preview

Brian D. Johnson's Childhood Roots Of Narcissism

Good Essays

Since humans have roamed the planet, they have longed to leave a lasting impact on the world. Subsequently, they have become increasingly individualistic and self-absorbed as a direct result of their most innate desire. Actually, that would be the narcissists defense of their actions; someone who simply took a desire to spread good too far. A narcissist is unable to clearly analyze themselves or their actions. Furthermore, a narcissist will go to great lengths to convince themselves that their viewpoint is correct, and feel threatened by anyone who holds a different viewpoint (Myers 629). Narcissism is a highly complex personality disorder, and is difficult for one to fully understand until they have become a living victim of the daily life of a narcissist. In 2011, my father suddenly vanished one morning, leaving nothing but a note on the table addressed to my mother. The note explained that he was …show more content…

The narcissist’s inability to foster a healthy relationship often starts in their childhood. In Brian D. Johnson, Ph.D.’s article, Childhood Roots of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, he explains how “children need to develop healthy, lasting levels of self-esteem to be able to protect and care for themselves while caring about others” (Johnson). A person can’t give what they don’t have, and in my father’s case, he was deprived of love and security from a very early age. He would tell me stories of his childhood where his father would go into a rage and beat him with a belt, or how his mother had multiple affairs, and there were various men that came and went from his house throughout his childhood. Of course, my father’s childhood traumas are no excuse for his reckless and cruel behavior in adulthood, however it helps to explain how he got to this point in

Get Access