When I was kid my friend called names towards my other friends, but I didn’t do anything because I thought they were joking. But then, things got worse. They kept doing it, until it become violent action. And then now when I grow up, I realize that those action is bullying. And I’m sure that most of you experiencing the same thing as me at least once, because this is really common in our society. Badriyah Fayumi, education chief for the National Child Protection Commission (KPAI), pretty much summed it up by saying, “Violence is still considered normal in many parts of society.” It’s a proof that the knowledge and comprehension about bullying is really low in our societies. That’s why first, we’re going to talk about the causes of bullying, and then …show more content…
For example, one time I saw a mother and her daughter in the food section at department store, the little girl want some snack but her mother said no. But instead of obeying her mother the girl started to whine, so her mother pinch her that makes her cry. It’s the example of the wrong way to make children obeying parents, and can you imagine if children copying this action at school ? they ask another student who is weaker to do something and when he or she said no they will pinch or even hit him or her. That’s why it’s important for parents not to force their children but gives them explanation behind their action. This action have connection with the second cause of bullying. Which children bullied their friends because of jealousy. Children are easily jealous, when a teacher gives attention towards one specific children some will feel left out. So those children who feel left out, they will start to call names such as teacher’s pet, nerd etc. And when the victim gives respond towards their action, they will push and hit him or her. Without those children realize it their action are considered as
It is worth noting that whenever the term bullying is surfaces, many people visualize it as an aggressive behavior that leads to unwanted power imbalance among school-going children. However, professionals define bullying as the use of superior strength in order for one to achieve an individual’s desire or want from another individual (Gomes, 2007). A closer look at the bullying concept reveals that, bullies bully their victims for intimidation purposes, to exercise authority and superiority, and to boost their self-esteem feeling. Actions that accompany bullying include; making threats, physically or verbally attacking the victim, spreading rumors, and excluding the victim from a group on purpose. Bullies oppress others owing to engagement
Bullying is a problem that is on the rise in society; however, many individuals have a distorted view of what bullying entails. Usually when someone thinks of bullying, they assume that it is a standard part of a child’s life. This view, on the contrary, is erroneous. Bullying is actually abnormal behavior, many times, leaving victims with a dismantled self identity. Since some people do not understand the consequences of bullying, the actions of the bully often go unnoticed and are perceived as “kids being kids”. The issue of bullying goes deeper than that nevertheless. Despite the erroneous views that many individuals hold towards bullying, it is still a distortion of normal behavior in children.
To bully is to use strength and power to intimidate or harm the ones who are weaker. In the documentary “Bully”, directed by Lee Hirsch, the theme of the film is how many teachers and parents actually do not know what is happening in the lives of the children that they care for. However, there are also so many children who are hesitant to tell anyone that they are being bullied. The film follows the lives of several children who are faced with bullying every day. This film also follows parents whose children have committed suicide. Their lives had become intolerable and no one noticed or someone noticed and they did nothing too late. There are teachers and administrators who are clueless as to what is happening and some just flat out do not want to
Children who are bullied are at risk for anxiety, loneliness, low self-esteem, depression, alcohol and drug use, running away, social withdrawal, and poor academic performance. The child that is a bully is. likely to get into fights or get injured from a fight, vandalize or steal property, drink, smoke, drop out of school and become a criminal. Whether a victim or the bully, both have unfavorable outcomes. To change the bullying culture there are some important things that need to happen. Children need a positive way to feel, this does not mean that all players win rather it means that strengths need to be recognized and encouraged. We need to teach children how to use their leadership skills to build others instead of tearing them down. Teaching our children to have empathy early can develop life skills of understanding and compassion, ultimately changing the way our children look at each other as well as how they respond to each other will change the culture. Writing in Fifty-Two Sundays, Michael Brown suggests “We, as a country, need to take the time to understand what is really happening in the bullying debate so that we can take action that will actually help the
We have all heard of the saying “sticks and stones, may break my bones, but words will never hurt me”. This statement couldn’t be further from the truth today. Mankind has had a long history with violence with one clear goal in mind, and that is to obtain power and authority. There are many different types of violence, one of them is bullying. We live in a time where bullying at school is becoming more of an issue than ever before. Statistics show that the age group that bullying most affects kids is between 12-18 years old. In 2016 surveys have shown that 1 out of every 5 students has reported being bullied (National
Many kids all around the world are abused by their parents, peers or even by complete strangers. One of these types of abuse is bullying. At a first glance, we might think that it is an older kid beating/teasing a younger classmate however; bullying consists of much more than this. The basic definition of bullying is when your behavior hurts or harms another person physically or emotionally. There are many different types of bullying, which may lead to a victim becoming violent later on. There is teasing and name calling, there is also picking and shoving the kid. However, the most extreme one would be beating up the child, hurting them physically and mainly, emotionally.
Children reflect on what the parents present. Children who bully believe that their parents would not forgive them if they did something wrong. Arguably, they learn from their parents to be unforgiving towards others, and feel justified in acting aggressively (Rigby, 2013). For example, at a young age I had my first experience with racism which lead to me personally being a bully. I learned term like “chink”, “cracker”, “honkey”, “spic” and etc. I took these labels to school with me. Certain people they were different than I suffered the consequences of being different. I tormented them, called them names pushed them around, and took their lunch monies. Another example, I had and older brother that tortured me every chance he got. He beat me up, locked me in closets, took my money and pushed me around. So naturally I learned things from home and took them to
Specific Purpose: To persuade people to stop the bullying and help the people that are dealing with it.
I look around and as I thought I had just smashed my one-hundredth alarm clock. I feel like I should get a medal for my hard work every day, breaking alarm clocks......not.
Good Morning/Afternoon fellow class mates, the issue that I have come to share and talk about with you today is Bullying. It is all around us, everyone bullies, no matter what you think or have done, you’ve most likely bullied someone.
Have you ever bullied someone before or are you a victim of being bullied? Well, bullying is described as an immoral and aggressive behaviour where it has an impact on one person to another. This is caused by people assuming they are dominant, superior in age or position. The bully also brings that unnatural anger on someone and tries to victimised them so that they can feel good about themselves. Bullying can occur in a range of places from schools to public places, even at home. Now these days technology is also a problem because of cyberbullying. Cyberbullying is becoming an infamous territory to battle their victims as it is often used to humiliate them on social media. As a result, we can say that schools’ bullies have become a huge problem these days. The concept of a bully is that some students who lack in specific qualities in the eyes of the bully is a target for them in order for them to become popular. To be honest, bullying is a bad sign which results in lowering victim’s emotions and this may lead to mental illnesses such as depression and suicidal attempts. Actually, bullying to be present in school should not be tolerated in every possible way because it is violating a person’s human rights. This speech talks about the causes and the consequences of bullying as well the opinions to persuade you to be against bullying in schools and in general.
What if you were terrified to go to your school every day? 160,000 students miss school each day because they get bullied and are scared of what will happen (“Bullying Statistics”). Bullying has been a major problem in schools for far too long. Students should not be scared to go to a place that is supposed to be safe and where they can express themselves. Students that bully never get the punishment they deserve, which causes them to continue to act. When you go to school, you should know that if you are getting treated in a horrific way, the people who were treating you that way will get punished. Students who bully should be suspended from school.
I've been talking a lot with Brayden here lately about these accidents he has been having at school. I know at home when his attention is focused on something he likes watching or likes doing he will sometimes have accidents. I felt like it was because he didn't want to miss out on whatever was going on at that moment and was ignoring his body. I've had many talks with him about making sure he always stops and goes when he needs to go! That whatever he is doing at that time will still be there when he gets back. We did have this issue before he started school, but he had showed a lot of improvement before school had started and we followed through with letting him start. He really wanted to go to school and we explained that in order to come to school everyone had to follow the same rules and that they also had to be able to use the bathroom and not accident on themselves. I even made sure he knew he could take a bathroom break anytime he needed to. I wanted to make sure he understood what I was saying and so I would have talks with him a little everyday before school had started. I talked to him about the stuff he would be doing in school, all the fun stuff he would be learning, and everything that was expected of everyone who went to school. We got to the point where he was only having a accident here and there and by the time school started he was doing great! Maybe a accident once a week. I felt like that's what he needed.. like that is what drove him to
Bullying has become a very hot topic in schools and on social media. There is a chant kids say “sticks and stones my break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” This is totally false. In truth, words can kill. Bullying is a fact of modern society; it can cause psychological effects and in most cases result in self-harm. I believe preventative measures to reduce bullying in schools and social media should be taken.
Every day, millions of people wake up afraid of bullies. Bullying can happen anywhere, anytime. Bullying is a big issue these days, and bullies’ actions are very unpredictable. No one knows who a bullies’ next target might be and what their reasoning is. Today, bullying can be considered more extreme than it was even ten years ago, with the advent of the internet and resulting cyber-bullying. Many celebrities and organizations are speaking out for the cause, warning others about the dangers of bullying and the sometimes-fatal consequences.