As I open the door and enter into my house after a long day of school, I sit down on the couch, all the sudden I hear the door open again, my mom walks in and exclaims “pack your bags we’re going to Lake Winnipesaukee”. My extended family begins the journey up there as well. Everyone packs a bags into the car and we are off to spend the week up on the lake.
As the sun set on the lake, the lightly dimmed room was engulfed in the aroma of turkey, my family started to filter in. Everyone pulled up a chair and sat down, while quiet chatter began. After everyone was seated and had begun eating, this is what family is all about crossed my mind. Ensuing dinner we all began to discuss our memories of my late grandfather. Everyone one in my family recounted their favorite memory with him. From waterskiing, hiking, skiing, swimming, or even grabbing a beer at a local bar. Most of these memories had an experience that had something to do with the lake. The lake seemed to bring our family together it acted as the unifying piece that everyone had in common. Even in a depressed atmosphere every once in awhile there would be laughter and smiles.
As long as I can remember, these family dinners have been a frequent occurrence in my life. Family dinner is not always about staying up to date with everyone. It is a place to get advice and to learn how to tackle a new obstacle in life. Sure, it is a good site to get updates in everybody's life, but I value the advice given. For example, my uncle has told me to “keep my legs tucked in, lean back and sit in the water to let the boat pull you up”. This advice helped me eventually get up on one water ski. The lake has been one of the most important aspects of my life and it has helped me grow as a person, learning values and gaining advice through family time spent near the lake. Looking back at all my times spent on the lake with my family and extended family it is only then I realize how important it was to my development as a person. Also looking back I notice that I have a close relationship with my cousins, aunts and uncles which I attribute to spending time at lake.
After the passing of my grandfather, my grandmother had a lot of trouble adapting to life by herself. So my
Family is one of the most important relationships that an individual will encounter in his/her lifetime. I have often times heard the saying “blood is thicker than water” and I do agree that this quote is truthful. Many families share the same blood and the connection is very deep. Even families that do not share the same blood have deep connections that make them family. Family can be immediate or distant and can originate in many shapes or forms. In this paper I will observe my personal, immediate family and share some characteristic as well as describe in what way it relates to the family systems that we have encountered in this class until this point.
I walked down the path to our dock with a little cooler in hand. My grandpa walked behind me, the soft sound of his feet padded on the ground. The lake was beautiful. Everything around the lake stood
Directly in the middle of the large green lake house is a family room. The room has two dark blue couches and the floor has bean bags scattered all over; all of the seats provide us with enough space to fit my grandparents, aunts, uncles, parents, siblings, and cousins all in one room. Whenever families get bigger they start to drift apart because everyone has so much going on. All of my family lives less than fifteen minutes away from me, but sometimes we all get so caught up in our own lives that we forget how important it is to spend time with each other. This family room is our anchor; It provides us with a place where we can all forget about the little things in our lives and focus on what matters, family. Some of my best memories of the lake aren’t even about the lake, but instead the memories
Waiting at the bach I wait for the family to turn up. The sun is shining on the lake and reflecting back, with the gorgeous different greens in the background. I think to myself on how great and peaceful this holiday is going to be. As the siblings turn up it becomes more exciting and eventful. All the plans of what we are going to do, get thrown around, everyone is smiling with enjoyment and laughter. Butterflies in my stomach are going crazy, flying everywhere, I stop and wonder where dad could be but then I think ‘oh, he’s probably just stopped for some food on the way down’.
“Family” is a bit of a weird word for me. It is portrayed as so fundamentally important, “Your family is always there for you.” Movies and televisions shows spin stories about love, about fighting but always making up in the end, about unwavering support and caring. When it’s time to give thanks, be it in a speech or a written blurb, people always thank their families. I did when I was a little kid and had to write little biographies for shows, but that hasn’t happened in a long time. I was one of the only (if not the only) people in my graduating class to not mention their family in their senior thanks. During my church “Coming of Age” program I was the only one who didn’t list family as one of the most important things in my life, and my mother noticed. She was upset. My father doesn’t understand why I don’t go to my aunt or grandparents when I need a favor. “They’re your family!” That’s a loaded phrase.
Excite: “I want you to be better”, those are the words my brother told me after I told him I wanted to be like him. Despite those words being used in every movie it’s something that stuck with me. My brother has taught me so much over the years, he is the person I look up to the most, I’ve learned from his mistakes, and learn from his accomplishments, right or wrong, I’ve tried to be like him.
For all my life my family has been very close. My mother’s family has always been close by and we have always celebrated every holiday together, spent birthdays and we always got together to eat dinner. Even though my father’s side of the family lives scattered throughout the country we always found times to travel and see each other. We did not see each other on holidays except for Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday because it is the one time of the year I get to spend with my entire family. I always love the craziness and even though my father hates cooking for forty people he does it because it is so important to my family. He knows the only thing that matters is our family is all there and it brings us all closer for that one time of the year. My family on paper seems happy and perfect but it is not. My family has had stressful times with illness and deaths and when people thought it would tear us apart it did not it brought us all closer.
Growing up, I was always been recognized as the shy child. At family events, I would be too afraid to have a conversation with my own uncle, so instead I would hide by my parents and avoid communicating with anyone at all costs. My sister is the loud one, she has always been outgoing and I loved to utilize that as an excuse to not address or express my thoughts and opinions. My dad soon realized that I sincerely hated meeting new people, having conversations, and making friends. He would constantly try his best to force me to obtain more confidence with people by making me order my own food, encouraging me ask other people questions, and continuously try to push me out of my comfort zone. This continued up through middle school, I had only
A home is a place where you have lived with your family for so long that it has, in a sense, become a part of you. It can be a structure, a neighborhood, a state or a country. In my case, when I think of home, I initially think of a building, my house. My home, however, is much more than just a house to me. It is also the place where I am always sure to find those I love most, my family. In a generation where there are so many broken homes, I am fortunate to live with and be raised by two parents, who still love each other. I have two older sisters, Sabreena and Trinity, and a dog, a poodle named Puffs. I live in a quaint, four bedroom house in a subdivision called Steeplechase in Avondale, Louisiana. My house is a place of safety and refuge. My neighborhood is full of friendly, familiar faces. I have been smiling, waiving and occasionally talking to these friends and acquaintances since we moved here when I was just two years old. Growing up in this environment has, I’m sure, contributed to certain character and personality traits, which have made me who I am today. I am ultimately a trusting individual, who is both friendly and hospitable.
When I was 16 years old me and my family moved from America to Europe. We wanted to start a new life away from the troubles we encountered in our town. We constantly had overdue bills, not enough food, or so little money we could barely get by. We didn’t know if we could live in this torture area much longer. We had plenty of euros. I think we had like 10,000 or something. We originally had family there who would send us the euros as gifts, then we became collectors. We all wanted to live in Paris, France. My Grandmama lived there with my Auntie Sage and her children. They didn’t know we were moving there it was their Christmas surprise. We were almost done packing when we forgot about my cat , Daise. “Daise, Daise, here kitty cat” I
The summer with Nana went by really fast. I thought it couldn’t go any faster until I met Emma. Nana took me over to her house, which was a few houses down. We both share many of the same interests and love to play together. On the day we meet we both knew right away that we would be great friends.
The Following day, We had finally made it! We were in a nice warm place and we were right on the beach. I quickly got out of the car and made a break for the beach house and opened the door to the house. The inside was homey and modern. I quickly went outside to get my stuff just at the same time that my cousins arrived. All 6 of them burst
I have always been obsessed with advertisements and food ever since I was little. For instance, when I was younger, I used to study the way the subway commercial man pronounced, “Subway eat fresh.” Also, I was fascinated with New York because I knew that it was packed full of ads and delicious foods. So, my sweet, down-to-earth mom, my prissy half-sister, and I took a family vacation to New York to visit my aunt and uncle and to explore. My dad could not make the trip to New York because he could not take vacation time from his job. My aunt designed cereal boxes for major cereal companies, and my uncle was the producer for all Mercedes –Benz commercials and some Tic-tac commercials. Knowing I would be spending a week in an ad filled city
It was a sunny Friday afternoon in late August, my family and I were getting ready for my brother 's graduation. He was graduating from medical school, it had been a dream of his to become a doctor since the age of ten. As we rode in my parent 's car, I watched the smiles on my parents face appear, the wrinkles vanish and hopes of escaping their past. I heard my brother hum his favorite song as he always did when he was nervous. I watched the baby eagles fly away, through the window, leaving their mothers, transitioning into adulthood. Gazing at my brother it reminded me of when he was born. It was a beautiful sunny day here in Toronto, in the month of may. I was six years old, I had been woken up by grandma “ Sophia wake up” she called. I
I hopped in line to get on the go cart’s at Blackthorn Family Resort in the Catskills. My mom’s whole family went to this resort this year. It was only the second day but, I was so bored.