Writing : 'Alliance Between The Celes And The Morokus'

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The rate of divorced parents is growing daily according to divorcestatistic.org, the divorce rate in America for the first marriage is between 41 and 50 percent. Divorce does not only happen between the spouses, especially when there are children involved. Marriages might end with divorce due to conflicts. Divorce can also occur due to loss of connection and intimacy in a ten to twelve year marriage (Psych page, Gottman Research). Communication problems between spouses can cause one of the spouses to be very abusive. An abusive parent can harm the child and lead to psychological problems in the future. In addition, criticism plays a vast role in the relationship; one spouse might say, “What kind of person are you?” (Psych page, Gottman Research). In my experience, this question allows the problem or fight to escalate.

Living in the United States of America, we all have a high rate of getting a divorce, if married. Lack of communication, infidelity, and abuse are the 3 main causes of divorce plans. On wedding day, the wife and husband promise to be with each other’s through thick and thick. The married couple supposed to be with each other’s when times get rough and all, which means it is a must to communicate a lot with your spouse. As the divorce rates in America rises, bad effects do happen on the children who are used to growing up with both parents ("Divorce

Although the idea of divorce can be sad, sometimes it’s necessary. My family has become so much closer through all of this and I can honestly say, I think we’ve all come out of it just a little bit stronger. I always heard people talking about how in order to really enjoy the high points in your life, you have to go through some rough times, and now, that really makes sense to me. This was by far the hardest thing I’ve gone through, but also the thing that has helped me grow the

Divorce is becoming all too popular in our society today. When a couple experience tough times or have one too many arguments, they automatically think divorce. Despite its prevalence couples are not prepared for it’s long, drawn out, hurtful process. Divorce does not only hurt the individuals involved, it also affects the children tremendously. While many people don’t think divorce is a bad thing. Hollywood makes divorce look cool and uneventful. When in all reality, it is disruptive. Some people would say that divorce is a lazy way out of a marriage; the cowardly thing to do when a situation presents itself. Divorce is not the only answer to marital problems, in most cases.

To avoid the problem of ambiguity rearing its negative head during an already stressing time within the family, parents should actively look to have conversations about divorce related issues with their children (Afifi & McManus, 2010, p.85). The ability to have open conversations about the struggles of the marriage will

“Evelyn, sweetie,” she starts off. Uh oh, I haven’t heard Mom say either of those words in what seems like years. I can already tell they’re trying to sweet talk to me.”Your father and I have been talking,” she continues, “and we think it’s best for us… to…” she sighs. “We think we need to get a divorce.”

Instantly I was ready to say something that would make me feel better, but make her feel worse. I was furious how could she be sad? It takes two people to get a divorce, it took two people to make everything change. And it would only take me to hold my tongue back and think about how she feels. How it would feel to know your child is hurting from something that would benefit you and make life easier for you in the long run, but your child see’s this as a horrible memory.

Having these conversations I clearly understand why our marriage did not work. You love calling me a lunatic, but we and everyone that is associated with you know who is and always have been unstable.

The joy of my brilliant idea was short-lived as three police vehicles pulled up to the front of the lobby. Being on the fifth floor, the only other way down besides the

Divorce can be hard on anyone and to expect it not to have a significant impact is wishful thinking. However, the reality is that the construct of the family may be shifted from your standard nuclear family to one of a single-parent home and possibly more. Either one of these single-family homes may transform again into another form of family that is referred to as a blended family. This occurs when one of the parents, or both, finds another person which they consider to be their significant other and then merge them, and possibly their family, into yours. This path shows that a family is capable of many transformations prior to settling into something

“We need to have a family meeting” - those words reverberated in my head on one spring morning. I walked into the living room and sat down on the couch, my sister next to me. My parents’s feuds subsequent to this “meeting” foreshadowed its purpose. My sister who was two years older than me eavesdropped on these arguments and brought the consensus to me. Divorce. She had learned the term from one of her friends at school who had been through one. The meaning of that word was not truly understood by me until my parents sat us down that day and broke the news – after my father walked out the door.

Broken families are on since the beginning of humanity. In fact, divorce, which has been very common in today’s societies, is the major cause that leads to family devastation. However, although, in some cases, divorce is the only solution for a family to live in peace, one must think many times before taking such decision, and that is because of many .

“Not yet, I’ll be down in a minute!” I called back, not wanting to agitate her. Although, she was pushing me to get out of the door, I knew she was the one still getting ready. You may ask, “Why would you do such a thing? Why would you allow your wife to hurry you up when she’s the one not ready?” Well, I love my wife. I love our marriage, my children, my life….our life; I’d like to keep it that way. It took me a long time to learn that. I never thought about losing my family, until recently.

“DIVORCE” – Just the sound of such word in any married couple or children’s ear can cause great agony that can even become terminal. Research and personal experience, has proven that in today's society, divorce is more common amongst newlyweds. Since 2009 the rate of divorce has increased to approximately forty percent, There are three out of every ten marriage that ends up in divorce before it reaches the stage of maturity, and the most prevalent results are – lack of communication and infidelity.