Good Morning! So to start with, I would just like to ask you a question. Have you ever feel like a walking stress? Going to school with a messy hair and having three bags with you, one at the back and the other two under your eyes. Are your stress levels too high that you feel like your stressors will be with you forever and say, “till death do us part”? Or are you that stressful to the point that you already blamed the world for all the stress coming at you? Sometimes we might feel that the weight of the world is on our shoulders, but we must be strong because truth is, stress will always be there with us; it is like our lifetime partner. Contrary to what others think, stress can also be good because it is the body’s response to a demand …show more content…
Don’t beat yourself too much over a stressful thing; but still, make sure to keep in mind your priorities in life. Have some time for yourself and take a break from all the stressors, because the effects of stress can be beyond our knowledge; we don’t know when it could develop as a serious mental disorder such as depression and anxiety. Some of you here may be a “strong and independent woman”, taking all the stress and letting yourself to be drowned with the overflowing problems and stressors. But there will always be a moment where you can’t take all the hardships, and you feel like you needed someone to be there for you even without saying a word. Getting social support is another way to level down stress. Spend some quality time with the person who will willingly listen to you. Don’t ever think that you will look weak and become a burden if you tell all your stress about life to someone, because connecting to others can help you improve your resiliency to the …show more content…
By just following the simple tips on managing stress, you can reduce the levels of stress in your life, especially as a student. I know that there are times where the stressors are too much to handle, but always bear in mind that you are greater than these things. You have the privilege and choice whether to be negatively or positively affected by it. Stressors are like the locks on our door to success, each of us have different ways on opening these locks. Some may break it or just let it locked up since the key is hard to find. Even so, the best thing to do here is to find a solution, the key that will fit just right into the lock. It may be difficult to find the right key but believe me, it will be worth it. You will learn a lot of things and realize something that is yet unknown to you. If you will look back to the years that passed, in your 16 or 17 years of existence, you will realize how many stressful situations you have coped up with. “Kung nakayanan mo noon, kayanin mo rin ngayon,” because stressors are yet to
I lived a relatively stress-free environment until I went off to college. I started to meet people that grew up in a rough childhood and I started to realize how lucky I was. This realization paired up with one of the most difficult quarters I had experience so far. The stress from school and this realization that so many of my fellow peers had experienced such a difficult upbringing caused me to have an anxiety attack for about a week. Luckily I live with two of my closest friends who were able to pick up on the fact that I was not acting myself and they helped me realize what was going on. The stress caused me to overthink everything with in turn only lead to more stress. I started to sleep less, eat less and that also only caused more stress. I vividly remember a time during that week when my roommate sat me down and said she wanted to show me something that could help relax me. She lead me through a guided meditation. At first I was skeptical. I had no idea how a simple exercise was going to help me but to my surprise it really did! Just by focusing on my breathing and shutting my mind off for a few minutes I was alleviated of my stress. Kelly McGonigal’s video on how to make stress your friend gave me a light of insight on how I can combat a situation like this in the future. She asked the audience to “view stress as a positive thing rather than a negative thing” and just by
As a Richland Collegiate High School student, I am always attacked by stressors in my academic life. The stress provoked by school-related objects often bled into my home and social life. It created an unhealthy environment where I felt weighed down by the stress. Due to the stress, I often lost my appetite and started sleeping less. My mother worried that I was depressed or that I was developing an eating disorder, but I just did not know how to pick myself up and just get things done. I lacked motivation, self-control, and a healthy balance of work and relaxation. Throughout the course, I have been picking up on some of the strategies I can use to help alleviate my stress and subsequently improve other aspects of my life.
Kelly McGonigal discusses the importance of viewing stress as positive, as opposed to negative, by detailing three specific studies and findings about stress. In the first study, it was discovered that people with a significant amount of stress had a higher mortality rate; however, this was only statistically significant if the subject viewed stress as harmful. If the overly-stressed subject didn’t view stress as harmful, they were actually at the lowest risk of dying, even compared to those with a minimal amount. Therefore, it is important to change a person’s perspective of stress. In particular, McGonigal emphasizes that stress is important for a person’s body: it energizes and prepares them to meet whatever challenge they are facing. Furthermore, it helps the blood vessels remain relaxed, thereby allowing the heart to remain healthy.
Stress is a main aspect of the human condition, because everyone goes through a daily amount of stress, whether the problems come from school, family, even physical activities. The first time I felt a load of stress was earlier this year in fact, on a Thursday in September. I had many assignments due that day, and had a football game for band later as well. There was a reading check for “WHAP”, and the second I had seen the vocab and multiple choice questions my stomach started churning. There was sweat running down my face.... The notes I had took were horrendous, the thought of my French IP Practices the next period did not help either. Even though the day had finished and I did not have to stress over school anymore,
Everyone experiences stress in a different way: some shut down while others cry or become frustrated. Moreover, although a instinctual necessity, too much stress can definitely cause problems for one’s physical or psychological well-being. When I get too stressed, for example, my immune system drops which causes me to get sick sometimes even three times in a month. Other times, I just have to take breaks from my responsibilities to prevent myself from breaking down or becoming so exhausted that I cannot finish the task at
Stress is your body’s way of responding to any kind of demand; it can be caused by both good and bad experiences.
I agree with Kelly McGonigal, not because whatever she said, is true about stress, but I feel that situation in my life. As she said that stress can be the healthier and gives you joy and meaning of a life. For example, I am not sure that this has been with me since I born, but I need stress in order to survive, and studying well because if I don’t have stress than I feel like helpless, or shiftless. Likewise, people need to distinguish between the good and bad stress before looking the result of it. Similarly, this topic is like “ see and think always right for better opportunities and for being a better
Our book describes stress as “any circumstances that threaten or are perceived to threaten one’s well-being and tax one’s coping ability” (Weiten, 2014). Stress is not necessarily a traumatic, life destroying event. It can be as simple a small change in one’s daily schedule. People will have multiple stresses throughout their lifetime. Some will be little and daily, but overtime these add up and can affect you in many ways. Stress can be positive or negative and can take many forms; a few being frustration, internal conflict, change, and pressure. All of which make almost a daily appearance in my life (Weiten, 2014).
Some ways that I can decrease the stressors that come from these situations are to get my work done early and make sure I don’t forget to eat like I sometimes do when I am studying and to rely more on my friends to help me throughout the day.
In the Movie “Aged out” shows a young woman by the name of Keely Lopez entering the foster care system. Her parents died of drug abuse and social diseases. Sometime later she entered the foster care and grew up in a residential program. At the age of 18 she was what was named “aged out” where she excited the program and ended up living independent in an apartment. Her live took a turn for the worse, she lost her job, mounting bills and the birth of a daughter.
Life is full of deadlines, expectations, and events, whether in great magnitude or not, these things in life cause stress. Human bodies are made to experience stress and react to it. However, there’s a difference between a healthy amount of stress, aka Acute stress; used in “fight or flight” situations, and unhealthy stress, aka Chronic stress- Having so much stress that if not dealt with, leads to various health problems. In a survey done by the American Psychological Association in 2011, more than half (53%) of the population of adults in the United States said that they have had personal health problems due to high stress. Chronic Stress is no simple
General Purpose: To inform the audience about the cause, affect and ways to manage stress.
Another way one can manage stress is through breathing control and meditation. Breathing control includes the “take ten deep breaths” attempt to managing stress. Breathing helps one to calm themselves, and to think more
There are many ways to reduce or handle stress in your life. The easiest and one of the healthiest antidotes for stress is laughter. Just smiling helps because it releases blood flow to the brain and endorphins are released. (4.) This gives a sense of well being. Some other simple techniques are doing uninterrupted breathing. Another stressor is lack of sleep. Therefore break the stress-sleeplessness cycle. You can help relieve your sleep problem by developing a daily sleep routine and don’t drink alcohol or caffeine before bed. Another thing is to reserve your bedroom for sleeping and sex only. (4.) Writing down your feeling in a diary may help relieve emotional stress. (4.)
“Stress is a silent disease” (Doctor Hobel). Over the years, stress has played a major rule in a large majority of people’s lives throughout the United States. When thought about, it is said to be extremely surprising as to how many people really have stress in each individual’s life. People do not consider what the reasons are for the feelings and emotions they experience. There are all different types of stress, and stress can do a lot to a person. Each person also handles stress in a different way. Some can handle more than others, because every single person’s body works in a different way. Stress has also been told to cause people to act out of character (Dr. David Posen). They often do not act the way they usually would while under