Faith and Roses
Love can be a strange and wonderful thing. Some will have their first kiss at the end of elementary school, and some will only start dating once their adults. Some can fall for a childhood friend they knew all their life, and some will be awe-struck by a stranger passing by. Some will marry their high school sweet heart, while some others settle down much later in life. To say love is complicated is an understatement, and trying to understand it can by quite puzzling. Luckily, there are always people who have firsthand experience willing to share a snippet of their wisdom. Both Robert Herrick and Barbara Greenberg try to caution naïve virgins about love in “To the Virgins, to Make Much of Time” and “The Faithful Wife” respectfully. While one poem incites young people to make the most of their freedom, the other warns of the dangers of marrying too quickly. Both works use a number of various techniques and also share a few in common.
Other than sharing the general theme of love, both poems take it upon themselves to advise young lovers of risks they taking by marrying early. Even though the poems have an overall similar message, they deliver it in completely different ways. “To the Virgins, to Make Much of Time” strongly suggests the virgins have fun and explore while they are still capable. Herrick explicitly stats so with his opening verse: “Gather ye rose buds while ye may,” In this case the rose buds are opportunities ripe for picking, however one must be inclined to act fast because they will not stay that way forever. The author encourages the virgins to pick the rose buds, in this case the opportunities, while they can, before old age prevents them from doing so. Not only that, but Herrick dedicates a whole two strophes, half the poem, to the passing of time. By doing so, the author greatly emphasises how quick time can go by, and a person’s youth with it. On the other hand, “The Faithful Wife” is a poem solely based on the question “What of?” The speaker in the poem begins said poem with a completely hypothetical statement: If she were to have a lover. This immediately implies that the speaker is in a rather rocky marriage. As she goes on and adds more and more detail to her
“The most important thing in the world is family and love,” a self-explanatory quote from John Wooden . In modern day, many people could say that the quote is true. Sometimes even, people may focus on love too much, that the “journey” of looking for love surrounds everyday of their lives, all the time. If so, it takes away from the family life, and could be considered somewhat dangerous. This is not only true in the real world, but also in literature about a couple of teens that fall in love.
Love is a confusing thing. Many people confuse its connotation and generally never truly understand what it means. From reading “A&P” and “Araby” and understanding how the characters develop throughout the stories, there is a significant difference of what we portray love to be compared to what it actually is. Throughout both stories, both protagonists thought they understood love, but little did they know that they were in for a rude awakening. Both “A&P” and “Araby” go about depicting love in an almost similar way. However, although both stories entail jubilant love amongst the youth, they both incorporate an epiphany of reality in which both protagonists did not foresee.
What does love have to do with sex? Sex is always considered a taboo and controversial topic, whereas most think they know something about love, and they’re more than willing to give others “unwanted” free advice. However, very few people talk about both in depth together. “Last Night” by Sharon Olds and “Seniors” by Alberto Rios cover a variety of topics, but most importantly they both cover love and sex. More specifically, they cover both what the male and female thoughts are about sex, what their expectations are during the act, and where love comes into play. Both speakers are memorializing their past experiences, the experiences between the two are exceedingly different. Both poems have very similar intentions,
Laura Kipnis’s “Against Love”, and Raymond Carver’s “What We Talk about When We Talk about Love” ,brings up the issue of what is the definition of love and is love what we think it is. Love has changed in comparison to what it once was, and we now loosely use the term, but what does it truly mean, and why do we buy in to it. Kipnis’s essay develops the idea that this “mature love” is when someone can love and be loved, and she takes the position that this does not happen. Although Kipnis believes mature love is neither a realistic expectation nor a good thing to have, I claim that the idea of mature love is not bogus, because even though it is rare to find, and may even take a few tries, I believe it is possible for people to have this mature love. Unlike Kipnis too, I believe mature love can take on different forms, and doesn’t have to just be so black and white like Kipnis explains it as.
Dark clouds covered the sky like water covering the ocean. Boom! Thunder roared in the distance. Drip! Drip! Drip! Rain ferociously banged against the ground. The atmosphere was a quite mouse except for the rain. Clouds covered the stars, but the moon summoned a faint beam of light down on the forest. Fire raged in the rose’s head. The male rose wanted freedom from the field and to run like a human. However, while he was wishing that, NASA reported an extremely giant asteroid heading towards Colorado Springs in 3 days. An hour later, Jhonny Appleseed was coming to plant a small apple plant when suddenly the male rose stretched out his roots and using the energy of the soil; he pulled the apple plant out of the pot and threw the plant out
Once Jean Farris said, “And they lived happily (aside from a few normal disagreements, misunderstandings, pouts, silent treatments, and unexpected calamities) ever after”(Jean). Many can relate to Farris’s quote as falling in love is sometimes accidental, but staying in love is a choice that is made. A successful relationship may be the product of an almost fairy tale like romance. However, after tying the knot, hard work and commitment are needed from both sides to solidify the relationship in order to achieve the ‘happily ever after’. Throughout human civilization expressing love has generated countless literature and intellectual works in every language and culture known. While many of these works will come to rejoice love, others will address it with resentment and bitterness. In her poem “Cinderella”, Anne Sexton offers us a different version of the traditional Cinderella story. Sexton uses sarcasm and paradox through her poem arguing the sham of happily ever after as portrayed in certain fairy-tales stories and how it always has been represented through media. On the other hand, Lydia Davis’s short story, “Break It Down” narrates the dilemma of a man who is trying to break down the cost of eight days of love that costed him almost $1000 by the end of his affair, in a way, he was trying to question if love is a wise investment or if it is possible to put a price tag on love. Sexton’s “Cinderella” lays out a helpful framework for understanding instances of
The poem I chose for this assignment is titled ‘The Rose’. The author’s name is unknown, but s/he goes by the pseudonym 'jquill89' online. The poem is very graphic and visual, about the narrator's experience with the rose. Although the rose is probably supposed to symbolize a greater theme in the poem, it’s up to the reader to decide what it is. I think the rose is meant to symbolize a relationship, or a past love the narrator had. The tone of the narrator leads me to believe that ‘the rose’ is a metaphor for the narrators past relationship. The way I read the poem, it seemed that the narrator went from being very lively and passionate
Prince Charming, Romeo Montague, and Edward Cullen—all create a hopeful image in a young girl’s mind of finding her own fairytale prince and have a happy ending. However, can a person really spend the rest of his or her life with the same person? Sometimes, the qualities that seem appealing at first can turn traitors when the bond lasts long term. Marriage—the official name given to the life-long relationship two people choose to go into—provokes deep-thinking. Though people have confidence in their relationship, they are often proven wrong. A love-based marriage should not present an option when choosing a life partner. Define love. A feeling? A psychological problem? An illusion, perhaps? The cycle goes on: People get married, divorced,
The Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton is a book that gave the word “love” many other meanings, such as impossible, meaningless and incomplete. There were many unbearable obstacles that Countess Ellen Olenska, one of the main characters, had to face because of love. She was treated badly by many people and always longed for love but never obtained it. With everyone cursing her, betraying her and hurting her, there was one person who was always there for her. Newland Archer wasn’t only sympathetic towards her; he also began to fall in love with her. The love she always wanted. He was the man who truly cared for her and always helped her make decisions. Out of all the selfish people in New York who
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Rose sighed, “Thanks for seeing us. I realize you didn’t have to. If you hear anything that may be useful, here’s my number,” she said, handing her the card. “You can call me any time, day or night. I’m going to search a few other places before I leave the city. Maybe something will turn up.”
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