Why do people judge so quickly? They have one single conversation with you and immediately think that they know what type of a person you are just after that one conversation or even by the way you physically present yourself, the way you style your hair, what type of cloths you wear, they will always judge you. You do something and they judge you by thinking of how you behaved just in a second, they start saying that you’re shy or that stupid or that if you act strange you are a retard. It’s true.. I don’t behave like everyone else, people say i'm just shy because i’m alway quiet, but i'm quiet not because i'm shy but because I just don’t like talking to ‘normal people’. You know, if they actually took the time and effort to talk to me and maybe …show more content…
I do everything I want to do. I even entered the football team and football is suppose to be a boys game, I just wanted to try it since none of the girls were in it. People talked about me saying how could i join a boys sports, so I partly joined it because I know that normal people are like that. They will hate, dislike, and question what you do then they will copy you. Its normally called jealousy which is why they don't like it at first because they don’t think they can do it, but then more people do it and they wanna be on all the trend so they copy. Anyways for my classes, school is too easy for me, I somehow manage to already know what we’re gonna be taught and it is quite entertaining watching my classmates answer things wrong like during math class when they answer a fully completely answer to what is the actual answer. I often answer things wrong on purpose because I don’t want to be put higher levels, I don’t want to cause attention towards me but yet I have all A’s in my report
Reasons people are shunned today are both the same and different from how they were in the 17th century. Today people are shunned for things like how they look. An example of this is a group of girls avoiding another because they don’t like how she is different from them. People also shun others today for the shame of something they did to the person. They may have done something bad to them or something that they know the other person just wouldn’t like so they avoid them. Another reason people shun others today is because of jealousy. They may be jealous of another person’s success or something the person has that they do not. People are shunned for mental-illness. A person may have had a mental-illness and went to get help from the mental
It is not uncommon to judge people based on trivial things; where we come from, how we live, where we live, what we do for a living, how much money we make, by the color of our skin, whether we are male or female, gay or straight, the type of clothes we wear, our looks, or the car we drive. We are even judged by how we spend our free time.
People are too quick to judge others, resulting in being stereotyped as an outsider. If people would stop judging others by their appearance they would eventually get to see their true personality. One of the main reasons why people are so quick to judge is because of society. People are often categorized as outsiders because they are misunderstood by society.
Each and everyday people are constantly judging one another. There are around 7 around billion people in the world and each and every single one of those people are going to have different opinions on certain aspects of life. So since each person is different in their own ways, once they see somebody that is different from them, the first instinct is to judge that person. The easiest way to judge people are by their appearances, somebody may look at someone else and see that they have on a pair of cheap shoes from Walmart, as well as no name jeans and shirt on from Walmart as well, who drives a used toyota camry. Now you could quickly come to a conclusion and say that they must be poor and are living a miserable life.
When people first meet me, I often ponder what they see and how they judge me. I suspect they see a strong, but not intimidating person who is always being a complete weirdo. So, how would they judge me? Well, in all likeliness they don’t see me as a person who is a threat in any aspect to their
Carl Gustav Jung was a famous swiss psychiatrist that once simply said: “Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge”. To clarify, we as humans have this constant need to know everything about everything; to understand something is to think in every aspect; who, what, when, when, where, and why. Consequently, people judge because making assumptions about who an individual is, is way more efficient than actually getting to know the person. It is said to never judge a book by it’s cover, but we often sway from that idea to gain any type of information. Like essays “Mother Tongue” by Amy Tan and “Dumpster Diving” by Lars Eighner, this idea is deflected. In both essays and through personal experience, it is evident that everyone is judged by the way we speak, act, and look thus affecting how we are treated.
Carl Gustav Jung was a famous Swiss psychiatrist that once simply said: “Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge”. To clarify, we as humans have this constant need to know everything about everything; to understand something is to think in every aspect; who, what, when, when, where, and why. Consequently, people judge because making assumptions about who an individual is, is way more efficient than actually getting to know the person. It is said to never judge a book by its cover, but we often sway from that idea to gain any type of information. Like essays “Mother Tongue” by Amy Tan and “Dumpster Diving” by Lars Eighner, this idea is deflected. In both essays and through personal experience, it is evident that everyone is judged by the way we speak, act, and look thus affecting how we are approached.
We as a social species tend to structure our society on our relationships with others of our kind, we ask each other for opinions, and post ourselves online for the world to see. Yet we ask for no judgement? Our subconscious is thirsting for good reviews and acceptance from our peers, it’s etched into our primal nature. The same happens in a group of any social animal,
ABSTRACT: The question of ethics relates to the good and its contrary, evil. What ethics does with its object is to seek to understand it, that is, not to produce either the concept of the good or the actions that fall under that concept. Thus, the question that follows is: What is the good?, or strictly speaking, what is the definition of the good? But the definition asked for, as any other definition, is necessarily related to the science of language. But language itself is a social phenomenon. Consequently, the definition of any concept implies the quest of the social roots of this concept. In this sense, the quest of the roots is prior to the quest of what is. Examples are taken from Plato’s Republic,
It’s human nature to compare ourselves to others, whether it’s to our family members, peers or even celebrities we see in the media. We base our judgments of ourselves and others on these comparisons. Judging others, sometimes
As a student, I am very well rounded. I am always prepared and thinking ahead of what I need to do. I’m very picky with everything I do. No one wants to take me shopping because if it ain’t perfect I don’t want it. I’m also very organized. I keep a tight schedule every day. I work hard for everything I want. I make dinner every night for my family of 5. I also like to bake but I never end up getting any with 3 boys in the house. Anyways, I work hard for the things I deserve and I am very picky about what I end up getting. I don’t like much help unless I really need it. I always turn things in early or on time. If my work isn’t perfect, it’s not good enough. I usually don’t settle for anything less than an A. My brothers call me an overachiever.
People often judge or misperceive others appearances in a less than equal manner before they even know the true nature of the person. Every day we make assumptions by what we can see physically. Even in the supermarkets, we distinguish good products from bad products based on how they look. We are apt to choose good-looking products because they don’t have flaws, cracks, and bruises. Moreover, we assume them to have good qualities and good tastes. Actually, taste doesn’t deal with its looking. However, we bias in favor of assuming human nature. Since people judge human beings based on how they look, it is called prejudice. In fact, prejudice just disadvantage
“Don't judge me because i am different, judge yourself because you're the same”-unknown author. when i walk through the halls at school, i find myself judging the people around and i ask why ? why do people judge looks? Its an interesting trait really. Have you ever misjudged someone? The thing is people don’t come with labels. So you don’t know someone without really getting to know them. I believe that pre-judging people is wrong.
Why do so many people base their initial opinion about someone by just looking at them without really even knowing them? Knowing or having morals is the establishment that everyone has a set of basic needs in order to live a “happier” life. It seems that more and more as time passes, people tend to be quick to judge someone on first impressions, which in most cases is not the best thing to do.
The illusion is that their response to us is never actually based on us. It is based solely on our behavior and how it relates to them. The mistake we make when we are young, because we are not equipped to process what is happening to us, is to believe that others approve or disapprove of us based on who we are. At the earliest age, we immediately are conditioned that when we act or talk in a way that is in line with how someone wants us to act or talk, they approve of our behavior, and more importantly, we are conditioned that when we act or speak in a way that isn’t in line with how someone wants us to act or speak there are usually negative consequences to us. This often causes to act or speak in a way that seeks their approval which also is detrimental to ourselves. We are viewed by a society to be outside of the norm and a problem if we think as an individual. The people that label us with these stereotypes are often the ones who are unhappy and individually have already quit on life. I have been called antisocial, sociopathic, difficult, and dysfunctional, along with many other adjectives that the majority of society would deem to be stereotypically negative. In almost every one of those instances, looking back, I realized that those adjectives were said to me immediately after I would not do something that someone wanted me to do. It is considered sociopathic for someone to ignore the