While most students have a significant period of their lives where they slowly transition to adulthood, I believe the beginning of my adulthood was marked by the death of my grandfather. After losing my grandmother not even a year earlier, my grandfather's pre-diagnosed Alzheimer's started to escalate. Starting in my sophomore year, I had to begin taking care of him in ways that a normal child would not have to do. This included helping him use the bathroom, feeding him, and doing almost everything for him. While of course I do love my grandfather, I never really looked forward to taking care of him and it just created more stress for me as an individual. As time went on, he got worse and worse to the point that he forgot who I was. Usually …show more content…
I had begun to forget about the caring, exciting grandfather I grew up with and replaced him with the memory of my dying, abusive grandfather. At that time I acclimated to doing my homework, studying in a hospital room and having to repeat every 5 minutes who I was and why I was sitting next to his bed. My youngest sister was very young at this time and did not fully comprehend why her grandfather was behaving the way he was. Throughout this experience, I had to step up and take care of my family members in ways I really was not prepared to do. Having to take care of not only my grandfather, but having to be emotionally strong for my parents and sister. I soon lost the memory of my real grandfather and replaced it with the man laying in that bed that I did not know. My grandfather ended up passing away on February 25th, 2015. The was one day after my sister's birthday. Of course I was upset when he left us, but in my opinion he had left us a long time before that day. Having to stand up and take the responsibility of taking care of my grandfather and being strong for my family taught me lessons in life that some may never
This chapter focused on a controversial issue among young adults, the transition to adulthood can be hectic and varies among social classes. I agree with the author that adulthood is not a matter of age, but instead the feeling of success when one achieves certain milestones. Also, researchers have focused on the Big 5 indicators of adulthood, I disagree with this concept because due today’s economy it’s hard to find jobs after graduation thus making it difficult to live independently. For instance, by the age 24 my grandmother was married with children and lived independently with my grandfather. In my case, I’m 21 still enrolled in college with no children and remaining semi-dependent on my parents. I’ve noticed that most of the older populations
Mid-life crisis explain as an extremity in a middle age, in people’s lives. Where middle ages may face a disappearance of identity and reduce their self-confidence. Midlife crisis has been known around the world for many years, but has not always been believed by everyone because not everyone face it. Mid-life crisis is more of a normal change period that generally happen the time of a major life event that emphasizes getting older. A midlife crisis is something more person dependent rather than something everyone experiences. People go through many different experiences in their lives that happen at different time periods in their lives. Some experiences may seem worse than others and can make people feel like they will never be equal to
In middle adulthood there are many changes that occur physically, psychologically, and socially as explained in the above passages. Yet, some say that this is the best time of their life, they experience enhanced self-confidence, great sex lives, career success, and enhanced brain functions. Middle age adults are better equipped to make better life choices and decisions and not worry so much about the negative parts of life. Their problem solving skills are greater which allows them to reason more creatively. They are able to enjoy sex freely without the worries of getting pregnant and they feel more confident with their partners. In general they are happier about life and look forward to enjoying the rest of their lives.
the most part. These years in a persons life have often been referred to as emerging adulthood.
I had trouble sleeping that night. The peaceful, rhythmic breathing of my younger sister across the room could not calm me as I lay under the covers in the dark, listening for the heavy footsteps of an elderly man sneaking through the downstairs floor of my house. With one hand firmly choking Red Blankie, I reached with the other to turn the alarm clock on my bedstand toward me. The fluorescent red digits whispered 12:03 in the still, black room. Perhaps he will come soon.
Ask my teachers, friends, coaches, and family, they’ll all tell you that I’m mature. The way I hold myself responsible for my life, my studies, and my activities through the good and bad is a unique quality about me that they admire, but also know little to nothing about.
The journey through late adulthood can be experienced in different ways. One particular movie entitled “The Bucket List” exhibits an astounding portrayal of late adulthood. In fact, there are many accounts that the movie entails about late-adulthood. This includes the illustration of Erickson’s late adulthood stage – “Ego Integrity vs. Despair,” wisdom, marriage, friendship, parent-child relationship, and death and dying in late adulthood.
A final thing that I can take from this article and apply to my own life is acknowledgment of the burden the journey to adulthood places on the family of the individual. I currently live at home with my mother who I am dependent on like a lot of other young adults. Additionally, what makes my situation unique is that I also have multiple disabilities which are the reason I currently live at home. Although I realize that the practice of co-residency places a burden on the parents, I have also come to understand that this does not occur by choice, but rather by necessity. I can apply my new understanding of how our government does not truly understand the difficulties of my generation and the challenges we face to my personal life. Additionally,
Over that February, both my grandma and mother stayed with him through much of the process. I, on the other hand, was home alone trying to succeed in school. It was over this February where I gained an adult's level of maturity. I was intentionally left out of the conversation to protect my emotions. However, being shielded from it all only made it worse because I was left with nothing but assumptions and fears. I later found out that my grandfather nearly died during the whole ordeal, and I wouldn't have known otherwise. The only male role model in my life nearly left this world while I a mere 15 years old, and I was
A major event in my life that marked my transition to adulthood was the summer of my 9th grade year when I was accepted into a pre-college program called the Young Scholars Program offered at the University of Maryland. Upon arrival they told us you are a college student working for college credit, which scared me because this experience was totally foreign to me. This program had a class called CMSC 198B: Computer Science– A Hands off Approach. This class was an eye opener because I had no indication on what computer science was at the time. I lived on campus with over 100 different students, we were all taking classes there for the summer to gain more educational experiences beyond high school. I was alone without any friends or family for the first time in my life. This was also the first time I had done
The ceremony to celebrate adulthood is a rite of passage, when the children turns on an adult and assume news responsibilities. Now they could participate of society’s day a day. Now a day, we don’t have any similar ceremony, I guess. Perhaps in native tribes, but I don’t have information about that. We have the debutant party for girls, when they complete 15 years, here in Brazil, and 16 in United States. But I don’t think that this celebration has a similar meaning now a day. In past was when the girl was already for been introduce to the society, with the intention of get married; now it’s just a
Firstly, as the older generations develop they may decline in their social roles decline. Such as an elderly person that has just retired will have lost the day to day contact with colleagues or people at work and as a major impact, this and other factors can involve how social activities, skills and development can change in later adulthood.
A common piece of everybody’s vocabulary today is a word used in various contexts with little understanding to comprehend what it really means. “Maturity”, the stream of questions that come to our mind when we begin to ponder on the eight letter word is numerous. The most basic being, “What is maturity? How does one step up on the pedestal of maturity? And how do we measure maturity?” Einstein puts his perspective on maturity in an even more complicated manner, “I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity”, this view point does paint us a picture of maturity, but leads us to a whole new world of mystification.
Despite some young adults being privileged and may not have to worry as much about issues of the real world, several of other young adults are growing up slowly and are not completing milestones that were common at their age in past generations. Emerging adulthood is beneficial to young adults and should be more supported by others because it would give young adults more time to have identity exploration, it helps give young adults more self-focus towards their career, and it helps to understand the responsibilities of the real world.
From the end of November till the 21 of December my Grandpa was put into Hospice, or a at home nursing home to prepare your loved one for death. At this time I was trying to balance my studies as well as supporting my family morally and emotionally due to the tough times we were going through. During the week of exams, my father was rarely home because of his father nearing death. This led me and my mom to provide each other with dinner and help each other. Knowing about the struggles we were having, my two uncles which were my moms brothers came over to have dinner and help up set up our Christmas tree. It was December 20th when they came over which was the day before my grandpa passed. My mom mistook me for my uncle and said my grandpa was going to die that night or the next morning. I didn't realize she said this and didn't know they were hiding this from me. I came home from my exams the next day to see my father balling due to his death. Because of the mourning process I missed one day of exams and lost complete focus in school for a short time. After I came to the facts that he was dead I started to work harder than I have ever worked before. This led to me getting the best grades I had ever gotten in my high school career and they are still getting better. While getting over death is never fully obtainable, you have to learn to be able to live with the thoughts that run through your head daily about your deceased love one. I