The Negative Effects Of Divorce On Children

Everywhere around the world, in every different culture, people are grouped into families. The word family can be defined as a group of people bound together over time, because of mutual consent, birth and or adoptions/ placement or simply people who consume responsibilities for one other.

The family is the first institution of the five basic social institutions. It is responsible for developing the behavior of each person to be interactive individuals in society. It is responsible for supplying the basic needs of each person during their development. Unfortunately, the image of family has been deteriorated considerably. Instead of being a system support for people, it has become a double edged sword. Society is at fault for how bad the concept of family is today. It is just takes watching the news on television or to reading the newspaper to realize this. We can see headlines like "Father abused his daughter", “Woman is victim of domestic violence", "Child suicide due to

Divorce has many victims; they do not fall under a specific category and do not target a specific gender, age, race, or ethnicity. The effect of divorce on children differs from the effect on the spouses. The reasons for divorce are endless; they have many side effects on the spouses but most importantly affect the children. Divorce is one of the main reasons for disruption in our communities. Regardless of the reason, divorce always harms the children’s decisions, personalities, and futures.

A family is “a set of people related by blood, marriage or some other agreed-upon relationship, or adoption, who share the primary responsibility for reproduction and caring for members of society.” (Schaefer, 2009) A family is considered a social institution. This social institution is one that can be applied to all three sociological theories which are functionalism, conflict, and interactionism.

Divorce is a very harsh and challenging thing, especially on children. In today’s society, it is very common. It takes hard work and determination to keep a marriage going strong. It is also something that both spouses have to work at every day. Children grow up seeing their mom and dad together, and they become immune to it. When suddenly one day their parents are no longer together, there can be long term and short term effects on the child. Effects of a divorce on children include depression and anxiety, separation from one or both parents, and lastly, stepfamilies.

Family comes in all shapes and sizes; color, similarities and differences, but at the heart of it all, family is the solidified foundation to one belonging and feeling loved.

“Divorce isn’t a child's fault; I had a really good childhood up until I was nine, then a classic case of divorce really affected me”- Kurt Cobain. More than 30 years of research is continued to reveal the sides of divorce and the effects it has on children. The risks is steady rising, and just because you think that the effects won’t occur to your child the odds do greatly increase.

The effects of how children experience divorce mostly depends on their age, though can also depend on how the parents themselves react after their divorce and if there is no hard feelings between them. Currently, we do not know the rate of divorces because “The National Center for Health Statistics stopped publishing numbers of divorce and remarriage in 2000 because some states no longer count them” (Berns, 2013, p.83). The effects on children are drastically different based on their age at the time of the divorce. A child that is a teen will understand that the divorce is not their fault, though at the same time come to resent one parent for tearing apart the family, while a young child might feel that they are the reason for their parents'

A major effect of divorce on children is dealing with legal issues. It can have a huge impact on children which in turn can create issues with parents

Believe it or not there is more to divorce than one would begin to think. Usually, a person doesn’t think about divorce too much unless it happens to them or they know of someone who has gotten a divorce. I happen to know someone who got divorced not too long ago, my sister. My sister and her ex-husband were together for almost 10 years and it was hard on her when she went through the divorce with him. This made me curious on how it effected her so much with such things like: her being financially challenged, depressed, or having trust issues; that I decided to do this topic on how divorce effects children. I saw the adult side to divorce that I then wanted to look more into how it could have affected the children if they were to have any while

When a person thinks of the word family, they immediately think of those that are bound by blood and marriage. However, this is not always the case. Every single person that someone may come across defines the word differently and the significance will remain the same. The dictionary defines the word family as a derivative of ‘familia’ meaning those that live under the same roof. To most, family is the most important thing there is and something that will never turn even when times get tough. Of course, families bicker and yet they come back together when faced with adversity. Family is comprised of just individuals who are of regular heritage in the definition’s sense. However, there are many instances when family extends beyond the normal

Divorce affects all the chil­dren in the family at some time whether it affects them a lot or a little. Some effects of divorce form right after the sepa­ration and some effects form over the first few years following the divorce and then go back down. There are many factors that lead to negative effects on children. For example, children tend to feel like they have more responsibilities and feel less cared for. Another factor is that the non-custodial parent, which is usually the father, tends to drift from his children over the years following a divorce, both physically and emotionally. A loving and caring father-child relationship is very important for children and for the way they act in the future. Without a close and caring relationship with their father, chil­dren may experience emotional issues and can even cause confu­sion. The gender of the custodial parent may also play a part in determining the impact of divorce on children. There is some evidence that children tend to show more problems if they are in the custody of a parent of the oppo­site gender than a parent of the same gender. It is also proven that the greater the problems between the parents after divorce, the greater the number of problems the children will

Families comprise those who have a shared history and a shared future, they encompass the entire emotional system of at least three generations. Since the Relationships with parents, siblings, and other family members go through transitions as they move along the life cycle. A family structure is a way to understand these relationships within the family and learn how members interact with one another, it has a major role in determine our relationships as family members, and shaping our values, beliefs, goals and perceptions toward the society.

Family is a very complex term that can be defined in many ways. A family can be simply defined as a group of people who are related to each other and live together in the same household. According to the American Association of Family and Consumer Sciences (2004, p. 5), a family is defined as two or more persons who share resources, share responsibility for decisions, share values and goals, and have a commitment to one another over time. The two definitions that were presented clarified the vast complexities of its meaning. The term family can be defined in many ways; however, they all share the same concept and theories of structure and function within the family system. Families in reality, similar to its complex meaning, differ in various ways as well. The elements that cause families to differ from another could be due to culture, parent’s marital status, religion, and social class. Families may differ; however, they share many common elements within the Family Systems Theory and the Family Circumplex Model. All families share common elements such as, family roles, alliances, conflicts, systems and interaction patterns, strengths, cohesion, flexibility and challenges.

A family can be defined in many ways, but the common denominator in all is the love and fulfillment one gets by being surrounded by family members. Families can sometimes be at odds with each other, but the strain of this type of relationship usually creates an upsetting feeling to the people involved. People want others to rely on, talk to, do things with, share, love, embrace, and be part of. No matter what the family dynamic is the qualities the word family has will remain the same, as time goes by, and life evolves once again for every person living their