Everyone enters the world with a hole in their hearts that parents fill temporarily in the beginning; however, the void expands as the child grows and becomes independent of the parents. So how can the emptiness be satisfied? Friends are the simple, safe answer, but not everyone has that choice. Encouraged by an extroverted society, people today seek other’s attentions and friendship to complete them. But what is a friend? A true friend is someone who faces the world side by side with you, pushes and encourages you to be your best self. The friendship may start with something simple like football or tv shows but lead to deeper, more meaningful conversations. The initial relationship between two individuals over a shared activity can lead to true friendship when they connect over shared truths. For example, my best friend and I bonded at one of our high school football games when we both stood at one corner of the student section and agreed it was too noisy and overwhelming. Later at school, we discussed tv shows, books, and social awkwardness. These conversations led to sharing personal experiences and theological beliefs; now, we share anything and everything without fearing judgement. Additionally, we count on receiving honest advice. Together, we faced our senior year side by side.
Some people think they choose their friends when, in reality, God blesses them to bring out the best qualities in each other. “They are, like all beauties, derived from Him, and then, in a
Friendship is one of the most valuable components in life. Friendship has the ability to change lives in a positive way. Friendship changes people’s views on life to a more positive outlook. “True friendship is when someone knows you better than yourself and takes a position in your best interests in a crisis. Friendship goes beyond sharing time together, and it is long lasting.” (Friends.com). As we spend a lot of time with our friends, friendship opens our minds to different ways of viewing the world. Unfortunately, sometimes strong barriers may be placed by those who see two people’s friendship as a threat; since people are influenced by their friends, friendship could make people question what
Friends is an American sitcom series that aired on NBC, from 1994 to 2004. The show has 10 seasons and 236 episodes with about 25 minutes each one. The series was nominated for 62 Primetime Emmy Awards and won six. The TV show was such a hit, that it influenced the Americans with the main characters catchphrases, ways of dressing, hairstyle, and other aspects. The series has six main characters, whose are Rachel Green, Monica Geller, Phoebe Buffay, Joey Tribbiani, Chandler Bing and Ross Geller.
From humanity comes friendship, but friendship may not be as one-dimensional and simplistic as the common person believes it to be- it may not stop at the surface level. In David Whyte’s book, Consolations: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words, he writes on friendship, exposing the true facets of an authentic friendship that oftentimes are overlooked by many people. In Whyte’s opinion, friendship is an eternal experience, or at least an experience in which people take part over an extended period of time. The need for continuous support and forgiveness from and for both parties in a friendship presupposes this prolonged temporality. Naturally, as friendships take constant conscious effort, they require interest
According to dosomething.org, “Over 3.2 million students are victims of bullying each year.” Everyone can be a bully at one point and they may not even know that they are bullying someone. Which means that our actions can speak louder than our words, and sometimes when our rude actions and mean words come together it’s not always a happy ending. In the end someone’s going to be hurt.
All throughout life we have friends. Most of them will change as the years go by, but a few will remain the same. The friends that change are usually the ones who have wronged us and the friends that stay the same are the ones who are true. True friendship lasts, false friendship fades.
"There is a sense in their friendship that by viewing one another's lives, they were better able to formulate their own futures. Each has been enriched by his ability to explore their thoughts and feelings together, and each has been enriched from experiences with the other's father” (Napierkowski 49). Pokot shows how friendship can help better people’s lives by being more mature as individuals for conflicts and encounters people must go through in life as people grow to be
The True Man must recognize who his real friends are. In order to do so, one must differentiate between the three types of philia love: “what is useful, what is pleasurable, and what is virtuous” (Aristotle). Unfortunately, “those who love one another because it is useful do not love one another because of who they are, but because of some good thing that comes to them from one another” (Aristotle). Today, it’s quite rare, at least in this community, to see virtuous friendships. The “what is useful” situation tends to occur primarily in teenagers. Someone may hang out with someone else only because their house is big, or they have season tickets for the Warriors.
Making never thought to be friends. I never thought in my wildest dreams that I would ever be friends with Julie. I have never seen her in 2 years and suddenly we're best friends. Goes when we never saw each other, she ran away, the carnival, and the movies.
Many believe friendship is one of the most important values in life, and that you need not be the same age, sex nor type to attain friendship. One of the most primary and discernable philosophies of friendship is “Don’t judge a book by its cover, it is what is inside that matters”. That means that if you don’t know them, don’t judge them. Yet, too often are we influenced by society, and become so biased to see the true beauty of friendship: You can be friends with anyone. Whether it is another person, an animal, or your imagination.
In order to get through life, we as humans require a form of partnership. While this could come from a sibling or parent, it commonly occurs in what we refer to as friends. Two friends share a bond of mutual affection that they demonstrate though their actions. This manifestation of companionship is vital to emotional growth. A best friend can also provide emotional support and encouragement in both difficult and successful times. Most, if not all people crave this type of fellowship. In order to select a friend, one must carefully consider a person's character. Therefore, in order to fit the description of a best friend, one must be thoughtful, encouraging, and kind.
A dictionary contains a definition of friendship somewhere in the F’s between the words “fear” and “Friday.” An encyclopedia supplies interesting facts on friendship. But all the definitions and facts do not convey what friendship is really all about. It cannot be understood through words or exaggerations. The only way to understand friendship is through experience. It is an experience that involves all the senses.
In many cases, friendship can be either a primary relationship in our life or a secondary in our life. Essayist, Anais Nin put it beautifully when she said, "Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born." Though some people who are natural loners are fairly happy without them, most
In life there are many changes that can cause a true friendship to go wary such as marriage, divorce, birth of children, new careers, and sickness. However, through each of those events the two must remember to keep the intimacy, the letting down of emotional barriers and the expression of innermost thoughts and feelings, “that which makes friendships thrive must be an enjoyable one” and to “always interact” (Karbo 3). Although psychologists continue to research the formation of friendships the great philosopher Aristotle knew exactly how friendships formed and how the lasted.
Do you have friends? Most likely, you answered yes, but I’m asking do you have “true friends”? I use quotes because my understanding of the general populous concludes me to believe people don’t have real honest, genuine, friends. These superficial friendships I speak of lead to a disastrous chaos, betrayal, and most importantly: a broken heart. Friends are those who look out for each other, those who will abort any personal objective for you at the drop of a hat. These aspects show a real friend, these aspects describe Rachel Stephenson.
If you have come out of a long relationship it is important to honor yourself, and any grieving you need to do. It can be tough when a relationship ends, especially a long term one or something that was forced on you, or you didn’t see it coming