The term "introvert" and "extrovert" were coined by the early 1920's Swiss psychologist Carl Jung. The general definition were that extroverts were focused on the outer world while their counterparts, introverts, were focused on the inner world. Throughout the years since his discovery, introversion in particular has been diluted and has lost its meaning. In modern society introversion and shyness are lumped in the same category. Introversion as define by the Merriam Webster Dictionary is "the state of or tendency toward being wholly or predominantly concerned with and interested in one's own mental life." Shyness however is the act of feeling awkward and tense in social situations in worry the person might embarrass themselves; introversion …show more content…
In laymen terms, self esteem is not what makes up an introvert, it is how they process and receive energy. An introvert can be seen a phone battery. They have no problem being in social events or hanging out with a group of friends, but as the day goes on, their battery will start to run low and they will eventually become drained. Drained to the point where they will become physically exhausted and say little to no words to their counterparts, hence why they can be misunderstood as anti-social. Keep in mind introverts are big thinkers and spend a lot of time in their head, and when they spend hours and hours in social situations that involve them to be present and out of their imagination, they will more than likely retreat back into their mind and do what they do best, and that is to "think." Many will assume that they are unemotional or mad due to their lack of words, but in actuality, an introvert could be thinking the happiest most random thoughts, but will have a clever poker face to conceal that. Either way, the world may never know what is going on an introverts headspace. Continuing that statement, when an introvert is officially drained and they are pretty much at 2% on a phone battery scale, they need to recharge. Obviously most introverts cannot recharge as fast as a phone, some may need a few hours and others may need a few days to a even a week. Recharging simply involves them being alone …show more content…
Their brains are literally wired differently than their extrovert counterparts, they process, receive, and view information from a completely different perspective that is overall essential to society. And not to say one is better than the other, because that's not the case, but both introverts and extroverts bring something unique and important to the table. Introverts have more blood flowing in their anterior thalamus and frontal lobes, which is the region of the brain that solves problems, recall events, and make plans. Whereas extroverts have more blood flowing in areas such as the anterior cingulate gyrus, which deals with interpreting sensory data. Discovered in a 2012 Harvard University study, Introverts have thicker and larger gray matter in their prefrontal cortex, which is a part of the brain that correlates to decision making and abstract thought processes. Extroverts have less gray matter which accounts for their risk-taking and their capability for living more in the
An introvert person is usually someone who enjoys solitude rather than spending time with a group of people. Introverts are often known for being able to “recharge” on their own, rather than recharging by socializing. Extroverts usually gain energy from spending time with other people. For many introverts, being in a social surrounding and spending a lot of time around people can be exhausting, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t like people. It means they choose not to be surrounded by others. But why do introverts want to be alone? Is it because they lack social skills or social interest? Or maybe they create a protective wall where they don’t let people in.
Extroverts prefer the spotlight, work well in teams, and socialize in groups. Introverts are typically sensitive, and work better alone. It “is now a second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and pathology,”
I have always been fascinated with the introvert extrovert spectrum and personality. I have always considered myself to be introverted. When I was younger I was quieter and enjoyed playing by myself or hanging out with my brothers. I always associated being introverted with the stereotypical assessment of what an introvert was described to be. This seems to be described as the loner or the awkward individual and I never understood why this is what people think of being introverted.
Like me, maybe you didn't think that there was more than one category. As Scott Barry Kaufman has written, pop culture has defined introversion in quite a few confusing ways.
According to just about any dictionary you can find, we are shy and reticent people, quiet, and lacking in our abilities to communicate with others. However, as a matter of semantics, I disagree with this. For one thing, when the word introvert made it’s debut in the mid-17th century, it simply referred to clergymen engaged in spiritual contemplation, possessing none of the connotations of shyness present today. Furthermore, from the current perspective of an introvert, introversion doesn’t even entail being nervous or timid in the presence of others, so much as being a sort of machine whose batteries run off of solitude; batteries that slowly become exhausted by socialization, no matter how thoroughly enjoyable. Any diffidence, falsely interpreted or real, is an entirely separate matter. The dictionary is
Let’s first start with what extroverts and should know about introverts. In the article, Dembling mentions introverts don't need alone time because they don’t like their friends, but because very simply, they just need time to themselves, and time to regroup and relax. Additionally, she mentions introverts don’t sit quietly because they are judging anyone, but because they like to watch and observe what others are saying and doing. I can relate to that one, as I catch myself doing that often.
By believing that introverts are flawed and need to be fixed, extroverts endeavor to “help” and offer advice. The advice can cause introverts to feel ashamed that they are not normal. This has continued since the rise of industry, because once people tried to be desired by other people based on their first impression, it became cemented in society. Once the "Extrovert Ideal" (Cain 23) started, it stayed. Since being cemented into society, it has caused too much pain, suffering, and all around confusion. “there seems to be general agreement that there is a considerable amount of stress generated by solitude. Indeed, not only the experimental literature but also anecdotal reports indicate that isolation is adverse in its effects” (Suedfeld 5). The pain of isolation for a lifetime is not normal for social animals such as humans. This pain has caused confusion for introverts because extroverts can and do fail to understand that introverts are different. Extroverts become confused because they believe that extroverts are normal and the quiet introvert needs their “help” to be
Some people are, of course, more extraverted than others, and to different degrees. We can understand extraversion as varying in extent on anintroversion-extraversion scale. A person witha lower level of extraversion may be described asanintrovert. Introverts feel more comfortable when socialising in small groups, and with peoplewho they are familiar with. They may find demanding social gatherings to be draining, and be reluctant to draw attention to themselves in
People believe that extroverts and introverts are like a cut of steak. People like to believe that the steak they ordered is very clean and clearly cut; people also consider introverts and extroverts to have clean-cut attributes. Like many, people will believe that introverts do not enjoy people and only appreciate time with themselves. Also, many people will place extroverts in a group of loud-mouths, people who just want to have an enjoyable time and may not be the most astute. Although people believe that the qualities of introverts and extroverts are clear cut, there is more to introverts and extroverts than may meet the eye.
Note: One of Jung’s guiding principle was that each being embodied both introverted and extroverted traits. Therefore, an intuitive introvert maybe an extroverted feeler and vice versa. Furthermore, it was Jung’s belief that each of us possess two extroverted cognitive functions and two introverted cognitive functions. It must be kept in mind that all these functions of the extrovert and introvert are mutually
An introvert is a person that gathers their energy from within and requires time alone and would prefer to communicate by ways such as email and by writing and maybe texting they seem to prefer not to talk face to face and are not great public speakers. Introverts are often said to be reserved. They are often said to enjoy the quiet and this is what
When people do embark on a journey of self-awareness and discover that they are indeed introverts, why do some feel obligated to apologize? Isn’t this perpetuating the negative adjectives that introverts are mislabeled with now? Why apologize for being true to your nature? If a person truly understands who they are, (their attributes, as well as the aspects of themselves that
What exactly are introverts and extroverts? Carl Jung, a renowned Swiss psychiatrist, studied many personalities and was able distinguished two major characteristics. One of the characteristics was extroverts. Extroverts tended to be more social and very outward with their emotions. This characteristic type depends on outside
The terms originated from psychologist Carl Jung's theory of personality. Jung saw the extrovert as directed toward the outside world and the introvert as directed toward the self (1). He characterized extroverts as being energized by being around other people and drained by being alone and introverts as the opposite (1). He recognized that most people shared characteristics of both introversion and extroversion and fell somewhere along a continuum from extreme extroversion to
Introverts are people who spend time thinking and reflecting before they act. Their motivation is internal, which might end up closing them off from the world around them. Introverts usually prefer one-to-one relationships, and only express intimacy with a few family members or close friends. Introverts also love doing activities that allow them to be put in an organizational position. Occasionally, introverts will shut down and close off from all of those around them. Personally, I believe that is a completely accurate description of myself. I also plan out my days ahead of time, and I love being able to put things together. While I sometimes I think that it is a negative thing, I do tend to close off from my circle, which happens to be very small. If I do get to meet my goal of being a teacher, my introversion definitely yields to potential for problems. Getting out of my shell would be a challenge, without a doubt. That being said, my introversion is mostly geared towards others my age. I am usually very comfortable around people that are older or younger than I am, which makes me believe I would probably be okay. Other than having to overcome the challenge of opening up, being an introvert does have upsides, such as having an urge to get things done.