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When Should Parents Be Able To Spank Their Children

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I do not believe parents should be able to spank their children. I believe in "respectful parenting." This involves staying calm and listening to your child. While staying firm and consistent with recalcitrant children. As a parent, I practice nine steps to redirect children's behavior. The nine steps include staying calm, take time for myself, be kind but firm, give the child choices, use logical consiquences, do make ups, withdraw from conflict, use kind but firm action and inform children ahead of time. Hitting children teaches them to become hitters themselves. Physical punishment distracts the child from learning how to resolve conflict in an effective and humane way. It is natural that children learn attitudes and behaviors through observation and duplication of their parents' actions, for good or ill. Because children learn through parental role modeling, physical punishment gives the message that hitting is an convenient way to express feelings and to resolve problems. …show more content…

Utah has several different organizations working to protect children and educate their parents and caregivers, including the National Center on Shaken Baby Syndrome, Primary Children’s Center for Safe and Healthy Families and Prevent Child Abuse Utah. Utah considers it abuse or neglect if a child is abandoned by a legal gardian, or care taker showing a conscious disregard for parental obligations. Utah also considers emotional abuse against the law, emotional abuse could be considered as "failure to protect" means failure to take reasonable action to remedy or prevent child abuse or neglect. Threatening harm, rejecting, isolating, terrorizing, ignoring a child. Showing a conscious disregard for parental obligations. Demeaning or derogatory remarks against a child. Fetal exposure to alcohol or other harmful

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