorship of Rafael Trujillo. Upon reading the stories of Oscar’s relatives the reader feels a powerful message of fear and oppression due to the actions of the Trujillo regime. Even after the demise of
That is what makes friendship so great, it is two people making an effort to get along and develop a bond strictly out of free will. No one is forcing you to be a friend to someone, it is a choice.
In college Oscar lives with the narrator of the novel, Yunior. Yunior describes the obsession Oscar has over a Puerto Rican goth girl that was out of his league. Her name was Jenni Muñoz and she lived in the same building as him. Oscar thought he was in love with her after the first time they had ever talked. This is a prime example of how easily Oscar falls in love with girls out of his league. He can have one conversation with a girl and think they are meant to be together. Yunior watches Oscar and Jenni get close and hangout with each other until the day when he comes home to Oscar crying in his bed. Yunior tried to see what had happened, but Oscar got angry and wanted to be left alone. This heartbreak was one of the worst Yunior had seen Oscar have: “Figured it would be like always. A week of mooning and then back to the writing. The thing that carried him. But it wasn’t like always”(Díaz 186). Usually when Oscar was rejected by
“FUKÚ” is an atavistic deadly curse that follows the De León family, and everything that can go wrong for them does. However, I believe that the fukú is only a consequence of their actions and a way for them to rationalize their misfortunes. The characters are using fukú as a crutch in place of taking responsibilities for their own actions. This is because they don’t want to accept the fact that things don’t always go the way they want them to. So they choose to blame the fukú for making their problems happen. So when fukú strikes a mongoose appears it comes as a character of a guardian angel with a sanguine presence. A mongoose is a weasel like animal that appears in the near death experiences of the characters. When it comes it shows a
Oscar is the antithesis of his culture’s idea of manliness. In the beginning we meet an Oscar who is called “Porfirio Rubirosa” (21). Everyone is proud of the boy because this is exactly what he needs to be to be a Dominican man. Men from Dominican Republic, and perhaps Spanish Caribbean men, are expected to take care of their family especially their mothers and sisters, yet they are also expected to be “playboys” who have multiple women. as the first line of the story communicates, “Our hero was not one of those Dominican cats everybody’s always going on about—he wasn’t no home-run hitter or a fly-bachetero, not a playboy with a million hots on his jock” (21). Oscar is the type of man who women say they want; kind, sensitive, considerate, smart, and romantic. He truly want to find true
William Shakespeare is one of the greatest writer in the world. He has written allot of plays which were amazing and interesting. Even today, people still try to understand and figure out Shakespeare’s master piece in his plays. Many of them are influencing writers’ around the world and one of them is called Junot Diaz. “The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao” is the title of Junot Diaz book in which we can perceive the author’s allusion to William’s Shakespeare play in order to comprehend the book better wise. There are many allusions that Junot Diaz had in mind of the play “The Tempest” while writing his book and the one that beats them all is the resembles of the rightful Duke of Milan in the play, Prospero and Yunior, the narrator of the story of Oscar Wao. Each of their personalities, story and character’s will prove this allusion in which they are such alike and how we perceive the story and the character differently after these following information.
The conclusion of The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz is satisfying because the ending revolved around Oscar’s death, the separate stories of the novel now intertwined because of him. His transformation and new personality was ultimately the cause of his death, but in a sense it can be considered happy because it seems just right. Oscar becomes a new person and breaks free of his nerdy and rejected persona. Diaz seamlessly weaves the ending of Oscar Wao’s story and all the characters around him due to their natures and the preceding actions. The ending of this novel is convincing and logical because of Oscar’s new transformation which led him to do things which he would have not done before. These things that he did, most specifically pursuing a woman he should not have, led him to his death. Despite the morbid ending, it is not unreasonable; it is certainly logical and therefore satisfying to the
While at Rutgers, Oscar thought he had something going with a girl named Jenni Muñuz. They became pretty good friends, getting into deep conversations and telling each other secrets. Oscar only imagined the relationship developing into Jenni becoming his girlfriend. The Fuku had to be getting the best of Oscar at this point, as Jenni found another guy that she made her boyfriend. Again, Oscar was more than crushed. His heart had cracked into a million pieces, glued back together and the shattered again. Oscar was in such bad shape after Jenni found a boyfriend that he decided to commit suicide. Luckily for Oscar, he survived his jump from the bridge as he landed safely on the median. Oscar makes it through college and finds a nice job teaching at his old high school in New Jersey. It is not until a much needed trip to the Dominican Republic where his attitude starts to change.
As it unfolds in "The Golden Age" section, Oscar is part of a Dominican-American family that lives in Paterson, New Jersey. As a child he is pushed forward to the opposite sex by his mother, which is very proud about his early signs of virility. This is seen as one of the standing characteristics of Dominican males. Further on, we watch the decline of Oscar's success with women as he gains weight and he deepens himself in literature and isolation. This is caused by Maritza's rejection which affected him profoundly.
In the story, Oscar goes through difficult situations to want to interpret the role of the Dominican man. During the story, Oscar seeks a woman who gives him love and makes him feel like a man, but does not have the masculine qualities necessary to achieve his purpose. While his friend Yunior is the opposite, that is, his role in history is a man that women are always behind him by his charms, to the point that he cannot maintain a relationship with a woman because he cannot be faithful.
Throughout Junot Diaz’s novel The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, the Man Without a Face is a recurring character with no evident features. All of his scenes include an event in which he is either a mysterious spectator watching the distress around himself or joins in on the torture. His appearances throughout the story are suggestive of evil or violent incidents that are about to occur. More times than not, the acts are performed by Trujillo 's men. Almost consistently, he emerges whenever one of the main characters is in great discord. The faceless man symbolizes the foreshadowing of malicious occurrences caused by Fukú.
In Bell Hook’s reading We Real Cool, Hook explains how “Therapist Terrence Real suggests that there are five self-skills that constitute adult maturity, and if these “healthy capacities were not present in our early relationships, they will be missing in our personalities.” They are self-esteem (holding the self in warm regard), self-awareness (knowing one’s own experience and sharing it), boundaries (self-protecting yet able to connect with others), interdependence (identifying needs and wants, caring for self yet able to receive care from others), and moderation (experiencing and expressing oneself moderately).” (Hook, page 103-104) Oscar expressed some of these steps throughout the film while changing himself for the better by making Tatiana his
Oscar is not the typical Dominican man that his family expects him to be. He is considered to be a nerd which leads to the lack of romance in his adolescence and adulthood. In an article by Joori Joyce Lee it says: “Growing up as a ghetto nerd, or "a smart kid in a poor-ass community," Diaz felt like a mutant because he found himself to be an outsider in both the Dominican subculture and mainstream white American society.” (Lee, pg 23). Oscar could never really fit in with his peers or even with Dominicans, he is always considered an outsider to them. “Everybody noticed his lack of game and because they were Dominican everybody talked about it.” (Diaz, pg. 24). His own family recognizes his lack of masculinity that a Dominican man should have. Even Oscar’s sister Lola encourages him to lose weight and to become more masculine in order to get a girlfriend. His uncle Rudolfo is a prime example of what society expects every
The decision to go against conformity is the only way to escape the situation that one is in, as shown in Díaz’s novel and Malala’s journey. Oscar, the main protagonist of Díaz’s novel, is frequently told by the people around him who he is and who he must be, sparking a deep conflict within Oscar. “Our hero was not one of those Dominican cat’s everybody’s always going on about ... dude never had much luck with the females (how very un-Dominican of him)” (Díaz, 11). From the beginning of the book, Oscar is pinned as an unfavorable choice for women. He notices this when girls reject him for the way he looks and his family members critique his lack of “improvement”. The Dominican expectation tells men they should be charming and a lothario however Oscar is neither. Oscar has the decision to conform to or reject the expectations. As it is more difficult to push the expectations away, Oscar spends his life chasing women in hopes of sex, which is also
Oscar is apparently inverse on the manliness range of Yunior's machismo. However, while he is weakened from multiple points of view all through the novel, it is critical that he is as yet a man and not female. This result depends on that in Dominican and other Latin American societies ladies are of a lower social remaining than men, regardless of how non-manly the man are. Through the Dominican generalizations that permits "machismo" men to corrupt ladies, essentially to demonstrate their manliness, many sorts of mishandle happen without much repercussion. Examples of the some sorts