What defines a person? Perhaps it’s our actions. Or maybe a person is defined by a single fleeting moment that flashes before the eyes in an instant then fades away into a memory only stored in the deep recesses of the mind. Or maybe we can only see ourselves in the face of stranger as they pass us on the street, barely masking the assumption they make of us in those brief seconds of silent introduction. Maybe our true selves are hidden somewhere within our mother’s eyes as she lets go of our hands and watches us start our lives. It may be that we all have this preconceived notion that we know who we truly are and exactly what we are meant to do. High school is the time when we choose to find who we are. We change dramatically from year to year, slowly evolving into our true selves. In my journey through high school I discovered who I wanted to be through trial and error. I scraped my knees a few times, but I always got back on my feet again. I learned what I had to do to preserve and better myself. If i had a chance to go back in time I would teach my younger self three vital lessons: put yourself first, don’t jump into relationships, and sometimes it’s just better to let things go. Solipsism is idea that only one's own mind is sure to exist, and that the world and other minds do not exist. If this stands to be true, then yours is only life that matters. Your mind is what orchestrates …show more content…
I made it to the end changed but whole. The metamorphosis is complete and now I am sure of who I am. I put myself first and have never been happier. I learned to love only those who I knew me as well as I know them. And that sometimes it’s healthier to just let your worries go and concentrate on the good things in life. All in all I believe I just learned how to take better care of myself. You can’t let high school get you down, keep your head held high and always know that only you know what’s best for
I think I speak for many people when I say high school is a critical point in one’s life. Coming into high school, things seemed to be tightly-knitted between my peers and I; those of us who had just
In life, there’s much that seems confusing. We always want simple explanations for everything, but there are some theories that simply don’t possess an “easy way of putting it.” Many of these theories are used in literature; examples include nihilism, existentialism, and monism. However, there’s one theory that’s particularly interesting: solipsism. Solipsism is the belief that nothing exists, or can be proven to exist, except one’s own mind and the creations of it (Glossary). Solipsism is a very old, and often misunderstood, theory. Although it’s used in literature, in books such as Grendel by John Gardner, solipsism also occurs in everyday life. However, it’s not always easy to find. If we wish to do so, we must to take time to ponder.
I was still finding out who I was then, even now I’m not done changing, but I’m not who I once was, I’m not sad all of the time, I have a very small group of friends and I have changed for the better. My high school experience has been very interesting so far. Having few friends in life leads you to finding an alternative; I read of adventures and friendships, I learned the meaning of love and what it means to care about someone, I put myself in the shoes of those I read about. It’s helped me to become independent and more
No two people are alike, and no two personalities are alike. A personality is made up of different characteristics, which help to define a person. Per the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator everyone has a four-letter personality type with 16 different personality combinations. These personality types affect everyone’s personal, social and work life. My four-letter personality type is ISFJ (introvert, sensing, feeling and judgment).
In ‘Abolish high school’ by Rebecca solnit, she writes “High school is often considered a definitive American experience, in two senses: an experience that nearly everyone shares, and one that can define who you are, for better or worse, for the rest of your life.” which means high school isn’t wonderful for many people, it has a lot of challenges for teens, maybe some of them ‘kill’ by pressure and challenges, it would affect their rest of life. The high school is not a wonderful place for everyone. People should skip it and escaped it that you would don’t be suffered by it. However I disagree with her, because I believe high school is a indispensable place for students. It is a place for students, they can find a great relationship and an unexceptionable place to learn. On the other hand, I believe the high school is the key to definitive teens who they are in an great way. For example, Teachers would shape everyone’s identity, make you strong to face challenges, and open child’s heart. For example, in my childhood, when I lived with my parents, I was happy to learn, because my parents always encourage me to learn. Also, they want me learn from mistake, because It is a way to learn. They want me to be someone. However my parents left me at 12 age, they have to work more hard to support this home. I can’t focus on learning, I was playing video games every day, because I think I was ‘release’ from my parents. I have no ideas about my future. There is no one like my parents to guide me , I feel alone and confuses. Until I was be a part of high school.The high school make me stronger and hopeful. Teachers guide me walk on the right way again, they talk to me about future and how wonderful thing would happen in high school. I
As we go on in life we face many challenges and new situations that we deal with. A new situation that most people deal with is college and all the changes that come along with it. What many people don't realize is that high school, in many ways, is similar and differrent from college. Not only are people changing but the surroundings and work change as well. There are some things that seem to never change such as some work and people.
High School is a time when many teenagers get into trouble and have many conflicts and struggles. Without all of the struggles, high school is supposed to be four terrific years. There are many struggles for teens like peer pressure, managing your time, fitting in, and many more. Most high schoolers will get pressured by their peers at some point and can cause some serious problems. About fifty-five percent of students play a high school sport on top of having a job, keeping your grades up, and just overall having fun, which can be very hard to do. During High school, students are going to want to not be themselves and want to fit in without being judged by their peers. High school should be a time for you to have some great years in your
Now, almost a decade later I have learnt what is really important to me. It is important to step back and listen to yourself instead of looking at others. Today, with a bigger distance to my highschool years I can see what was happening to me and why I acted the way I did. I was fantasising about who I could become to be loved and acknowledged by the people around me. I thought defining myself would make me feel more secure about myself. Looking around me I can see the phenomenon of the search for identity almost everywhere.
Ah, high school. The only place where people can see a person’s future change in an instant. Just like pages in the book no human has ever read and remembered, what experiences we had in high school can never be replicated. Our minds change in high school and because of these changes we only experience what we interpret as good and bad never truly knowing what could have been if we had only changed one word in a sentence or the facial expressions we made. This is true not in just high school but in adult life itself.
At first glance high school seems to be a fun and relaxed time. A time that you get to hang out with friends and participate in extracurricular activities. Some of your most treasured memories will be made in high school. However, high school is a cruel and unforgiving place. In high school individuals get judged by their appearance, the way they act, and who they hang out with.
Solipsism is the theory that the self is the only thing that can be known to exist. This came from Rene Descartes, a french philosopher in the early 1600s. He was searching for something that can be known as a
Teenage years are the time of a person’s life when they really start exploring their identity, who they are and who they want to be. During these years it can be hard trying to figure out who you are and where you belong, with the constant
I have never experienced an intense passion to look, act, or think like someone. I believe that in a mundane world where as humans our genetic makeup aligns 99% with one another, we should strive to preserve any individuality we possess.
High school has always been kind of rough. For some people it’s even worse. Some people feel like they don’t fit in, or they don’t know what to do or maybe just don’t know how to deal with things such as drama, boys/girls, teachers or just life in general. Others, like Julia have to deal with anxiety and awkwardness. Some people fit in, like Logan they know how to do stuff and what they want to do while in high school, maybe even after too. Then there are those 3 people that just know what to do, how to, when to but just don’t have the motivation to do it. They seek long and hard for that motivation, they think they find it but then it turns out as another mistake. They think it’s a person but then what if it’s an object or maybe a skill or
If solipsism was true and that only I exist then why is it that I have no control over the different occurrences in my life? Why am I going to school? Why can’t I just skip school and get a job. Then why do I need a job when I can just become rich? My life would consist of traveling and activities that I would enjoy. The idea that the only thing that exists is your mind is ludacris. All that I know and understand is the external world. This is my life. Why try to even entertain an idea that is similar to the movie The Matrix? If everything existed only in my mind there would be no war, no starvation, and pollution would never exist. I would be living, in my mind, in an utopian society where everyone flourished. Instead I am taking time out to write a paper in order to learn about solipsism and a different way of thinking.