Everybody will face conflict at some point in their life and most people face it daily. Conflict can make you stronger if you continue pushing forward through it. Most successful people have used their conflict to their benefit. There is also an obvious downside to conflict. If you don’t know how to handle conflict it could push you past your breaking point or cause you to quit on something. This isn’t how you should use conflict. Conflict is what you make it, so make it beneficial.
First let’s look at how conflict can be negative. People reacting in the wrong way can easily make conflict be negative. In the book “Things Fall Apart” Okonkwo negatively reacts to conflict. He is told he has to kill Ikemefuna and he then has a persona conflict. He doesn’t know if he should kill Ikemefuna to seem strong or save his life so he can keep, what he views as, a son. He eventually makes, in my opinion, the wrong decision. He kills Ikemefuna. Instead of standing up during conflict, Okonkwo gave in and did
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When Okonkwo was a boy his father was not a good one. He didn’t help his family in many ways at all and definitely didn’t contribute to the clan. Because of this Okonkwo had nothing to start with when he became a man. He was eventually able to get out of the conflict by working hard. He never gave up and didn’t want to be like his father. When he first started growing yams he had to borrow seeds from another man. This shows he started with nothing to his name. He then planted his fields and started his work. Although it was an awful planting season and nobody was able to grow crops including Okonkwo he persevered. The next year was a better year and he was able to start his life. After years of planting he eventually made a life for himself. He eventually became very successful and has 3 wives and a barnful of yams. He is one of the most successful men in his clan and contributes to the
Whether we like it or not, conflict is a part of everyday lives. It can happen to anyone, from your friends to your family.
Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe features the character Nwoye, the son of one of the strongest and most powerful men in the village, Okonkwo. Okonkwo is scared of failure because that is what his father became, so he is incredibly harsh on Nwoye. When the western men invade, Nwoye is torn between two worlds: converting to Christianity where he can start a new life, orstaying loyal to his family and village. Nwyoe ultimately makes the choice to go against his father. Due to the arrival of western culture, Nwoye leaves his family, converts to Christianity, and changes his name.
Things Fall Apart is a story about personal beliefs and customs and also a story about conflict. There is struggle between family, culture, and religion of the Ibo people which is all brought on by a difference in personal beliefs and customs. There are the strong opinions of the main character, Okonkwo. We are also introduced to the views of his village, Umuofia. Finally, we see how things fall apart when these beliefs and customs are confronted by those of the white missionaries. Chinua Achebe is a product of both native and European cultures. This has a great effect on the telling of the story. When he tells the story with an understanding and personal experiences in both cultures. He does not portray the African culture and their
It´s easier to find ways to predict it, prevent it, transform it, and resolve it. In a book the dynamic character cannot change without conflict, conflict helps the character to grow and understand to better them. If there was never conflict life would be mundane because nothing would change. It’s essential for innovation because it increases the number of ideas available for potential modernization. Conflict is a learning experience to help us learn what is right and what is wrong. If America did not have the American Revolution then we would not be a nation nor a democracy. If there was no Civil War African Americans would have no legal rights. Conflict build a person's character up. Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply. Every kind of conflict produces creative thinking, if it wasn’t for conflict you wouldn’t know half the things you know today, it’s the only thing that gives a solution to a problem, People tend to feel as if they don’t have a say anymore, but when they try to change things but no emulations are acted upon. So, these daily matters have no change.
Things Fall Apart. Those three words spell misery for whatever they describe. This phrase is the title of a novel by Chinua Achebe. Achebe chose to use this phrase from a poem, The Second Coming, by William Butler Yeats. By writing The Second Coming, “Yeats describes an apocalyptic vision in which the world collapses into anarchy because of an internal flaw in humanity.(“Things”)” which helps to convey his feelings about humanity. Chinua Achebe decided to use a line of this poem to depict the effect of British imperialism and to indicate the state of life in Umuofia.
A Christian Missionary is a person who is called by God to preach his word. Their job is to spread to everyone. Mr. Brown is a more effective Christian Missionary than Reverend Smith.
Conflict is a fact of life - for individuals, organizations, and societies. The costs of conflict are well-documented - high turnover, grievances and lawsuits, absenteeism, divorce, dysfunctional families, prejudice, fear. What many people don't realize is that well-managed conflict can actually be a force for positive change.
The most successful people in life overcome conflict, and learn from it. This is what makes them stand out over the rest of people. There are many examples of people who overcome conflict and do something great because of it. If you think long and hard about it there were times when you overcame conflict and did great things because of it. It’s not the conflict that makes the person tougher or stronger, but how they deal with it that makes them ahead of those
There are many ways that people react to conflict. Some people get angry, and some people get sad. People have to go against themselves, others, and some things that they can’t control, like society and nature. I believe that most of the time people react negatively to conflict, and do not see it as an opportunity to grow and change as a person.
Different countries have people that hold many different views and beliefs. In Nigeria the Igbo area is located in the southern area of the country. And within this area is Umuofia, which is where the Ogidi tribe lives. These people have beliefs that rest strongly on religion and faith in god. "Things Fall Apart" by Chinua Achebe takes a look at the life of an African tribe that has been isolated from the outer more technologically advanced world where science has become a part of religion proving that certain things live sickness are not caused by evil spirits. But the African tribe has no knowledge of this and they live in a society where there traditions, beliefs and there forms of communication differ from are own.
Conflicts can change a person. Getting in a fight could be a conflict that changes your school career. Doing things that are against the law could change your life forever. Conflicts between you and friends could change your friendships. Conflicts are serious and I will show you why.
Conflict is pretty much inevitable when you work with others. Everyone have different viewpoints and under the right set of circumstances, those differences could pile up and escalate to conflict. How you handle that conflict determines whether it works to the team's advantage, or contributes to its disadvantage. Conflict isn't necessarily a terrible thing. Healthy and constructive conflict is a factor of high-functioning teams. Conflict arises because of the differences between people, the same differences that often make diverse teams more effective than those made up of people with similar experience. When people with varying viewpoints, experiences, skills, and opinions are tasked with a project or challenge, the combined effort can far surpass what any group of similar
The text book describes conflict as “a process that begins when one party perceives another party has or is about to negatively affect something the first party cares about.” There are different views on dealing with conflict. There is the traditional view that seeks to eliminate any conflict and the interaction group that seek to use conflict as a stepping stone to greater things. Conflict can arise in any situation and, following the managed conflict view, it is not necessarily something to be push under the table but something to
Conflicts are more common than not in this day and age. You can have a conflict in a work or school environment over anything. In order to fix most conflicts there has to be an open communication. Lack of communication can cause more problems than fix them.
Conflict is inescapable, having the ability to recognize, understand, and resolve conflicts are important in both personal and professional lives. Myatt (2012) states that conflict in the workplace is unavoidable; if left unresolved, workplace conflict may result in loss of productivity and the creation of barriers that can inhibit creativity, cooperation, and collaboration. It is vital to embrace conflict and address problems through effective conflict-resolution tactics because if not handled appropriately, conflict will escalate. “If not handled properly, conflict may significantly affect employee morale, increase turnover, and even result in litigation, ultimately affecting the overall well-being of