How did it feel? Nice, or strange, or both? A little fear step in? Your ego came rampaging in with the thought they must think I am strange, or crazy, or did I turn the oven off, or I wish I fixed my hair, or am I after them, or are they after me, or what are they thinking about me, I hope they don’t think I am gay, or ….
Before all this thinking, when things were calm, do you think you could call it love?
Did you feel a kinship, a connection? An understanding that here at this time are two souls meeting and realizing they have some shit in common.
Can we respect that? Feel a compassion for each other? A respect that he or she is going through all the same stuff I am going through?
Appreciate that, trust them and drop the walls, and let the
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It makes you smile.
People say there are many meanings and types of love. I am sure there is only one real love. Everything else is everything else. Distant seconds. The same love you can feel for a pet is the same love you can feel for a mate. Just don’t let any of our earthly human ego thoughts such as jealousy, possessiveness, guilt, greed, mistrust, fear, etc. - in to destroy the love.
My theory is that is why puppies and babies are so easy to fall in love with. We can trust them to not have any ulterior motives. My dog Max isn’t looking cute so he can get me to do something for him. And the baby is just being himself. He is too fresh to need conditions.
If we could see life through a baby. Maybe that’s why all babies are beautiful, even the ones that aren’t. They are starting with a clean slate, and feeling loved unconditionally.
The Big
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I am talking about the big love that we can have for one another and everything we become aware of. A joy to be able to see it and experience it. The blessing and thankfulness that brings it to our awareness. A respect for it. And a respect for what is inside of it. For the same thing is inside of you. The same thing that created it created you and you are made up of the same material. That is at the sub-atomic level. Everything is energy – little atoms spinning around so fast as to appear solid. That goes for all material including your
Personal identity is essential in the human experience. Identity is complex and can be broken down into two main groups: introspective identity, and bodily identity. Introspective identity is based off of the groups, mentalities, or beliefs that you align yourself with, and bodily identity is based off of the physical side of yourself. Whether physical or introspective, your identity impacts every action you take. Whether choices ranging from what colors you prefer to which college you want to attend are primarily based off of your introspective identity, which is a combination of both memory and consciousness, physical identity impacts how others perceive you. Consciousness is mainly the awareness of bodily identity as well as continuous introspective identify, while memory is awareness of introspective identity. These two different facets of identity are imperative in the distinction between bodily identity and introspective identity. In means of personal identity introspective identity (which is evident in memory), is essential, while bodily identity (based partially in consciousness) has less credit.
It didn’t take long before my nervousness and apprehensive mental state fled. Their group solidarity was pretty evident with a few short minutes of meeting them. It felt like home, like what I was a part of when I was still an
Love comes in numerous ways and can be expressed in countless fashions. Love is powerful, has a meaning, and is capable of eclipsing time all due to the human psyche. One can love anything from a family member, to a fictional character in a TV show, or even an inanimate object. The fluidity of love is what makes it so difficult to understand if one is “in love” or has ever experienced love. Experiences often mold a person’s perspective on what love truly is. Love is not an emotion, but rather a condition of the mind that cause one to act in ways that are uncharacteristic. It can be blinding, obsessive, and pure, depending on the reciprocation of the love. Since love is an abstract concept, one simply cannot measure how much love they have received or given alike. Although the human brain can perceive and interpret other’s actions or words as signs of love and care, in which the mind processes this into the mental psyche that is love.
Their innocence is captivating. Meeting a person for the first time will take awhile before you get used to them, trusting them. People are imperfect and they commit mistakes that have hurt others. We are just cautious because we don’t want them to hurt us. When it comes to babies, you don’t have to be cautious.
Brooks went into detail on the process of a fetus growth and instant bonding traits after birth. Babies are able to imitate at birth and inherit a great amount of knowledge that are past down in genetics, religion, and culture. Although babies are so cute and cuddly at birth, it can be frustrating to take care of an infant at times. “Harold controlled the hours of her sleep, the span of her attention, the time she could shower, rest, or go to the bathroom” (Brooks, 35). Mothers are becoming physically and mentally exhausted by their infant’s ability to dominate their world and change mother’s personalities.
My family shaped my personal and social identity at a micro level by being the first set of influencers the moment I was born. My personal identity is significantly influenced by my family through the approach that my parents have taken to raise and nurture me. The results of my parents raising me is shown through the behaviour and beliefs that I embody. For example, because of my family I have always been aware that there is a God. In consequence, my compliant behaviour towards religion has already been constructed at a young age. Moreover, my social identity’s structure was shaped by my family through they way they have socially interacted with me. My micro level interactions with my family throughout time has created a deeply rooted influence within me. The influence that my family has had on my social identity is demonstrated in the way that I respond in certain social situations. For example, through behavioural observation as a child I have learned not to speak back to my parents when they are lecturing me.
on for decades. Some of us have felt love, and some of us have been in love. But
Have you ever been in love? If so I can relate. The first time I met my husband I felt it was "love at
Through life, people experience many kinds of love. Many people often believe they love someone, when they actually do not because they may not know what the word means. As much as we want to understand love, it is still simply indescribable. As C.S. Lewis tries to explain it in his book, The Four Loves, it is still a mystery as to what love truly means. I believe in order to know what love means, one must experience it. It is quite true that went two individuals are in love with each other, they know it and can feel it. No matter how much love is studied and looked at, every individual must experience it to understand it. Along with this love lies circumstances which lead
One can love a sister, a brother, a mother, a father, grandparents, uncles and aunts, cousins and friends, strangers, pets, the sunlight on a warm evening, reflecting through a prism, held by fishing line stuck to a little suction cup to a dusty window. You can love food from cake to roast beef, even those tiny individual candy bars that are never enough but just give you a taste of chocolate before you pop in the second one. One is able to love the feeling of carpet between toes or the tension in a hammocks string when you lay in that 'u' position swinging delightfully with each motion of your body. We can declare love for sounds coming from a stereo, love for that particular sound wave in coordination with other
A person’s identity is shaped by many different aspects. Family, culture, friends, personal interests and surrounding environments are all factors that tend to help shape a person’s identity. Some factors may have more of an influence than others and some may not have any influence at all. As a person grows up in a family, they are influenced by many aspects of their life. Family and culture may influence a person’s sense of responsibilities, ethics and morals, tastes in music, humor and sports, and many other aspects of life. Friends and surrounding environments may influence a person’s taste in clothing, music, speech, and social activities. Personal interests are what truly set individuals apart. An individual is not a puppet
The infant’s instinctive drive is both to survive and to satisfy their needs in relation to a loving, nurturing ‘object’ or person, usually the mother or central figure.
Everybody has an identity, it makes them individual and unique, and it defines who you are as a person. This project about my identity showed me what makes me unique. I would have never known how much my friends mean to me or how my identities connect with each other. I have three identities that make me who I am, cultural, personal, and social. A specific quality that covers my cultural identity is being Czechoslovakian. Both sides of my family have at least a part of Czech in them. My great-grandparents are from Czech Republic and my grandpa was the first generation in America, he was born in Ohio. This is very important because I have always identified as Czech and it is a big part of me, as I am so interested in ancestry. For my personal identity, the biggest part is my personality, being loud and outgoing, has always been important to me. The reason being, it is how people view me. A lot of people know me as the loud person or the person who talks a lot. That is meaningful to me considering I like people to view me in a certain way The last identity, social, is one of the most important to me because it involves my friends, and through this project, I learned how vital they really are to my social identity. I realized that I have a good amount of friends in this project. It is nice to have people as a support system and to relate with. These qualities show that I value being loud and outgoing. It also says that I value my family and they are a big part of life. The last one, social, ties in with the first one because it shows I am outgoing and friendly.
when we saw a few other people we knew. " Hey, come over here!" I
Social identity theory, it is a person’s sense that is based around the group they are in, either by their personal identity or with different kinds of social identities. That is, people will try to improve their own image of themselves. The theory was proposed by Henri Tajfel. People can increase their self-esteem by both their own achievement and interaction with a successful group of people. This shows the importance of social belonging. This theory is based around three mental processes, social categorization, social identification and social comparison.