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Gender And Social Institutions And The Construction Of Masculinities

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People are hardly given the opportunity to reach their full potential due to a predisposed destiny. Far before birth, society must label humans female or male and only female or male. Specific clothing, bottles, and toys are items used to enforce the baby’s gender. Boys are trained to transform into serious, independent, strong, sports-loving men. Boys are taught to mask emotions, especially sadness. Boys are repeatedly reminded that a man never cries. On the other hand, girls are taught to become dependent, weak, quiet, and affectionate women. Girls are bombarded with pink toys that do not challenge their imagination, but encourage housekeeping and spending habits. Reaching full potential becomes skewed as constant societal changes …show more content…

Initiating this expected gesture showcased that the person was indeed raised in an educated family. After greeting everyone, I was told to watch over the younger children while the adults enjoyed themselves. Women are typically perceived as the care givers in most to all cultures. In the Mexican culture women are taught, at a very young age, to behave like an adult around younger children by caring for them.
I grew up to be the only female out of seven boys in my age group. The definition of being a feminine girl was not a priority as a child all I wanted was to play and have fun. It was a bittersweet experience because when I wore jeans/shorts I could run around like them. However, the moment I was forced to wear a dress/skirt, I had to sit and watch. The only two social groups available for me to mingle with were: mothers or children. On top of caring for children my age, I was expected to offer my time to help make food, serve it, and clean up all while the boys got to play. “Women are supposed to know how to cook, clean, and care for their children.” I have had my parents tell me that once I learn how to properly clean and cook I will be ready for marriage. They mean it in a funny way, but there is some truth to it. For these reasons, young girls are taught by their mothers to always help around and be feminine.
In my family, it is the women that enforce these and more expectations on their daughters. I

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