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People now prefer to text one another than to call or meet. The reason for this is that technology allows us to fulfill our desire for communication with one another much faster, easier and with fewer consequences. This is why, with the further advancement of technology, connections with inanimate objects that acquired human traits are becoming more popular. This can be seen in Turkle’s essay when she first introduced ELIZA, the program that engages in dialogue. she says “ People used the program as a projective screen on which to express themselves. Yes, I thought, they engaged in a personal conversation with ELIZA, but in a spirit of ‘as if’” (458). It is easier for people to have conversations that they are able to control and achieve desired outcomes without dealing with real human emotions that can be daunting. People can experience the little moments of “positivity resonance” through artificial intelligence much easier, faster and at their

Technology abolishes human interaction with one another. Human interaction becomes less frequent as technology advances. Many people have access to technology. For instance, walk into a diner, or a fast food restaurant, and then discover a group of people at a table all on their electronic devices. People need to be more aware of how technology is affecting the relationships among people. People are going to lose their friendships because they failed to separate their cyber life from their social life.Melissa Nilles describes her experience as a nightmare that was actually reality. In the “nightmare,” she lost many opportunities because of being attached to her cellular device.

Now day’s kids sit in front of a screen in their room for hours talking into a mic, talking to some random person they found online. Not only do we see this happen on TV with the main characters little brother, but also when we walk in the door of our own house. There was a TED talk that I recently watched where the speaker was a mom and her daughter had invited some friends over to hang out, but what she actually meant was turn and stare at a phone. As what Sherry Turkle said, “And what I've found is that our little devices, those little devices in our pockets, are so psychologically powerful that they don't only change what we do, they change who we are.” What she says is that we cannot survive without these little devices in our life. The ability of our social connection in real life is disappearing. For example, when they hang out with each other in person it’s not face to face anymore, it’s back to back, they text each other instead of talking. Some might say we are running from our problems with the help of technology. When you have an issue with someone you don’t want to come right out and confront them because you don’t know how they will react, so you text them. But when you do this you don’t put any emotions into it, maybe a few exclamation points and a sad face, then ending the heated text message with a heart, but in the end did you really get your point a crossed to them or did you just tell them that whatever they did make you a little sad and you won’t do anything about it, giving them the chance to do whatever they did again. Technology is breaking us down as people. (SO

Interacting with other people can difficult and at times even unpleasant, but at the end of the day it is a task everyone has to overcome, or not. In Alone Together Turtkle writes of how we have come to readily accept a more technological based world saying, “ Technology is seductive when what it offers meets our human vulnerabilities” (263 Turkle). Today technology allows its users to communicate with others without ever having to see their face via text or email, meeting the vulnerability of being awkward and boring during a conversation in real life. Yet, avoiding actual interaction with people diminishes a persons social intelligence, making a conversing with others all the more difficult as they can no longer rely on the controlled atmosphere of messaging system and have to deal with unexpected questions and topics. Moreover, in the same article Turtle discuses the younger generation aversion to human interaction, she write, “ Teenagers avoid making telephone calls, fearful that they ‘reveal too much’. They would rather text than talk”( Turtle 272). Technology provides a controlled environment in which one decides to what degree he or she would like to interact with other, but this is not how the real world works. One can text answers for a job interview or email the news of a sick relative, somethings have to be done in person. Accordingly, in Tough’s article social intelligence is defined as, “ the ability to recognize interpersonal dynamics and adapt quickly to different social situations”( Tough 2). Online users do not exhibit social intelligence, the online domain is posses no new social situations to adapt to, is something makes one uncomfortable or annoyed they can simply “x” out of a window or go to another website. Increased reliance on technology will hinder the development of character, especially social

In Sherry Turkle’s Ted Talk, “Connected, But Alone?”, the speaker laments on how technology is hindering human connectivity. Instead of having face to face conversations, individuals can choose to keep each other at a distance through text messages or e-mails. Contrary to what Turkle states in her presentation, technology and virtual communication help people to stay connected and develop better communication skills than hinder them.

Turkle uses her input as a psychologist, to point that technology “appeals to us most where we are most vulnerable. And we are vulnerable. We are lonely, but we’re afraid of intimacy.” She argues that we look upon our phone’s use because we feel lonely and do not accept solitude as a good thing. We turn to technology when we want to avoid social awkwardness and rather control our conversations. This said, Turkle ponders that an individual’s attempt to avoid isolation by then again being isolated on their devices, is unfitting to the situation. On the other hand, Carral persists that people should not be deemed for their actions of simply communicating online. He goes on to say “people should be able to interact with whomever they please without being judged by people for using their smartphones to do so.” It is without question that people should not be told with who to communicate. Carral stands by the notion that our desire to communicate with those online does not cause us to be isolated; it rather means we want to socialize with that particular

Sherry Turkle makes the point that there is an immediate sense of connection that we get when we receive a text from someone far away. However, activities such as checking smartphones and emails can provide individuals with the ability to disconnect from having intimacy even when individuals are right next to each other. It allows for individuals to be selective about what they pay attention to in their daily lives. This is probably because we can easily escape the here and now through the use of a technology. Turkle argues

Society is becoming increasingly more dependent upon the evolution of technology for their communicative inclinations with mediums such as the printing press, the internet, cell phones, and televisions, though not limited to such. In parallel, its progressive ease of access prompts for habitual consistencies. Furthermore, it conjures up disagreements on how technology affects the population. One side believes that technology serves as a beneficial factor in facilitating democracy, as well as enhancing social interactions. Subsequently, they believe that it is the driving factor for better human communication, making it an enabler for simplicity through varied exchanges. Though, others are in opposition, rendering that technology causes social isolation. Likewise, they believe that the social and developmental necessities of nonverbal communication are at a loss due to the convenience of technology. Thus, with the persistence of these mechanical developments, questions arise as to how these phenomena may affect the way that people interconnect. Does technology have a positive or negative impact on social interactions?

During Shirley Turkle’s TED 2012 talk entitled “Connected, but Alone,” she presented the idea of how technology is eroding the personal side of communication. More specifically, Turkle focuses on communication technology such as text messaging, emails, and social media as the source of this erosion. She explains how our “plugged in lives” changes the way we live and communicate. This technological form of communication creates a new psychological feeling of belonging or togetherness and yet, in reality, creates a separation from a truer or more traditional form of communication. (Turkle)

In her TED Talk presentation, “Connected but alone?” speaker Sherry Turkle talks to her audience about the issues behind technology in our daily lives. In her presentation, Turkle brings together a few personal stories that support her reasoning behind certain ideologies. After years and years of studies, Turkle has found that our small handheld devices such as phones, tablets and laptops have had a major impact on the way we socialize with others. Technology has advanced and with that humankind must adapt to the changes that these technological advances bring.

In the text the author Sherry Turkle is arguing on how in this age of technology people are quickly giving up on conversation face to face for instead going for mere connections. Now for a mere and fast connection is just a simple text or call from a phone or computer. With the use of this fast paced connection people begin to become more and more distant from one another not wanting to be interrupted. This text is not just targeted at the younger generation but is targeted at any and everyone who is dependent on technology. With the use of visceral feelings, rhetorical appeal, and tone, Sherry creates an argument that can be digested easily by the reader.

This experiment forced me to socialize and interact with my surrounding. People playing on their phones in a social occasion enter the virtual world to communicate with ‘absent orders’ while ignoring ‘present others’ in the real world (Lupton, pg.170). I barely take notice of people around me or even acknowledge their existence at times, since my eyes are constantly on my phone screen. Losing access to enter the virtual world allows me to be present in the actual world where I met a new friend and engaged with my surrounding. In addition, technology is not only connected to our bodies, but to our social network as well (Lupton, pg.167). We develop an intimate connection with our friends or family online through technology. For instance, my long distance relationship wouldn’t work without technology. I was feeling lonely because of the lack of communication and it taught me the importance of technology in maintaining or constructing social bonds. In the digital age, technology has redefined what romance looks like. It created new habits than the traditional way of dating. As the main way of connection was lost, I felt like the relationship was lost or damaged as well. Therefore, it feels like technology has an invisible power or control not to our bodies, but to our social network as

“WE live in a technological universe in which we are always communicating. And yet we have sacrificed conversation for mere connection” (Turkle, “The Flight from Conversation” par. 1). In today’s society we all rely on the use of technology, because it is everywhere around us. We as people are losing common social skills because of the use of smart phones, texting, and the Internet. We rely on smart phones to tell other people plans. We text instead of having a meeting. We also use the Internet instead of asking a professional. It has become an inconvenience to actually have a casual conversation with someone. Why do we rely on a hunk of metal, wires, and plastic to help us live our lives?

In the text, the author Sherry Turkle is arguing on how in this age of technology people are quickly giving up on conversations face to face for instead going for mere connections. Now for a mere and fast connection is just a simple text or call from a phone or computer. With the use of this fast-paced connection, people begin to become more and more distant from one another not wanting to be interrupted. This text is not just targeted at the younger generation but is targeted at any and everyone who is dependent on technology. With the use of visceral feelings, rhetorical appeal, and tone, Sherry creates an argument that can be digested easily by the reader.

One can easily be in bed and talk with a friend on Skype, another on MSN, and a third one on Viber. However face to face interaction is a very important issue. As stated in Marquez, (the mercury project for instant messaging) face to face interaction is crucial since one is able to perceive and sense the other person’s emotions; which drive the interaction to “deindividuated.” I remember a specific period of my life, when I used to dedicate myself to my laptop as rapidly as I got back from school, in order to carry on my discussion with my friend. I would waste at least 6 hours a day alone in my room, in front of my computer, while all my family would be together in the living room. I then deduced that to a degree, technology may lead to solitude . It dissocializes an individual.