The Principles of Interpersonal Communication
1, We cannot not communicate,
Communication is a natural occurrence between all beings. As we communicate naturally, we concentrate on verbal speech to talk. Our bodies on the other hand give out signals as part of our communication. When we communicate, body language is expressed with intentional and unintentional signs. Some examples are;
• The shrugging and slumping of shoulders
• Using hand movements
• Raising and lowering of eye brows
• Facial expressions
• Sighing Schmidt (2004) stated a nod of the head or a raised eye brow may be all that is asked of a listener. We need to be on the look out for implicit requests for more information that include honest feedback
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A statement can not be retracted so one must be clear on commencement of a conversation.
3 Ethical Choices
When conversing with others we must be aware of ethical choices.
Interpersonal communication is used in everyday life but must be used in an appropriate manner. Wood (2003) state, Ethical communication is the ability to communicate in ways that are interpersonally effective. (pg32).
This is a code of practice which all professionals abide by. With the code of ethics one must honor patients and the feeling he/she expresses, even if you feel differently.
4 Positivity
Positivity in your conversation helps to enhance meetings. There is no right or wrong way to communicate, but better ways to phrase words using common sense and feelings. To have no negativity in a conversation, everyone becomes relaxed, comfortable and open for a positive conversation. Wood (2007) states, through all the stages of our lives, our self-esteem is shaped by how others communicate with us. People who lack interpersonal communication skills are unlikely to rise to the top of their fields, and many of them suffer lowered self-esteem as a result (pg 14). A negative conversation just compounds stress, uncomfortable feelings and anger which limit communication.
5 Kind and Caring
Communication should be kind as possible without sacrificing either your honesty or the transparency of the message. The way we communicate depends on who we
People communicate to show their needs, to share opinions they have. Effective communication can build strong relationships and create good social rapports.
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