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Marriage Theory In Marriage Counseling

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In Marriage Counseling: A Christian Approach to Counseling Couples Everett Worthington shares that individuals achieve meaning in life through intimate relation-ships (with God and with humans) and through demonstrating to themselves that they can effect desired outcomes in work and relationships (called effectance). Intimacy and effectance are exercised most fully in marriage and family life and in life in the church body. However, intimacy and effectance are exercised in different ways at different times in the life cycle. Development theories can be described within two categories which are the Stage and Transition theories. Stage theories gives us an idea of what happens across a long period of time. Transition theories help us understand what hap-pens as we move from one stage to the next. Stages and Transitions; Its important to recognize that stages might not happen as outlined and variances in ages occur. Some people may not experience every as-pect of each stage or may later learn important lessons from previous stages after pass-ing through them. As individuals transition from singleness into relationships, marriage or cohabita-tion, they enter a stage of experiencing many new exciting and sometimes challenging hurdles. This may happen after high school or college graduation usually around 20-25 Bevel 2 years of age. A couple will enjoy the “honeymoon period” where one person will still put aside his or her feelings to maintain

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