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The Erapeutic Model Of A Marriage And Family Therapy

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As a marriage and family therapist, it is important to have a firm understanding of both who you are and your values. This concept, is ever present and most important during our training period. We start as individuals, with a passion that leads us to choose this career path and our own preconceived ideas about what it means to be a therapist. It is those preconceived notions or beliefs, that become assumptions and therapeutic viewpoints underlying our treatment methods. There are eight, beliefs and assumptions, in particular, that can contribute to what therapeutic model of treatment we choose to use in our sessions. Those beliefs and assumptions revolve around how people change, family dynamics, therapeutic roles, goal setting, ethical considerations, systemic functioning, context, and the therapeutic process itself. In this paper, I will be discussing both, my viewpoints in those areas and the therapeutic models of treatment they align with. Currently, the models that I identify most with are Bowiean and Cognitive – Behavioral. Method of Change/ Family Dynamics I believe that people are constantly being influenced by their past and the schemas it creates. This belief stems from my own personal ability to see how my past influences me today. For example, a personal issue that I struggle with, is trust and emotional cutoff. In the past, I used to offer my trust freely until it was broken, whether it was a small lie, or a significant deception, it didn’t matter. Once I perceived that trust as broken, I wouldn’t allow myself to trust that person again. This became a vicious cycle of me distancing myself from others. While I personally worked on this issue and can now acknowledge it, it still affects me. It’s a schema that I do, on occasion still initially feel and desire to pull away from others who have hurt me. I don’t think that will ever go away, however, now I able to look back on those past experiences and choose not to let them influence my decisions and actions. This ability to look back at our past and schemas, in some cases can be a key element to understanding ourselves. However, what can feel like a stable unchangeable element of ourselves is often actually ambiguous and in some cases, can be

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