I do. Two simple words that can completely change your life. Two words that you say when you are about to devote your life to someone. You promise to give them all your love, respect, care and trust. However, when you finally say those two final words you plan on it being to someone who adores you with every ounce of their body and soul, who would take a shot for you, someone who will be your hero. That is all you want someone to say “I do” back to you and make every promise you are making to them to you. However, after those final words are said you begin to see some flaws like over time your and your love begins to deteriorate. He starts to hurt you, hold you down, manipulate you, and you give in because it is your husband the man you …show more content…
On July 5, 1993, marital rape became a crime in all 50 states in the US under one section of the sexual offense codes. Eventually, the District of Columbia made no exemption in 20 states for marital rape in May, 2005. However, 30 states in the District of Columbia still have some exemptions for marital rape. Although many countries are reaching the knowledge of knowing there is something wrong with it, India has no laws against and It is even worse there. Each victim experiences higher levels of physical injury and longer lasting trauma. Wives are reported to be raped several more times in comparison to stranger rape. 16% of the wives that are raped by their significant other report it to the police (“Recognize Non Consensual Sexual Acts and How You Can Get Support”). There are reasons that women do not go to the police about the situation and that is their husband manipulates her into thinking she is not loving him or a god wife or that he is going to take the kids and leave. Some women are drugged as well by there husband so they will presume sex while they are unconcious. Being threatened, forced or just giving in are other ways of how a significant other can rape you (“Marital Rape”). However, there are people out there who believe that you can not be raped while married.
Although, rape is defined as “unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of
When asked to define the word rape, a number of responses may be given depending upon what country or state one lives in and if one is a male or female. According to Pandora’s Project.org, rape is defined as any sexual contact or penetration attained without consent; with physical force, intimidation, threat, trickery, or when the victim is mentally capacitated, physically or mentally impaired, asleep or unconscious; this includes due to voluntary or involuntary alcohol or drug consumption.
Of all the taunts and insults Tom Ross had thrown at his wife, and the acts he'd so far perpetrated in this 'pretend' rape, - the harsh slaps, throwing her like a rag-doll, welting her ass and thighs with the whip, tearing her expensive corset to shreds, and mockingly laughing when he violently fucked her mouth and forced her to choke on his cock; that was the one, if he'd had his wits about him, he would have immediately taken back. How could a loving husband ever enjoy the sight of his wife's tears, elicited by obvious mental and physical distress.
Rape can be defined as being unlawful and unconsented vaginal or anal penetration. The source of penetration varies and includes penetration by using the finger, penis, or objects and can be penetrated into the mouth or the anus. The American Heritage college dictionary definition of rape, page 740 is “a sexual act committed by force especially on a woman”.
Rape, as defined by the Uniform Crime Reporting Program in 2011, is “penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” This differs from the previous definition of rape, “first established in 1927, ‘the carnal knowledge of a female, forcibly and against her will.’ It thus included only forcible male penile
Although the definition of rape is narrower than the definition of sexual assault, both terms are used interchangeably here. Rape is defined as penetration by body parts or objects, whereas sexual assault includes other unwanted sexual contact. In both cases, the contact is happens without the consent of the victim, even if they are incapacitated by drugs or alcohol (Gray, 2014).
Sexual assault and rape are serious social and public health issues in the United States and throughout the rest of the world. In particular sexual assault on college campus are prevalent at an alarming rate and leaves serious effects on the victims. This essay will focus on statistics and the prevalence and effects amongst college students, through examining a number of reasons why women fail to report sexual assault and rape. This essay will also cover sexual assault prevention and things that can be done to mitigate the risk of becoming a victim to such matter.
“I felt his hands start to move down towards my shorts as if he was trying to unbutton them or pull them off. I was still crying at this point and felt so scared that I couldn't move” (Hummer, 1989). These were the words said by a freshman away at college after she had been sexual assaulted. From the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National network, statistics show that “over 90 percent of all gang rapes on college campuses involve fraternity men” (Hummer, 1989). Most often these woman may be labeled as trash, shameful, or ready for action, aside from a victim, prey, or survivor. Rape myths encourage these deprecating terms for women and cover the reality of a rape culture.
The biggest challenge facing college students today has nothing to do with education. It has nothing to do with the heavy workload, the stress, or even the unreasonably high costs of tuition (even though that is a close second). The biggest challenge that college students have to face today is rape and sexual assault. Rape is the most common act of crime on college campuses, and is a huge, yet overlooked problem. One in every four college woman will be a victim of sexual assault during her years of study.
In other cultures, rape is a way of marrying the women of your choice. “Marriage by capture” practiced in Hmong culture. Hmong men simply pick a girl, take her to their home and rape her, then they are considered married. To Americans, that is a horrifying idea, but for the Hmong people it is a cultural norm. In America, it is a serious form of socially deviant behavior.
When you think of socks, what comes to mind? Like me, I’m sure you picture the everyday items you wear on your feet to keep them comfortable. In recent times however it appears that socks have become a national topic of debate, with a divided public opinion. How could such a trivial thing become so important to society? A respected teacher at Nelson College for Girls highlighted just how controversial such a small item of attire could be, prompting the wake of what we teenagers believe should be a national, global topic of conversation - rape culture. The issue arose when the teacher made an innocent comment communicating the pornographic and creepy ‘look’ of the thigh-high sock students had been wearing as opposed to regular tights. The specific choice of language implied the socks were an invitation for sexual prejudice; the socks were asking for more than what their wearer was aware. The statement was only a surface layer to a deeper societal issue.
Rape, or forcible sexual intercourse without consent from both parties, may involve physical violence, threats, and verbal abuse to intimidate and violate one person's body. Rape is considered a federal offense in the Western world. A perpetrator committed in the act of forcible intercourse is known as a rapist. According to the American Medical Association, rape
Rape also known as sexual assault is having sexual intercourse or any form of sexual penetration against a person’s will or consent. It could be carried out by coercion, the use of physical power or abuse of authority. It is an act many societies, if not all discourage, and attracts different form of punishment in different geographical locations. There are many consequences of rape; some people suffer from depression, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, Suicidal tendencies, and Anxiety Disorder. It was not a surprise when the Mr. Cosby’s alleged case of rapes were waved and flooded to the entire media channels in the USA and other countries. Majority of people can recall number of such cases where some prominent African – Americans were sued
People believe a woman is more likely to claim they’re victims of rape by their spouse because women are stereotyped as excessively emotional. The stereotype that women are constantly emotionally unstable, especially in relationships is false. Anyone is able to decide if they want to give consent to their partner to have sexual relations whether they’re emotional or not. Labeling a woman as “snippy” as David Wise did, isn’t a reason to rape someone who refuses to give consent, as any other reason imaginable (McLaughlin). The thought that being a “good” spouse is to have sexual relations whenever a spouse desires is alarmingly popular throughout history and even in today’s
Rape is a very serious crime and offenders have been given a slap on the wrist punishment for that kind of crime. They should be given the death penalty if the suspect rapes and kills the victim.
‘A potential solution for reducing sexaul assault due to alcohol intoxication is a prevention method called the Bystander intervention. According to Michael Winerip, a writter for the New York Times magazine, Jane Stapleton, a University of New Hampshire researcher who runs victim assisitance programs at universities around the country and in Europe, believes the bystander intervention porogram is the best hope for reducing campus sexual assault rates (“Stepping up” par. 2). Bystander intervention is a program where a person or bystander intervenes to prevent another person from being sexually assaulted. The intervention seems pretty basic, but it can be tricky at times. Stapleton recommends getting creative when trying to intervene. Stapleton suggests that suddenly turning on the lights at a party or turning off the music can be the easiest and safest way to stop the assault. Other interventions can be done such as, spilling a drink on the possible assaulter or simply pulling them away. The goal is not only to stop the attack, but to also recognize signs of possible abuse and intervene before it crosses the line from partying to sexual assault. The method is not only called upon women to make it work, but also for men. Anyone who is witnessing an assault should intervene. These interventions are simple and require minimal effort, but can make a drastic change in someone's life. (“Stepping up” par 1-9)